Book Alan’s Business Breakthrough Session. Your first 30-minute coaching call is FREE. Learn how to prioritize success and let your quality of life become the byproduct. - https://calendly.com/alanlazaros/30-minute-breakthrough-session

Fitness isn’t temporary; it’s a lifelong lifestyle. Get jacked and join the Next Level Strength Challenge. This group is invite-only. Reach out to Kevin or Alan on Instagram:
Kevin: https://www.instagram.com/neverquitkid/
Alan: https://www.instagram.com/alazaros88/

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The hardest decisions are often the ones where your emotions sound the most logical. In today’s episode, Kevin and Alan dissect the difference between rational decision-making, impulsivity, and self-justification. They examine how short-term emotion, confirmation bias, delayed gratification, and personal blind spots can quietly shape choices that feel reasonable in the moment but work against your long-term goals.

Drawing from their own experiences, years of coaching, and thousands of conversations on personal development, Kevin and Alan break down how to tell the difference between fast action and impulsive behavior. They also discuss the role of self-awareness, focus, calculation, and long-term alignment in making better decisions across health, wealth, relationships, and performance. This episode is about learning to recognize when you are making a deliberate choice and when you are simply giving yourself a convincing excuse.

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Digital Asset:
The Top 10 Distractions Holding You Back - https://drive.google.com/file/d/1FDUSnbitxR4E2G4hlgkpm0T-BZxLVto6/view

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NLU is more than a podcast. From the Next Level Dreamliner to Group Coaching, we provide tools and communities to help you grow with more clarity, consistency, and accountability.

Visit our website and socials through the links below. 👇

Website: http://www.nextleveluniverse.com

Instagram:
Kevin: https://www.instagram.com/neverquitkid/
Alan: https://www.instagram.com/alazaros88/

Facebook:
Alan: https://www.facebook.com/alan.lazaros
Kevin: https://www.facebook.com/kevin.palmieri.90/

Email:
Kevin@nextleveluniverse.com
Alan@nextleveluniverse.com

LinkedIn:
Kevin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kevin-palmieri-5b7736160/
Alan: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alanlazarosllc/

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Show notes:
(2:46) Doing what is actually best
(4:01) Investment Vs. Impulsive consumption
(7:48) What you want Vs. What you need
(9:53) Three tests for better decisions
(13:12) Impulsivity and delayed gratification
(16:40) Fast action Vs. Impulsive action
(18:40) Where are you still impulsive?
(20:03) Distractions that weaken self-control
(21:23) Fundamentals that never go out of style
(26:41) Outro

Send a text to Kevin and Alan!

🎙️ Hosted by Kevin Palmieri and Alan Lazaros

Next Level University is a top-ranked daily podcast for dream chasers and self-improvement lovers. With over 2,100 episodes, we help you level up in life, love, health, and wealth one day at a time. Subscribe for real, honest, no-fluff growth every single day.

Book Alan’s Business Breakthrough Session. Your first 30-minute coaching call is FREE. Learn how to prioritize success and let your quality of life become the byproduct. - https://calendly.com/alanlazaros/30-minute-breakthrough-session

Fitness isn’t temporary; it’s a lifelong lifestyle. Get jacked and join the Next Level Strength Challenge. This group is invite-only. Reach out to Kevin or Alan on Instagram:
Kevin: https://www.instagram.com/neverquitkid/
Alan: https://www.instagram.com/alazaros88/

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What if the goal you are working so hard to achieve is quietly building a life you will not want to maintain? In today’s episode, Kevin and Alan elucidate the difference between chasing an outcome and choosing a direction that still fits once the sacrifice, responsibility, and repetition become real. Drawing from years of coaching, business building, leadership, and more than 2,500 episodes of personal development conversations, they examine how goals shape identity, habits, environment, and long-term behavior.

They also discuss the hidden costs behind success, how to recognize whether a goal is genuinely aligned, and why studying the full life behind an achievement matters before committing years to it. Before you climb another mountain, make sure you actually want the view, and the hike back down.

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Episode Reference:
#1 - How to Set Goals That Actually Work: https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/quantum-goal-setting-alan-lazaros/

Digital Asset:
True North Questions - https://drive.google.com/file/d/1QSOlLmiRP7eeW6-D6ID1MNZ56sb5Vdwj/view?usp=drive_link

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NLU is more than a podcast. From the Next Level Dreamliner to Group Coaching, we provide tools and communities to help you grow with more clarity, consistency, and accountability.

