Are you doing all the "right things" for your menopause symptoms—hormone therapy, nutrition, exercise, stress management—but still not feeling like yourself?

In this episode of Pleasure in the Pause, host Gabriela Espinosa welcomes back licensed psychotherapist Ashley Turner for a groundbreaking conversation about psychedelic-assisted therapy and microdosing as complementary support during the menopause transition.

Ashley Turner is a licensed marriage and family psychotherapist, yoga/meditation teacher, and founder of Yoga Psyche Soul, specializing in integrating Eastern spiritual practices with Western psychology (depth, shadow, and somatic psychology, women's mental health) for 25 years. After her own intense menopausal mental health struggles (depression, anxiety, confidence loss, cognitive issues), Ashley explored psychedelic-assisted therapy and psilocybin microdosing. She is completing her psychedelic-assisted therapy certification through the Integrated Psychiatry Institute in Boulder, focusing on psilocybin, ketamine, and MDMA. Ashley created the six-month Metamorphosis program for menopause and recently launched The Portal, a 12-week microdosing and menopause group therapy program with Golden Rule.

Highlights from our discussion include:

• Menopause is a developmental phase, not just a medical event.
• Mental health symptoms during menopause can persist even with optimal lifestyle interventions.
• Psilocybin microdosing creates neuroplasticity and can act as a natural mood stabilizer.
• Psychedelic-assisted therapy is different from microdosing on your own.
• "No pills without skills" applies to all interventions, including psychedelics.

This week, get curious: educate yourself by watching Ashley's masterclass on Microdosing and Menopause, read one of the books she mentioned (Mycelio-Pause or The Psilocybin Guidebook for Women), or simply journal about what you're experiencing emotionally and psychologically beyond the physical symptoms. Remember, you deserve all the tools available to thrive—not just survive—this transition.

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Resources Mentioned:

• Mycelio-Pause: Using Mushrooms in the Menopausal Transition
• The Psilocybin Guidebook for Women by Jennifer Chesak
• Andrew Huberman's podcast on psilocybin and neuroscience
• Golden Rule (female-owned psilocybin microdosing company based in Colorado)
• UK study on microdosing and menopause
• Brian Johnson's live-streamed psilocybin macro dose journey

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Are you experiencing low libido, loss of sexual desire, or intimacy challenges during perimenopause or menopause? In this episode of Pleasure in the Pause, host Gabriela Espinosa joins Dr. Anna Cabeca on The Girlfriend Doctor Show to share her deeply personal story of sexual awakening during midlife.

Together, they address one of the most common yet rarely discussed symptoms of perimenopause: the complete loss of sexual desire. Gabriela opens up about how her libido plummeted overnight, leaving her without the language to describe what was happening—and the transformative journey that led her to become a sexual wellness coach.

Dr. Anna Cabeca is a board-certified gynecologist, women's health expert, and hormone specialist known as "The Girlfriend Doctor." She is passionate about empowering women to reclaim their health, hormones, and vitality during midlife and beyond. Dr. Anna specializes in sexual health, intimacy, and menopause care, helping women address the "three Ds" that affect intimacy: desire, disconnect, and discomfort. She is the creator of innovative vulvar health products designed to support women's sexual wellness during hormonal transitions. Through her podcast, online communities, and clinical work, Dr. Anna provides practical, compassionate guidance for women navigating perimenopause and menopause.

Key Takeaways

• Loss of libido during perimenopause is biological, not personal failure.
• Most women don't know their own pleasure anatomy.
• Arousal in midlife requires time, presence, and communication.
• The three Ds affect intimacy (desire, disconnect, discomfort), but the three Ps restore it.
• Unpacking shame and inherited narratives is essential work.

Your body isn't broken, and menopause isn't the end of pleasure—it's an invitation to discover yourself in new ways.

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Are you feeling the weight of another year passing while navigating the changes of perimenopause and menopause? Do you struggle to make sense of midlife transitions—the shifting hormones, changing body, evolving desires, and the pressure to have it all figured out? In this intimate end-of-year solo episode of Pleasure In The Pause, host Gabriela Espinosa guides you through a reflective journey to release what no longer serves you and reclaim what matters most as you step into 2026.

Whether you're grappling with metabolic changes, declining desire, or simply feeling invisible in a youth-obsessed culture, this episode offers evidence-based insights on the future of midlife health, sexual wellness, and longevity—plus powerful journaling prompts to help you transition into the new year with clarity, confidence, and self-trust.

Highlights from our discussion include:

• Midlife health is entering the mainstream
• Sexual wellness is finally recognized as healthcare
• Policy victories matter for your care
• New podcast segments to support your journey
• Reflection is an act of self-care

As you close out 2025 and step into the new year, remember this truth: your pleasure has no expiration date. Your body, your desires, and your wisdom matter exactly as they are right now.

Take time this week to work through the journaling prompts shared in this episode—ask yourself what you're ready to carry forward and what you're ready to leave behind.

Then, submit your questions for the new "Ask Me Anything" segment anonymously to hello@pleasureinthepause.com No question is too personal or too awkward—this is your shame-free space.

