What happens when honesty becomes a career risk?

This conversation dives into why so many gay men in professional sports remain closeted—and why the issue has nothing to do with masculinity, toughness, or talent. Using the cultural impact of Heated Rivalry as a lens, we unpack visibility, power, locker-room culture, emotional safety, and what actually happens when athletes come out while still playing.

From real statistics to real-world examples, this episode explores why being “the first” still carries so much weight—and why stories like this matter far beyond fiction.

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Ever been told you’re asking for too much in the bedroom?

This episode was sparked entirely by listener comments, and wow, did they expose some deep-rooted double standards around sex, pleasure, emotional labor, and communication.

We’re breaking down:
• Why having standards isn’t entitlement
• The emotional labor women carry into the bedroom
• Why “just communicate” isn’t that simple
• The truth about sex toys, shame, and masculinity
• How performance pressure hurts everyone

If you’ve ever felt judged for how you show up sexually, this episode is for you.

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Most people treat anal like a bucket-list stunt.
Try it once, decide forever, never revisit it.

That’s the problem.

In this episode of Taboo Talk: Not Safe for Brunch, we break down why anal play isn’t about bravery or pressure, it’s about skill, anatomy, communication, and going slow enough for your body to actually enjoy it.

We cover:
• Why your first attempt doesn’t mean anything
• How different bodies experience anal stimulation
• What actually makes it pleasurable (and what makes it painful)
• Beginner to advanced toy progression
• Pegging, prostate play, and safety that actually matters

No fear tactics. No shame. No nonsense.

🎧 Let’s make anal make sense.

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What if orgasms were one of the most powerful wellness tools you’re not using enough?

In this episode of Taboo Talk Not Safe for Brunch, we break down the science behind orgasms, stress relief, nervous system regulation, and why pleasure is not extra, it’s essential.

We’re talking hormone cocktails, pelvic floor health, immune support, myth-busting, and introducing our boldest idea yet: the 200 Orgasm Challenge for 2026.

Solo or partnered. Fun and factual. Zero shame.

Welcome to pleasure on purpose.

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The holidays are loud, exhausting, and wildly unsexy… or are they? In this episode of Not Safe for Brunch, we dive into real listener questions about holiday quickies, exhaustion, zero privacy, and why social media makes everyone feel broken. Spoiler: you’re not broken. You’re just tired.

We talk delegation, scheduling sex, five-minute escapes, realistic expectations, and how connection doesn’t disappear just because the house is full. If you’re surviving December and wondering where intimacy went, this episode is for you.

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Forget vision boards. In this episode of Not Safe for Brunch, we’re doing a year-end sex audit. What turned us on, what shut things down, what surprised us, and what we are absolutely leaving behind.

We talk about saying no without guilt, libido changes, obligation sex, menopause realities, unexpected turn-ons, and why communication matters more than frequency. Whether you’re partnered or single, this is a real-talk reset for your intimacy heading into the new year.

Grab your cocoa, your vibrator, or both. Let’s debrief.

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In this episode of Taboo Talk: Not Safe for Brunch, we’re talking holiday stress, family dynamics, money tension, mental load, and how all of it impacts intimacy. From hosting and traveling to childhood bedrooms to mismatched libidos and unrealistic expectations, we’re keeping it honest, funny, and very real.

If you’re hiding from your family in the bathroom right now, we see you.

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Today we’re diving into the psychology of dominance and submission — why people crave giving up control, taking control, or switching between the two. We’re breaking down the science, the fantasies, the communication, and how to explore power play safely and confidently. If you’ve ever wondered why anticipation hits so hard, why confident dominance is an art, or why so many people fantasize about surrender, this one’s for you.

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