Épisodes

  • The Power of Chosen Family with Daniel Blevins, Founder of Stand In Pride
    Feb 26 2026

    In this episode, Bryan and Jon engage with Daniel Blevins, the founder of Standin' Pride, discussing the importance of chosen family, the journey of creating a supportive community for LGBTQ+ individuals, and the personal experiences that shaped Daniel's mission. They explore the evolution of Standin' Pride from a viral TikTok video to a nonprofit organization, the significance of emotional support in various life events, and the ongoing need for community involvement and resources.

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    Time Stamps:

    00:00 The Power of Chosen Family

    03:07 Standin' Pride: A New Beginning

    05:58 Personal Journey and Parenting

    08:56 Coming Out and Authenticity

    12:12 Beyond Weddings: Expanding Support

    14:46 Community Needs and Volunteerism

    17:51 Balancing Life: Hobbies and Self-Care

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    chosen family, Standin' Pride, LGBTQ+, community support, coming out, emotional support, nonprofit, parenting, technology, personal journey

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    27 min
  • Transforming Lives: The Power of Authenticity with Eric Feltes
    Feb 24 2026

    In this engaging conversation, Bryan Ruiz and Eric Feltes explore the transformative journey of self-acceptance and authenticity, particularly within the LGBTQ+ community. Eric shares his personal experiences and the foundation of his life coaching practice, emphasizing the importance of community, self-love, and the process of unmasking one's true self. The discussion delves into overcoming the inner critic through compassionate curiosity, the significance of acknowledging emotions, and the value of finding beauty in messiness rather than striving for perfection. Eric highlights the breakthroughs he witnesses in his clients, illustrating the profound impact of coaching on personal growth and acceptance.

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    Time Stamps:

    00:00 Introduction to Life Coaching by Feltus

    01:38 Eric's Journey and Transformation

    04:20 Creating a Supportive Community

    07:04 Unmasking and Authenticity

    11:30 Compassionate Curiosity and Inner Critic

    17:02 Breakthrough Moments in Coaching

    19:16 Valuing Messiness Over Perfectionism

    19:51 The Performance of Identity

    22:11 Acknowledging and Embracing Emotions

    24:16 Understanding Guilt vs. Shame

    25:46 The Lightning Round: Quickfire Insights

    30:54 Connecting with Eric Feltes: Resources and Programs

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    Life Coaching, LGBTQ+, Self-Love, Authenticity, Community, Inner Critic, Transformation, Coaching Breakthroughs, Guilt vs Shame, Personal Growth

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    34 min
  • The Power of Queer Joy in Media with Rachel Shatto
    Feb 19 2026

    In this engaging conversation, Rachel Shatto, editor-in-chief of Pride.com, discusses the balance of reporting on the hardships faced by the LGBTQIA community while celebrating their joys. She emphasizes the importance of authentic storytelling, the role of curiosity in her work, and the challenges of combating misinformation in media. Rachel also shares insights into her daily routine, the significance of taking breaks for mental health, and her collaborative approach to leadership. The episode concludes with a fun 'This or That' segment, showcasing Rachel's personality and interests.

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    Time Stamps:

    00:00 Introduction to Rachel Shatto and Her Work

    01:11 Balancing Hard News with Queer Joy

    03:49 The Role of Authentic Storytelling

    07:30 Curiosity as a Driving Force

    10:15 Leadership and Team Collaboration

    12:26 A Day in the Life of an Editor

    15:03 Combating Misinformation in Media

    17:50 Protecting Personal Peace

    21:12 Fun and Games: The Chateau Edition

    22:30 Crafting the Perfect Headline

    23:27 The NYC Rooftop vs. LA Poolside Debate

    25:35 Cocktails, Beers, and the Social Scene

    27:25 Reality Shows as Modern Documentaries

    31:10 The Art of Interviewing vs. Being Interviewed

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    Rachel Shatto, queer media, Pride.com, LGBTQIA, storytelling, authenticity, joy, mental health, media ethics, cultural commentary

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    35 min
  • Redefining Fatherhood: The Gaddies Journey with David Morgenstern
    Feb 17 2026

    In this engaging conversation, David Morgenstern, the creative force behind Gaddies, shares insights into his journey as a queer dad and entrepreneur. He discusses the evolution of his brand, the importance of community engagement, and the challenges of balancing personal identity with business. David reflects on the significance of representation and celebration within the LGBTQ+ community, and how his experiences as a parent have shaped his approach to business. The conversation also touches on the fun and lighter side of parenting and personal style, culminating in a playful game segment.

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    Time Stamps:

    00:00 Introduction to David Morgenstern and Gaddies

    02:02 The Evolution of Gaddies and Community Impact

    05:18 Consumer Feedback and Brand Adaptation

    09:20 Balancing Personal Identity and Business

    12:56 Parenting and Intentionality in Business

    16:06 Navigating Vulnerability and Authenticity

    18:30 Trusting Ideas and Building Confidence

    19:24 Future Plans for Gaddies and Community Engagement

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    David Morgenstern, Gaddies, queer parenting, community building, brand identity, consumer insights, parenting, self-discovery, LGBTQ+ representation, family values

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    27 min
  • Valentine’s Day: Celebrating Love and Self-Acceptance with David Hernandez
    Feb 12 2026

    In this special Valentine's Day episode, hosts Jon and Bryan welcome back singer-songwriter David Hernandez to discuss his journey in music, the impact of his song 'Beautiful', and the release of 'Beautiful 2.0'. David reflects on his personal growth, the importance of self-love, and the significance of collaboration with fellow artist Mila. The conversation touches on the pressures of fame, the evolution of confidence, and how Valentine's Day can be a celebration of self-love and chosen family.