Subscribe to Pleasure In The Pause so you don't miss the exciting new conversations coming in 2026, and share this episode with a woman in your life who needs permission to prioritize her pleasure and step into her next chapter with confidence.

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Are you struggling with hormone therapy that isn't working? Wondering why testosterone for women is so hard to access? Feeling confused about vaginal estrogen warnings? This special Best of 2025 episode of Pleasure In The Pause tackles the most pressing questions midlife women asked this year about hormone optimization, sexual satisfaction, and reclaiming pleasure during perimenopause and menopause.

Host Gabriela Espinosa revisits the year's most downloaded conversations—featuring leading women's health experts discussing hormone therapy optimization, the truth about testosterone for women, the historic FDA hearing on vaginal estrogen, redefining sexual satisfaction in midlife, exploring fantasy and desire, and discovering the five essential pleasure principles every woman should know. Whether you're navigating symptoms, considering hormone therapy, or simply want to feel more alive in your body, this episode delivers evidence-based insights and empowering tools for thriving through midlife.

Featuring conversations with Dr. Jila Senemar, Dr. Susan Hardwich-Smith, Dr. Laurie Mintz, and Lauren Elise Rogers.

Highlights from our discussion include:

• The "big three" hormones—estradiol, progesterone, and testosterone—each address different menopausal symptoms, and treatment should be individualized based on your top priorities like sleep, mood, energy, or libido.
• Women naturally produce more testosterone than estradiol throughout their lives, yet have zero FDA-approved testosterone products compared to men's 20+, despite proven benefits for libido, bone health, muscle mass, and cognitive function.
• Low-dose vaginal estrogen cannot be detected in the bloodstream yet carries an unfounded FDA black box warning, preventing millions of women from accessing a safe treatment that prevents 50% of UTIs.
• Only 4-18% of women orgasm from penetration alone, and less than 2% use penetration when masturbating—closing the pleasure gap requires prioritizing clitoral stimulation as the main event, not just "foreplay."
• Erotic fantasy, built on the four cornerstones of longing, taboo, power, and ambivalence, can be a healthy springboard to arousal when integrated openly rather than pushed into the shadows.
• A turned-on life in midlife isn't about performance or sexy lingerie—it's about living in alignment with what fuels your joy, vitality, and truth, whether through art, nature, movement, or intimate touch.

2025 was a turning point for women's health—from historic FDA hearings to conversations shattering decades of sexual myths and medical dogma. These six episodes represent what midlife women are hungry for: truth, empowerment, and permission to reclaim pleasure on their own terms.

As you move into 2026, remember that your pleasure isn't optional—it's your birthright. Whether you're advocating for better hormone therapy, learning what actually brings you to orgasm, or discovering what makes you feel fully alive, this is your invitation to thrive.

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Struggling with vaginal dryness, decreased sensitivity, or feeling disconnected from your body in midlife? You're not alone. In this solo episode of Pleasure in the Pause, host Gabriella Espinosa shares her personally tested intimate wellness tools and self-care rituals that support vulva vitality, arousal, and sensual connection during menopause and beyond. From vaginal moisturizers and arousal oils to vibrators backed by research, Gabriella breaks down why intimate wellness isn't optional—it's essential self-care.

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Whether you're experiencing menopause symptoms like tissue thinning and reduced lubrication, or simply want to deepen your pleasure practice, this episode offers practical product recommendations and embodied rituals to help you reconnect with your sensuality. Think of it as your intimate wellness holiday gift guide, designed to remind you that your pleasure has no expiration date.

Key Takeaways:

• Intimate wellness is essential self-care, not optional.
• Vaginal skin care products can transform your comfort and confidence.
• Lubrication is non-negotiable during intimacy—there's zero shame in using it.
• Vibrators are wellness tools backed by science.
• Sensual rituals extend pleasure beyond the bedroom.

Your body—exactly as it is right now—is worthy of attention, care, and pleasure. This week, choose one ritual or tool from this episode to explore.

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Do you feel invisible as a woman over 40? Struggling with body image after menopause, weight gain, or breast cancer? Wondering if you're "too old" to feel sexy and confident again? In this transformative episode of Pleasure in the Pause, host Gabriela Espinosa welcomes portrait and boudoir photographer Felicia Reed for an intimate conversation about reclaiming your sensuality, worthiness, and power in midlife.

Felicia shares her personal journey through breast cancer, forced menopause, and body changes—and how photography became her path back to self-acceptance. If you've ever thought "I'll do a photoshoot when I lose weight" or felt like you've lost yourself in the roles of mom, wife, and caregiver, this episode offers permission to show up authentically, celebrate your body now, and rewrite the narrative around aging and beauty.

Felicia Reed is a passionate portrait photographer and Master Mindset Coach, as well as a resilient breast cancer survivor. With a mission to help people break free from the chains of limiting beliefs, Felicia empowers her clients to live lives of freedom and fulfillment. She encourages you to boldly ask for what you desire, reminding you that what you want wants you just as much.

