It's time to go home! Just like in a Christmas story, the family finally gathers around the tree. But in stories, there are often difficult trials. This story is no exception.

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Sources:

Article: The art of not sweeping behind one's door: understanding men's repertoire of domestic inaction thanks to Christine Delphy, by Laura Carpentier-Goffre, 2022

Study: Surrogate mothers 10 years on: A longitudinal study of psychological well-being and relationships with the parents and child, Jadva, V., Imrie, S., & Golombok, S., 2015, Human Reproduction, v. 30

Report: Sexist acts during gynecological and obstetric care, HCE, 2018

Article: Médiapart: Sexism, racism, and homophobia: the High Council for Equality lives the opposite of what it preaches

Article: Médiapart: The High Council for Equality is bogged down in crisis

Comic book: Women don't die by chance, by Rotman, Ferné, and Bouillon

Essay: Creating a different kind of family, Gabrielle Richard

Study: Maternal mortality in France, Santé Publique France, ENCMM 2016-2018

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To go further:

CLARA Association

APGL Association

Mes Deux Papas Association

ADFH Association

Collectif Familles Association

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Mixed by Les Belles Fréquences. Copyright: “Beautiful Daughter,” by Jason Shaw; “A Jolly Good Christmas” by The Jangle Book; “Deck the Halls” by Martin Riopel; “The Lost City” by Tewar; “Birth of Life” by SoundDesign; “Get the Pressure” by Klimenko Music.

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It's the long-awaited moment! (And what a long wait it has been!!) Everything converges on this moment lasting just a few hours: the birth. And yet... we prepare so little for it, especially as men. What are the particularities of a birth in a surrogacy process? What about the first separation?

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Sources:

Essay: Faire famille autrement (Building a Family Differently), by Gabrielle Richard

Essay: Pourquoi m’as-tu abandonné (Why Did You Abandon Me), by Jean-Charles Bouchoux

Essay: Rupture(s) (Breakup(s), by Claire Marin

Podcast: France Inter, In Utero, by Zoé Varier

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To learn more:

CLARA Association

APGL Association

Mes Deux Papas Association

ADFH Association

Collectif Familles Association

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Mixed by Les Belles Fréquences. Copyright: “Beautiful Daughter,” by Jason Shaw; “An Epic Journey,” by Elliott; “Southern Grit,” by Justin Breame; “A Sprinkling of Magic,” by Porter Productions; “Pagoda,” by Marc Walloch.

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Clearly, no one knows how to be a dad. And yet, when a male couple becomes parents, they have to figure it out, because there is no woman in the household forced to fill in the gaps. And this is far from easy when the short length of paternity leave keeps them away from the crib...

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Sources:

· Les couilles sur la table, Tuaillon

· Les enfants vont bien, Démettre

· Parentalité(s), Bouychou

· Faites des gosses, Revol

· Chroniques du sexisme ordinaire, Marine-Pétroline

· Papatriarcat, Rostein

· Mansplaining, Messias

· Fils à Papa(s), Beaugrand

· Fallait le dire, Emma

· L’arnaque des nouveaux pères, Jourdain et Daudin, 2024

· The Second Shift, Hochschild et Machung, 1989

· Espaces et temps de la « production d’enfants », Boulet, 2020

· Les étudiant-e-s parents, Gaide, 2020

· Qui lave le linge sale de la famille ?, de Stambolis-Ruhstorfer et Gross, 2021

· Être en couple gay, Courduriès, 2019

· RFAS 2025-3 : “Les encadrements de la paternité”

· L’art de ne pas balayer derrière sa porte, Carpentier-Goffre, 2022

· Les « nouveaux pères » trop pépères, Le Monde, 2024

· Les chiffres-clés de l’inégalité en France et dans le monde, Oxfam

· MHB, liste des entreprises qui participent au financement des GPA

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There are a thousand ways to experience pregnancy. But for intended parents who go through surrogacy, it is usually at a distance. How can we cope with the thousands of miles that separate us for nine months from what matters most to us in the world?