Visit our website and socials through the links below. 👇

Website: http://www.nextleveluniverse.com

Instagram:
Kevin: https://www.instagram.com/neverquitkid/
Alan: https://www.instagram.com/alazaros88/

Facebook:
Alan: https://www.facebook.com/alan.lazaros
Kevin: https://www.facebook.com/kevin.palmieri.90/

Email:
Kevin@nextleveluniverse.com
Alan@nextleveluniverse.com

LinkedIn:
Kevin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kevin-palmieri-5b7736160/
Alan: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alanlazarosllc/

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Show notes:
(2:14) The hidden cost of success
(6:34) Choosing the right goal
(9:45) When success looks different than expected
(12:27) What are you genuinely obsessed with?
(14:49) The downsides of the life you wanted
(16:14) Study the life behind the goal
(21:57) Questions that reveal your True North
(24:10) Raise your standards through your environment
(27:33) Outro

Send a text to Kevin and Alan!

🎙️ Hosted by Kevin Palmieri and Alan Lazaros

Next Level University is a top-ranked daily podcast for dream chasers and self-improvement lovers. With over 2,100 episodes, we help you level up in life, love, health, and wealth one day at a time. Subscribe for real, honest, no-fluff growth every single day.

Book Alan’s Business Breakthrough Session. Your first 30-minute coaching call is FREE. Learn how to prioritize success and let your quality of life become the byproduct. - https://calendly.com/alanlazaros/30-minute-breakthrough-session

Fitness isn’t temporary; it’s a lifelong lifestyle. Get jacked and join the Next Level Strength Challenge. This group is invite-only. Reach out to Kevin or Alan on Instagram:
Kevin: https://www.instagram.com/neverquitkid/
Alan: https://www.instagram.com/alazaros88/

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In this episode of Next Level University, hosts Kevin Palmieri and Alan Lazaros assess what it really means to keep your edge without letting it control you. They break down the difference between grit and self-destruction, scarcity and reliability, discipline and overcorrection. The conversation also examines how certain behaviors can help you succeed early, then become liabilities as your responsibilities, capacity, and standards change.

You’ll learn how to identify the traits that give you a competitive advantage, recognize when those traits are being overused, and make better adjustments without becoming complacent. Sustainable growth requires more than effort. It requires self-awareness, accurate thinking, and the ability to evolve without abandoning the fundamentals that built your progress. Keep the edge. Upgrade the way you use it.

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NLU is more than a podcast. From the Next Level Dreamliner to Group Coaching, we provide tools and communities to help you grow with more clarity, consistency, and accountability.

Visit our website and socials through the links below. 👇

Website: http://www.nextleveluniverse.com

Instagram:
Kevin: https://www.instagram.com/neverquitkid/
Alan: https://www.instagram.com/alazaros88/

Facebook:
Alan: https://www.facebook.com/alan.lazaros
Kevin: https://www.facebook.com/kevin.palmieri.90/

Email:
Kevin@nextleveluniverse.com
Alan@nextleveluniverse.com

LinkedIn:
Kevin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kevin-palmieri-5b7736160/
Alan: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alanlazarosllc/

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Show notes:
(1:49) Fear of losing your edge
(3:02) When burnout feels productive
(8:21) Grit without self-destruction
(9:47) Using your edge intelligently
(14:23) Scarcity Vs. Reliability
(20:01) Learning through failure
(24:06) When sacrifice becomes automatic
(26:25) Finding the sustainable middle
(34:06) Rebuilding your competitive advantage
(37:46) Outro

Send a text to Kevin and Alan!

🎙️ Hosted by Kevin Palmieri and Alan Lazaros

Next Level University is a top-ranked daily podcast for dream chasers and self-improvement lovers. With over 2,100 episodes, we help you level up in life, love, health, and wealth one day at a time. Subscribe for real, honest, no-fluff growth every single day.

