Friends, today our hearts are heavy as we sift through the news about the horrible violence against women and children that is committed every day in our country and around the world. We talk with our favorite mental health professionals - Kelly Slaven and Jessica Brazeal of The Haven Wellness Center in Dallas, TX and Hillary Owen of Driftwood Healing in Santa Rosa Beach, FL about the root causes of violence against women, what we need to heal collectively, and the harm that patriarchy inflicts on men, women, children, and our planet. As bell hooks says “Feminism makes it possible for men and women to know love.” We invite you to join us in this conversation today and to invest in a future rooted in matriarchy and care for all. Show Notes:Sarah Bareilles - hands off my bodyThe Haven Wellness Center in Dallas, TXDriftwood Healing in Santa Rosa Beach, FLbell hooks - The Will to Change: Men, Masculinity, and Love (email radicalsacredpod@gmail.com for a copy) Men who Hate Women by Laura BatesGloria SteinemI have Some Questions for You by Rebecca MakkaiTrauma and Recovery by Judith HermanEvery Man: Why Violence Against Women is a Men’s Issue, and How You Can Make a Difference by Jackson KatzChapters00:10 Introduction to the episode and guest contributions03:56 Grounding through connection and creative activities08:05 The patriarchy and bell hooks' perspective on love and maleness12:03 The social and cultural roots of violence and groupthink15:51 Parenting, modeling, and teaching consent and respect19:50 The importance of belonging, community, and positive reinforcement24:09 The socialization of children and the importance of role models27:55 Parenting, community, and creating spaces of belonging31:54 The importance of relationship, connection, and role modeling35:59 The impact of social movements like Me Too and political shifts38:03 The role of faith, religious institutions, and Christian nationalism40:04 Challenging harmful religious and societal narratives41:55 The importance of love, compassion, and reimagining God44:01 Practical steps for dismantling patriarchy and fostering love45:59 Resources and books for understanding and challenging patriarchy47:52 The power of relationship and community in social change49:49 The importance of intentionality and activism in everyday life51:56 Creating spaces of belonging and love for boys and men53:50 The role of women and marginalized groups in social transformation55:00 Closing thoughts and call to action for listeners
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