The way you love other people is rarely “just about them.” It’s usually a reflection of how you treat yourself when nobody’s watching.

In this episode, we talk about how self-talk, boundaries, rest, and forgiveness shape the way we show up in relationships. We unpack why overgiving can be a form of self-abandonment, why bitterness often points to unhealed places, and how learning to receive is part of becoming whole. If your love has been loud but your needs have been silent, this one will hit home.

Pace 2 Purpose with Nomie Pace Wallace & Aprill Pace Williams

Love should not require you to shrink, over-explain, over-function, or abandon yourself just to keep the peace.

In this episode, we talk about what it looks like to love people with a full heart and a firm backbone. We unpack the difference between love and people-pleasing, why guilt is not a sign you’re doing something wrong, and how boundaries can be an act of kindness, not rejection. Whether it’s relationships, friendships, family, church, or work, this conversation will help you stay connected without disappearing.

Pace 2 Purpose with Nomie Pace Wallace & Aprill Pace Williams

In this episode of Pace 2 Purpose, we’re diving into the real-life challenge of staying in your own lane—knowing when to pause, when to move, and how to stay grounded in what God called you to do.

Nomie and Coach Aprill open up about setting practical, purpose-aligned goals, trusting your intuition, and silencing the voice of imposter syndrome. We also explore the difference between obedience and discipline, and how scripture offers clear guidance for timing, purpose, and staying on course.

This is your reminder: you don’t have to rush, compare, or prove anything. Just stay in your lane—and move when God says move.