Book Alan’s Business Breakthrough Session. Your first 30-minute coaching call is FREE. Learn how to prioritize success and let your quality of life become the byproduct. - https://calendly.com/alanlazaros/30-minute-breakthrough-session

Fitness isn’t temporary; it’s a lifelong lifestyle. Get jacked and join the Next Level Strength Challenge. This group is invite-only. Reach out to Kevin or Alan on Instagram:
Kevin: https://www.instagram.com/neverquitkid/
Alan: https://www.instagram.com/alazaros88/

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What if the reason you are not reaching your goals has less to do with motivation and more to do with what you are actually willing to prioritize? In this episode, Kevin and Alan converse about what it really means to make success a priority. They examine the gap between what people say matters and what their daily choices reveal, including how discipline, willingness, focus, and accountability shape long-term results.

This conversation will help you recognize where your priorities may be working against your goals, see when feelings are clouding your view of progress, and make clearer decisions about where your time and energy should go. You’ll leave with a more practical way to build consistency, strengthen self-awareness, and align your daily behavior with the future you want. Your calendar already knows your priorities. You might want to check whether you agree with it.

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NLU is more than a podcast. From the Next Level Dreamliner to Group Coaching, we provide tools and communities to help you grow with more clarity, consistency, and accountability.

Visit our website and social channels through the links below. 👇

Website: http://www.nextleveluniverse.com

Instagram:
Kevin: https://www.instagram.com/neverquitkid/
Alan: https://www.instagram.com/alazaros88/

Facebook:
Alan: https://www.facebook.com/alan.lazaros
Kevin: https://www.facebook.com/kevin.palmieri.90/

Email:
Kevin@nextleveluniverse.com
Alan@nextleveluniverse.com

LinkedIn:
Kevin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kevin-palmieri-5b7736160/
Alan: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alanlazarosllc/

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Show notes:
(1:38) Why success requires real priorities
(4:18) Your willingness determines your results
(8:19) The want-love-hate framework
(10:34) Making your goals a real priority
(13:18) Trust the data, not your feelings
(15:32) Identify your most valuable priority
(22:08) Choose your top three priorities
(24:17) Keep your priorities visible and measurable
(26:28) Outro

Send a text to Kevin and Alan!

🎙️ Hosted by Kevin Palmieri and Alan Lazaros

Next Level University is a top-ranked daily podcast for dream chasers and self-improvement lovers. With over 2,100 episodes, we help you level up in life, love, health, and wealth one day at a time. Subscribe for real, honest, no-fluff growth every single day.

Book Alan’s Business Breakthrough Session. Your first 30-minute coaching call is FREE. Learn how to prioritize success and let your quality of life become the byproduct. - https://calendly.com/alanlazaros/30-minute-breakthrough-session

Fitness isn’t temporary; it’s a lifelong lifestyle. Get jacked and join the Next Level Strength Challenge. This group is invite-only. Reach out to Kevin or Alan on Instagram:
Kevin: https://www.instagram.com/neverquitkid/
Alan: https://www.instagram.com/alazaros88/

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The quality of your life depends on what you are curious enough to understand. In this episode, Kevin and Alan converse about how curiosity shapes self-awareness, confidence, decision-making, and long-term personal growth. They examine the difference between learning with intention and consuming information without direction, why clear goals influence what you notice, and how deeper questions can expand your perspective.

The conversation also looks at the role of critical thinking in a world of increasing automation and easy access to information. Curiosity alone is not the advantage. The advantage comes from directing it toward the areas of life that matter most.

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NLU is more than a podcast. From the Next Level Dreamliner to Group Coaching, we provide tools and communities to help you grow with more clarity, consistency, and accountability.

Visit our website and socials through the links below. 👇

Website: http://www.nextleveluniverse.com

Instagram:
Kevin: https://www.instagram.com/neverquitkid/
Alan: https://www.instagram.com/alazaros88/

Facebook:
Alan: https://www.facebook.com/alan.lazaros
Kevin: https://www.facebook.com/kevin.palmieri.90/

Email:
Kevin@nextleveluniverse.com
Alan@nextleveluniverse.com

LinkedIn:
Kevin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kevin-palmieri-5b7736160/
Alan: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alanlazarosllc/

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Show notes:
(2:48) Curiosity builds confidence
(4:17) Goals direct what you notice
(7:04) Bigger goals require deeper curiosity
(12:41) Self-awareness through contemplation
(15:31) Curiosity creates perspective
(17:15) Awareness creates real choice
(19:00) Outro

Send a text to Kevin and Alan!

