The way you love other people is rarely “just about them.” It’s usually a reflection of how you treat yourself when nobody’s watching.

In this episode, we talk about how self-talk, boundaries, rest, and forgiveness shape the way we show up in relationships. We unpack why overgiving can be a form of self-abandonment, why bitterness often points to unhealed places, and how learning to receive is part of becoming whole. If your love has been loud but your needs have been silent, this one will hit home.

Pace 2 Purpose with Nomie Pace Wallace & Aprill Pace Williams

Love should not require you to shrink, over-explain, over-function, or abandon yourself just to keep the peace.

In this episode, we talk about what it looks like to love people with a full heart and a firm backbone. We unpack the difference between love and people-pleasing, why guilt is not a sign you’re doing something wrong, and how boundaries can be an act of kindness, not rejection. Whether it’s relationships, friendships, family, church, or work, this conversation will help you stay connected without disappearing.

Pace 2 Purpose with Nomie Pace Wallace & Aprill Pace Williams

In this episode of Pace 2 Purpose, we’re diving into the real-life challenge of staying in your own lane—knowing when to pause, when to move, and how to stay grounded in what God called you to do.

Nomie and Coach Aprill open up about setting practical, purpose-aligned goals, trusting your intuition, and silencing the voice of imposter syndrome. We also explore the difference between obedience and discipline, and how scripture offers clear guidance for timing, purpose, and staying on course.

This is your reminder: you don’t have to rush, compare, or prove anything. Just stay in your lane—and move when God says move.

If it were easy, everyone would call it purpose. But purpose usually shows up where comfort ends.

In this episode, we talk about why purpose often feels inconvenient, stretching, and unfamiliar. We unpack the difference between discomfort and “this isn’t for me,” why obedience can feel heavy before it feels holy, and how to recognize alignment even when your emotions are loud. We also make room for the grief that comes with growth: letting go of old roles, mourning versions of yourself you actually liked, and missing people who can’t go where you’re going.

If you’ve been wondering why the right path still feels hard, this conversation will help you keep moving with clarity, not confusion.

Pace 2 Purpose with Nomie Pace Wallace & Aprill Pace Williams

Purpose isn’t free. It costs comfort, convenience, and sometimes the version of you that people liked best.

In this episode, we talk about the real price of purpose: letting go of what’s familiar, grieving old roles and relationships, and learning the difference between discomfort and disobedience. We unpack why obedience can feel heavy before it feels holy, why peace doesn’t always show up at the beginning, and how to choose alignment over emotion when your feelings are loud but your calling is steady.

If you’ve been asking, “Why does doing the right thing feel so hard?” this one is for you.

Pace 2 Purpose with Nomie Pace Wallace & Aprill Pace Williams

“If purpose were actually running from you, it would be tired by now. Yet so many of us are exhausted trying to catch something that was never meant to flee.”

This isn’t a “find your purpose” episode. This is about why the chase is draining us. We unpack the cultural lie that purpose is a destination, how anxiety can disguise itself as ambition, how hustle can masquerade as obedience, and how comparison can push you into motion that isn’t yours.

Then we talk about what stillness reveals, how purpose shows up through consistency and faithfulness, and we leave you with a practical 3-Question Pause to help you move with peace instead of pressure.

Pace 2 Purpose with Nomie Pace Wallace & Aprill Pace Williams