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    Time Stamps:

    00:00 Valentine's Day Celebration with David Hernandez

    02:15 The Journey of 'Feel It All' and Its Impact

    04:48 Reimagining 'Beautiful' for a New Era

    08:51 Full Circle: Collaborating with Mila

    10:02 The Evolution of Self-Love and Sobriety

    13:24 Reflecting on the Challenges of 2016

    15:40 The Shift from Surviving to Thriving

    18:55 Valentine's Day: A Celebration of Self-Love

    21:32 Rapid Fire: Valentine's Day This or That

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    Valentine's Day, self-love, David Hernandez, Beautiful 2.0, music journey, collaboration, LGBTQ+

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    26 min
  • Radical Honesty: Navigating Love and Identity with Steven Peters
    Feb 10 2026

    In this engaging episode, hosts Bryan Ruiz and Jon sit down with Steven Peters, a digital powerhouse known for his radical honesty and vulnerability. The conversation begins with a light-hearted discussion about their shared Florida roots, transitioning into deeper topics such as the political climate in Florida and its impact on personal safety and identity. Steven shares his journey from curated content to embracing authenticity, revealing how a viral moment on social media led him to discuss body dysmorphia and the complexities of dating in today's world. The trio explores the challenges of dating in New York City, the importance of self-care, and the liberating power of vulnerability in building connections.

    As the conversation unfolds, Steven reflects on his sober curiosity and how it has transformed his perspective on social interactions and personal well-being. He emphasizes the significance of being intentional in dating and the importance of surrounding oneself with like-minded individuals. The episode concludes with a fun segment where Steven shares his preferences in a light-hearted game, showcasing his personality and humor. Overall, this episode is a heartfelt exploration of identity, community, and the journey toward self-acceptance.

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    Time Stamps:

    00:00 Introduction to Steven Peters

    03:02 Reflections on Florida and Personal Safety

    06:05 The Shift to Authenticity and Vulnerability

    09:12 Sober Curiosity and Self-Care

    11:09 Navigating Dating in New York City

    13:52 The Importance of Intentional Dating

    17:01 Advice to His Younger Self

    19:59 Fun Segment: This Is That Now

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    radical honesty, dating, body image, vulnerability, sober curiosity, New York City, community, self-care, authenticity, personal growth

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    25 min
  • Breaking Barriers: LGBTQ+ Representation in Sports
    Feb 5 2026

    In this engaging conversation, Bryan and Jon explore the representation of LGBTQ+ athletes in the Winter Olympics, discussing historical context, current athletes to watch, and the influence of media and pop culture on the perception of these athletes. They highlight the challenges faced by openly gay athletes and the evolving narrative around LGBTQ+ representation in sports. The conversation is filled with humor and personal anecdotes, making it both informative and entertaining.

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    Time Stamps:

    00:00 Winter Olympics and Community Representation

    02:58 Historical Context of LGBTQ+ Athletes

    05:53 Current LGBTQ+ Athletes to Watch

    08:57 The Role of Media and Pop Culture

    12:03 The Evolution of LGBTQ+ Representation

    15:00 Fun and Games: Olympic Style This or That

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    Winter Olympics, LGBTQ+ representation, gay athletes, sports, media, pop culture, community, history, current events, athletes

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    25 min
  • Navigating Life Shifts with Matt Gilhooly
    Feb 3 2026

    In this episode of Out Loud and Laughing, hosts Bryan Ruiz and Jon welcome Matt Gilhooly, an award-winning storyteller and host of the Life Shift podcast. The conversation delves into their shared high school experiences, the impact of grief on personal growth, and the importance of vulnerability and authenticity in storytelling. Matt shares the origins of his podcast, which began as a school assignment during the pandemic, and how it evolved into a platform for exploring life-changing moments. The discussion emphasizes the significance of listening, being present, and creating a safe space for others to share their stories. The episode concludes with light-hearted rapid-fire questions that reveal more about Matt's personality and preferences.

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    Time Stamps:

    00:00 Introduction to the Life Shift Podcast

    02:58 High School Memories and Shared Experiences

    06:00 The Birth of the Life Shift Podcast

    08:48 Navigating Grief and Personal Stories

    12:07 Finding Your Voice and Authenticity

    15:04 The Art of Listening and Being Present

    17:47 Curiosity and Connection in Storytelling

    24:27 Navigating Conversations: The Role of the Host

    25:00 This or That: Fun Insights into Matt's Life

    29:02 The Balance of Work and Podcasting

    30:01 The Importance of Listening

    31:59 Personal Preferences: Scruff vs. Clean Shaven

    32:57 Living Preferences: Florida vs. Massachusetts

    34:01 Closing Thoughts: The Value of Conversation

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    podcast, storytelling, personal growth, grief, authenticity, vulnerability, high school, emotional awareness, life shifts, listening skills, The Life Shift, Matt Gilhooly

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    35 min