🎙️ Hosted by Kevin Palmieri and Alan Lazaros

Next Level University is a top-ranked daily podcast for dream chasers and self-improvement lovers. With over 2,100 episodes, we help you level up in life, love, health, and wealth one day at a time. Subscribe for real, honest, no-fluff growth every single day.

Book Alan’s Business Breakthrough Session. Your first 30-minute coaching call is FREE. Learn how to prioritize success and let your quality of life become the byproduct. - https://calendly.com/alanlazaros/30-minute-breakthrough-session

Fitness isn’t temporary; it’s a lifelong lifestyle. Get jacked and join the Next Level Strength Challenge. This group is invite-only. Reach out to Kevin or Alan on Instagram:
Kevin: https://www.instagram.com/neverquitkid/
Alan: https://www.instagram.com/alazaros88/

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What does grief reveal about you when life leaves very little room to hide? In this deeply personal follow-up, Kevin and Alan continue the conversation about what loss can bring to the surface, including anger, family dynamics, old patterns, and the pressure to keep showing up when your capacity is stretched thin. They examine the line between giving yourself grace and using difficult circumstances to avoid growth. The conversation also touches on how early experiences can shape the way we handle connection, abandonment, and responsibility, especially when life becomes unpredictable.

Kevin and Alan also address the practical side of loss, including financial preparation and making decisions now that can reduce unnecessary pressure later. This is a grounded conversation about grief, self-awareness, accountability, and what it means to keep growing when life gets heavy. Listen before life hands you the exam and forgets to include the study guide.

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NLU is more than a podcast. From the Next Level Dreamliner to Group Coaching, we provide tools and communities to help you grow with more clarity, consistency, and accountability.

Visit our website and socials through the links below. 👇

Website: http://www.nextleveluniverse.com

Instagram:
Kevin: https://www.instagram.com/neverquitkid/
Alan: https://www.instagram.com/alazaros88/

Facebook:
Alan: https://www.facebook.com/alan.lazaros
Kevin: https://www.facebook.com/kevin.palmieri.90/

Email:
Kevin@nextleveluniverse.com
Alan@nextleveluniverse.com

LinkedIn:
Kevin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kevin-palmieri-5b7736160/
Alan: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alanlazarosllc/

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Show notes:
(1:50) Anger as part of grief
(6:38) Seeing a different side of his mother
(14:33) What Kevin misunderstood about his family
(20:14) How early loss shaped Kevin
(25:48) Responsibility under extreme pressure
(31:55) Hardship Vs. Using it as a crutch
(36:55) What Kevin actually needed
(38:53) Preparing before a crisis
(43:16) What changes moving forward
(50:37) Self-awareness through grief
(52:50) Outro

Send a text to Kevin and Alan!

🎙️ Hosted by Kevin Palmieri and Alan Lazaros

Next Level University is a top-ranked daily podcast for dream chasers and self-improvement lovers. With over 2,100 episodes, we help you level up in life, love, health, and wealth one day at a time. Subscribe for real, honest, no-fluff growth every single day.

Book Alan’s Business Breakthrough Session. Your first 30-minute coaching call is FREE. Learn how to prioritize success and let your quality of life become the byproduct. - https://calendly.com/alanlazaros/30-minute-breakthrough-session

Fitness isn’t temporary; it’s a lifelong lifestyle. Get jacked and join the Next Level Strength Challenge. This group is invite-only. Reach out to Kevin or Alan on Instagram:
Kevin: https://www.instagram.com/neverquitkid/
Alan: https://www.instagram.com/alazaros88/

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In today’s deeply personal episode of Next Level University, Alan Lazaros interviews Kevin Palmieri about the recent loss of his mother and the difficult decisions, responsibilities, and perspective shifts that followed. Kevin reflects on what it meant to navigate grief as an only child, face an irreversible end-of-life decision, and remain present during one of the hardest moments of his life. Drawing from nearly a decade of working together and more than 2,500 episodes of personal development conversations, Alan challenges Kevin to examine what this experience revealed about courage, identity, mortality, and the difference between the easy choice and the right one.

They also discuss how adversity can permanently change your perspective, why difficult moments expose what truly matters, and how to support someone who is grieving without adding more weight to what they already carry. Some moments change your life. The question is what you allow them to change in you.