Key Takeaways:

• You are worthy of being seen right now
• Boudoir photography is about reclaiming your power, not perfection
• The domino effect of female empowerment
• Menopause body changes require self-compassion, not self-criticism
• Creating visual legacy anchors your boldness

Here's your permission slip: You don't have to wait. You don't have to be smaller, younger, or different. You are allowed to invest in yourself, to be seen, to feel sensual and powerful exactly as you are in this moment.

As Felicia beautifully reminds us: "You are worthy to be celebrated, period. For no reason whatsoever. Just because."

Your next step: If this conversation stirred something in you—that quiet inner nudge to honor where you are right now—listen to it. Whether it's booking a photoshoot, speaking kinder words to your reflection, or simply giving yourself permission to take up space unapologetically, choose one small act of self-celebration this week.

Special note: Felicia is celebrating her 50th birthday this December with a special promotion—$397 photoshoots with a $1,000 gift card toward packages. Connect with her if you're ready to gift yourself this transformative experience.

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Struggling with low libido, painful sex, or poor sleep during menopause? There's a science-backed wellness tool that can help with all of these symptoms and more—but it's been wrapped in shame for far too long. In this episode, we're having an honest, research-based conversation about vibrators as legitimate health tools for midlife women, and why sexual wellness is essential wellness. This episode explores how vibrators support women's health during perimenopause and menopause, backed by compelling research from the Kinsey Institute and other studies.

You'll discover why the clitoris is the primary source of orgasm for 80% of women, how external vibration improves pelvic floor health without requiring orgasm, and why midlife libido shifts from spontaneous to responsive desire. We'll bust harmful myths, discuss different types of vibrators, share practical guidance on choosing and using them, and explain how regular use can improve sleep, mood, stress levels, lubrication, and menopause symptoms. This is a shame-free, science-grounded guide to reclaiming your pleasure and vitality.

Key Takeaways / Main Points:

• Research shows women ages 40-65 rated self-pleasure at 4.35 out of 5 for menopause symptom relief, more effective than many lifestyle changes

• The clitoris contains over 10,000 nerve endings and external stimulation is how 80% of women experience orgasm

• Gentle external vibration for just 5-10 minutes, 2-3 times weekly improves pelvic floor relaxation, reduces UTIs, eases vaginal dryness, and relieves painful intercourse

• Vibrators increase blood flow to genital tissue, restore sensitivity lost to declining estrogen, and help your body remember pleasure

• Orgasms release dopamine, oxytocin, and endorphins that regulate mood, lower cortisol, improve sleep, and strengthen your pelvic floor

Check out Gabriella's Intimacy Holiday Gift Guide for curated vibrator recommendations, lubricants, and sensual essentials to support your journey. Remember: you deserve sensation, connection, and joy—not someday, but now.

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Looking in the mirror and not recognizing your body anymore? Despite eating well and staying active, your body keeps changing in ways that feel beyond your control. Your jeans don't fit, your belly feels thicker, and your old fitness routine just isn't working.

In this episode of Pleasure in the Pause, host Gabriella Espinosa talks with menopause fitness specialist Megan Dahlman about what's really happening to your body during perimenopause and menopause—and what you can actually do about it. Learn practical, science-backed strategies to build strength, improve body composition, and feel confident in your changing body.

In her 17 years of professional training, Megan Dahlman has become the sought-after trainer for women over 40 who want to be strong and live a long, healthy life. Leveraging a degree in Exercise Science and certification as a Strength and Conditioning Specialist (CSCS), she has an uncanny ability to make fitness and nutrition simple, doable, and, most importantly, sustainable. No fad diets or trendy gadgets required!! Through her weekly newsletter, top-ranked podcast, and popular online training programs and courses, her mission is to help every woman in midlife (and beyond) feel strong, pain-free, and confident in all aspects of her body.

Highlights from our discussion include:

• Understanding body composition: It's not just about the scale—learn the difference between lean mass (muscle, bone, organs) and fat mass, and why muscle matters more than ever in midlife.
• Visceral vs. subcutaneous fat: Menopausal women store more dangerous visceral fat around organs due to declining estrogen, which explains belly weight gain even without scale changes.
• Muscle is your superpower: Building muscle improves metabolism, bone density, hormone regulation, and energy. Make strength training your primary focus and other health goals will follow.
• Know your metabolic body type: Understanding if you're an ectomorph, mesomorph, or endomorph helps you set realistic expectations and train effectively for your unique body.
• Three essential exercises: Do these anywhere—squats (10 reps), countertop push-ups (10 reps), and planks (hold for 3-5 deep breaths).
• Hormones matter: Declining estrogen disrupts cortisol and insulin regulation. Manage stress daily through walks, breathwork, and rest.
• Break the all-or-nothing cycle: Stop swinging between extreme restriction and giving up. Ask daily: "What can I do today?"
• It's not too late: Your body can still build strength and improve at any age, regardless of your starting point.

This week, choose ONE movement that feels good in your body and do it daily—not as punishment, but as an act of self-care.

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