In this episode of Real Over Ideal, host Vanessa Gorelkin explores the concepts of yin and yang as they relate to self-care, balance, and personal growth. She discusses the importance of recognizing one's tendencies towards action (yang) or receptivity (yin) and offers practical suggestions for achieving a harmonious balance in daily life. The episode also addresses a listener's question about work-life balance, providing evidence-based strategies for creating boundaries and transitions between work and personal time. Ultimately, Vanessa emphasizes that balance is a journey of awareness and self-compassion, rather than a destination of perfection.

Takeaways
The tension between doing and being is something a lot of us wrestle with.
Balance between yin and yang produces harmony.
Neurodivergent individuals often feel these tensions more intensely.
Identifying your own tendencies is the first step to balance.
Small shifts can create ripples of balance over time.
Saying no is an act of self-care.
You do not need neurosurgery, just awareness and intention.
Balance doesn't mean every day is perfectly equal.
The journey itself can be comforting and exciting.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Yin and Yang in Life

02:58 The Balance of Doing and Being

07:14 Identifying Personal Tendencies

07:58 Practical Suggestions for Balance

11:14 Listener Question: Achieving Work-Life Balance

Link to Severed Podcast:

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14:21 Embracing the Journey of Balance

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Summary

In this episode of Real Over Ideal, Vanessa Gorelkin explores the complex topic of masking neurodivergent traits. She discusses the pros and cons of masking, its impact on mental health, and the importance of context and safety in deciding when to mask.

Vanessa emphasizes that masking is not inherently good or bad but should be a choice rather than a necessity. The episode also includes practical strategies for managing masking and unmasking in various environments.

Takeaways

• Masking is a tool, not inherently good or bad.
• Chronic masking can lead to mental health issues.
• Masking should be a choice, not a necessity.
• Context and safety are crucial in masking decisions.
• Unmasking should be intentional and safe.
• Masking can protect against discrimination.
• Unmasking everywhere is not always advisable.
• Healthy masking is flexible and temporary.
• Unhealthy masking feels like hypervigilance.
• Grief about masking deserves respect.

Chapters

• 00:00:00 Introduction to Masking
• 00:03:00 Defining Masking
• 00:06:00 Pros and Cons of Masking
• 00:09:00 Impact on Mental Health
• 00:12:00 Practical Strategies for Masking

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Vanessa is available to consult professionally with individual clients. If you'd like to work with Vanessa , reach out here:

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If you'd like to read about Vanessa's background, treatment perspective and techniques, or other handy information about her practice, check out her Psychology Today profile here:

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/vanessa-gorelkin-scottsdale-az/809467

In this episode, Vanessa Gorelkin and guest, Diana Magallon Romero, Licensed Clinical Counselor, delve into the complex topic of grief, exploring its many facets and surprise- grief goes way beyond the loss of life.

Vanessa and Diana discuss how grief is a response to change, whether it's losing a loved one, a friend, a job, or even a way of life. Diana shares her insights as a clinical counselor, emphasizing the importance of acknowledging and processing grief to find meaning and healing.

The conversation also touches on the role of psychedelics in therapy and how they can aid in redefining one's mental map after a significant loss.

If you'd like to explore working with Diana, her website is:

https://www.luxumbracounselling.com/

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If you'd like to submit an "Untangle This" question, a comment, or an episode idea-- Email us:

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Vanessa is available to consult professionally with individual clients. If you'd like to work with Vanessa , reach out here:

https://vanessagorelkin.com/contact-us#12398ed6-3711-4e15-ae41-4711059fd6ab

If you'd like to read about Vanessa's background, treatment perspective and techniques, or other handy information about her practice, check out her Psychology Today profile here:

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/vanessa-gorelkin-scottsdale-az/809467