Most people assume the fashion and modeling worlds are rooted purely in sexuality and male gaze—Yasmin Benoit challenges that with her radical authenticity and activism. As the first openly asexual grand marshal at NYC Pride and a trailblazing figure in alternative fashion, she turns societal expectations upside down, revealing how visibility can be a powerful act of liberation. But what happens when a space built on hypersexualization is navigated by someone who simply doesn’t see sex or desire the same way?

In this episode, Yasmin shares her raw journey from an unpopular, heavy metal-loving kid in England to an international model and fierce activist transforming perceptions of identity and representation. She discusses how her choice to attend an all-girl school was a protective instinct, fueling her understanding of her own boundaries even before she knew the labels. We break down the misconceptions about asexuality—how it’s often misunderstood, stereotyped, and ultimately erased in mainstream media—and how Yasmin’s viral campaign, “This is what asexual looks like,” sparked a global movement that’s unlearning shame and inspiring countless individuals to embrace their true selves.You'll discover:

• The surprising ways Yasmin navigates the hypersexualized fashion industry while staying true to her identity
• How her activism sparked the framing of asexuality as a valid, visible experience in diverse communities worldwide
• Practical strategies for protecting your mental health when constantly being called to educate others
• The importance of authentic representation—not just for visibility, but for shifting societal narratives and laws
• Why diversity in media and industry isn’t just a trend—it's a necessity for genuine inclusion

This episode isn’t just about Yasmin’s stunning career or her activism—it’s about unlearning societal programming, reclaiming your own voice, and choosing joy on your own terms. Whether you’re navigating your own identity or fighting to create space for others, Yasmin’s story offers a blueprint for authenticity, resilience, and radical love.

Yasmin Benoit is an international model, award-winning actor, research fellow at King’s College London, and activist for asexual and LGBTQ+ visibility. She’s transforming how we see identity—one bold act at a time.

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Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Yasmin Benoit

03:01 Yasmin's Origin Story and Early Life

06:05 Navigating School and Identity

09:01 Entering the Modeling World

12:00 The Impact of Asexuality and Activism

15:03 The Burden of Being an Educator

18:01 Fun and Games: This or That

21:02 Closing Thoughts and Where to Find Yasmin

Yasmin Benoit, Asexuality, LGBTQ+ activism, Diversity, Representation, Modeling, Viral Campaign, This is what asexual looks like, Pride, Mental health

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Most people think of the adult entertainment industry as a realm where passion and ambition clash with shame and stereotypes. Zane Kazan, a trailblazing actor, content creator, and founder of Helio Menswear, shatters that misconception by unapologetically owning his sexuality while aiming for mainstream greatness. In this candid conversation, he reveals how he's balancing bold business ventures, a sex-positive brand, and the relentless pursuit of his dreams — all without sacrificing authenticity.

You’ll discover how Zane built his empire while working 16-hour days launching his menswear line, overcoming marketing challenges with Meta’s strict policies, and using his extensive knowledge to rebrand and amplify his reach across nine platforms. He shares the secret to maintaining a positive attitude through setbacks, including tens of thousands lost and industry chaos, by reading voraciously and always aspiring to be the smartest person in the room.

We also break down Zane’s unique approach to owning his identity: embracing his body, unlearning shame, and turning radical self-love into both his personal and professional power. His story isn’t just about success — it’s about redefining what it means to be unapologetically you in a world eager to box people in.

Perfect for anyone craving motivation with real talk, this episode offers fierce inspiration and practical tactics to own your truth and level up on your terms.

X: @ZaneKazan

Instagram: @zane.kazan

TikTok: @zane_kazan

Instagram: @heliomenswearco

Website: Helio Men’s Wear (heliomenswear.com)

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Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Zane Kazan

01:10 A Day in the Life of Zane

02:12 Early Influences and Entering the Industry

04:07 Balancing Ambition and Authenticity

06:00 Goals and Challenges in Business

07:25 The Importance of Continuous Learning

09:11 Embracing Sexuality and Body Positivity

11:02 Behind the Scenes of Adult Content Creation

12:27 Future Aspirations and Rebranding

14:29 This or That: Quickfire Questions

19:21 Closing Thoughts and Social Media Links

Zane Kazan, adult entertainment, sex positivity, branding, entrepreneurship, social media, mental health, hustle, authenticity

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Most theater kids dream of turning their childhood shyness into a dazzling career — and Connor DeVoe did just that, blending singing, dancing, acting, and even puppetry into a vibrant, multifaceted life. But it wasn’t always glamorous; he reveals how early stage fright almost kept him from singing “Tomorrow” at preschool and shares the gritty realities of moving to New York City with an unpaid internship in his pocket.

In this episode, Connor pulls back the curtain on the unpredictable journey from shy kid to Broadway swing, dance captain on Disney cruises, and puppeteer for top-tier productions. You'll discover how he managed 36 tracks at once, navigated the heartbreak of being cut from roles due to equity status, and found resilience to keep going through the chaos of showbiz. We break down the surprising crossover between puppeteering and charisma, and why his secret weapon is charm over manipulation—plus, the hilarious way his puppet skills might just help him find love on the high seas.

Get inspired by Connor’s blend of humor, hustle, and authenticity as he shares lessons about grit, reinvention, and staying true to your passion. Whether you’re an aspiring performer, a creative soul, or just someone chasing a dream in the face of adversity, this episode is your reminder that your quirkiest talents could be your greatest superpower.

Instagram: @conordevoe

TikTok: @conordevoe

Website: conordevoe.com

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Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Connor DeVoe: A Quadruple Threat

02:58 The Journey to New York City: Grit and Growth

06:22 The Art of Performance: Balancing Multiple Roles

09:04 Puppetry and Personal Connections: A Unique Perspective

12:00 Dating and Relationships: Insights from the Stage

15:02 This or That: Fun Rapid-Fire Questions

18:55 Closing Thoughts and Future Endeavors

theater, Broadway, Disney, puppetry, musical theater, cruise line, acting, singing, dancing, performer journey

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