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Sources:

Article: Escrow account fraud, CNN July 19, 2024

Broadcast: Le Lobby Radio Campus Paris June 28, 2024

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To learn more:

CLARA Association

APGL Association

Mes Deux Papas Association

ADFH Association

Collectif Familles Association

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Mixed by Les Belles Fréquences. Copyright: “Beautiful Daughter,” “Forever Believe” by Jason Shaw; “The Sun The Moon” by Big Score Audio, “Feel Good Anthem” by INPLUSMUSIC, “Neon Future” by Remember The Future, “Loading Screen” by Grayson DeSmet, “Solemn Silent Night” by Sunshine Music

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In surrogacy, the contract between the Surrogate and the Intended Parents is a key document that clarifies the rights and obligations of each party. Why does it raise so many questions among opponents? What does it actually contain, in detail? We reveal it all in this episode.

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Sources:

Study: Fatal workplace accidents in France

Study: Why women have abortions in the US

Study: Assisted reproductive technology and perinatal risks

Study: Maternal mortality in France

Article: Maternal mortality in the United States

ASRM, SEEDS, how to become a surrogate mother in the US: see episode 6

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To learn more:

CLARA Association

APGL Association

Mes Deux Papas Association

ADFH Association

Collectif Familles Association

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Mixed by Les Belles Fréquences. Copyright: “Beautiful Daughter,” “Forever Believe” by Jason Shaw; ‘Unchangeable’ by Swan Productions, “Embers of Eternity” by 407 music

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Assisted Reproductive Technology (ART) is always part of a surrogacy process. Who is involved? What are the steps involved? How does one choose an egg donor? What are the ethical and social issues involved?

Note: this is the English version of the French podcast "Papa GPA". Same author, same content, same structure, just... in English!

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Sources:

Film: Gattaca

French Podcast: Les Pieds sur terre, the long wait for black women

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To find out more:

Association CLARA

Association APGL

Association Mes Deux Papas

Association ADFH

Association Collectif Familles

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Mixed by Les Belles Fréquences. Copyright: “Beautiful Daughter”, “Forever Believe” by Jason Shaw ; “Violet Letter” by Aulx Studio, “Peaceful Paradise” by Taizo Audio

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How does one find a surrogate? And above all, how does one ensure it is being done ethically? What are the conditions, assessments, steps and procedures? What role does the agency play in all this? What are the safeguards?

Note: this is the English version of the French podcast "Papa GPA". Same author, same content, same structure, just... in English!

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Sources:

Asso Men Having Babies (international)

Asso CLARA (France)

Asso APGL (France)

Asso Mes Deux Papas (France)

Asso ADFH (France)

Association Collectif Familles (France)

Asso Familles Arc en Ciel (Switzerland)

Asso Famiglie Arcobaleno (Italy)

Asso Galehi (Spain)

Asso FFLAG (Great Britain)

... other associations exist in these countries and beyond. Thank you to them.

SEEDS committee and recommendations (USA)

ASRM Committee and recommendations (USA)

Study: Analysis of sociodemographic profiles and motivations of surrogates, José Ángel Martínez-López

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Mixed by Les Belles Fréquences. Copyright: “Beautiful Daughter”, “Forever Believe” by Jason Shaw ; “Kill The Noise” by Black Rhomb, “Emotional Labyrinth” by Tiny Music

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Why do we say “surrogate”? How do we talk about all these new roles and relationships? And by the way, where is the mother? We don't have the words to convey the strength and subtleties of our journeys. And that sometimes creates a certain confusion that is not without impact.

Note: this is the English version of the French podcast "Papa GPA". Same author, same content, same structure, just... in English!

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Sources:

Letter from a surrogate to the child she carried: Instagram, @julhac, published on 14/02/2022

Article: Donald Winnicott, The primary maternal preoccupation. in: From Pediatrics to Psychoanalysis

Additional article: John Bowlby: Attachment theory

Seminar in Grenoble Alpes: see Episode 04

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To find out more:

Association CLARA

Association APGL

Association Mes Deux Papas

Association ADFH

Association Collectif Familles

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Mixed by Les Belles Fréquences. Copyright: “Beautiful Daughter”, “Forever Believe” by Jason Shaw ; “Old School Cartoons” by Good News Tunes, “Letters to Mountains” by Mad Horse

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