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NLU is more than a podcast. From the Next Level Dreamliner to Group Coaching, we provide tools and communities to help you grow with more clarity, consistency, and accountability.

Visit our website and socials through the links below. 👇

Website: http://www.nextleveluniverse.com

Instagram:
Kevin: https://www.instagram.com/neverquitkid/
Alan: https://www.instagram.com/alazaros88/

Facebook:
Alan: https://www.facebook.com/alan.lazaros
Kevin: https://www.facebook.com/kevin.palmieri.90/

Email:
Kevin@nextleveluniverse.com
Alan@nextleveluniverse.com

LinkedIn:
Kevin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kevin-palmieri-5b7736160/
Alan: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alanlazarosllc/

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Show notes:
(2:05) Kevin opens up about losing his mother
(7:13) Holding both good and painful memories
(11:24) Carrying responsibility through grief
(13:17) Making an irreversible end-of-life decision
(15:05) Choosing courage over avoidance
(16:45) The easy choice Vs. The right choice
(20:00) Living with mortality in perspective
(24:05) How to support someone through grief
(26:19) Outro

Send a text to Kevin and Alan!

🎙️ Hosted by Kevin Palmieri and Alan Lazaros

Next Level University is a top-ranked daily podcast for dream chasers and self-improvement lovers. With over 2,100 episodes, we help you level up in life, love, health, and wealth one day at a time. Subscribe for real, honest, no-fluff growth every single day.

Join the free Next Level Monthly Masterclass on the first Thursday of every month. This month’s topic is “Setting Up Your Q4 for Success,” with practical tools and proven principles to make Q4 more focused and intentional. - https://us06web.zoom.us/meeting/register/SUUmjorGRjm34FMj3r7xmg#/registration

Book Alan’s Business Breakthrough Session. Your first 30-minute coaching call is FREE. Learn how to prioritize success and let your quality of life become the byproduct. - https://calendly.com/alanlazaros/30-minute-breakthrough-session

Fitness isn’t temporary; it’s a lifelong lifestyle. Get jacked and join the Next Level Strength Challenge. This group is invite-only. Reach out to Kevin or Alan on Instagram:
Kevin: https://www.instagram.com/neverquitkid/
Alan: https://www.instagram.com/alazaros88/

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Your goals will only move when your daily actions match the direction you want to go. In today’s episode, Kevin and Alan offer a practical approach to Q4 planning, goal setting, habit tracking, and personal development so you can finish the year with more clarity, consistency, and control. Drawing from years of coaching, entrepreneurship, and more than 2,500 episodes of Next Level University, they break down how to connect your priorities, goals, KPIs, habits, and skill development into one clear system.

Alan shares the quarterly performance framework he uses with clients, while Kevin reflects on what changed when he stopped relying on intuition alone and started measuring what actually moves the needle. You’ll learn how to identify what deserves your focus, spot when your current strategy is no longer working, and create a structure that makes daily decisions easier. They also explain why progress can feel invisible before it becomes obvious, and how consistent tracking can help you make better adjustments before another quarter slips by.

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NLU is more than a podcast. From the Next Level Dreamliner to Group Coaching, we provide tools and communities to help you grow with more clarity, consistency, and accountability.

Visit our website and socials through the links below. 👇

Website: http://www.nextleveluniverse.com

Instagram:
Kevin: https://www.instagram.com/neverquitkid/
Alan: https://www.instagram.com/alazaros88/

Facebook:
Alan: https://www.facebook.com/alan.lazaros
Kevin: https://www.facebook.com/kevin.palmieri.90/

Email:
Kevin@nextleveluniverse.com
Alan@nextleveluniverse.com

LinkedIn:
Kevin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kevin-palmieri-5b7736160/
Alan: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alanlazarosllc/

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Show notes:
(2:10) Thinking about life in quarters
(4:13) Building a 12-week runway
(5:52) The system behind quarterly progress
(7:25) Goals, KPIs, and habits
(10:41) Identify your most important skill
(13:46) Why progress feels invisible
(15:21) Identity without action creates delusion
(18:50) Reassess your strategy every quarter
(20:01) Results often lag behind the work
(24:10) Stop winging your success
(26:24) Reverse-engineering a real client goal
(30:08) Outro

Send a text to Kevin and Alan!

🎙️ Hosted by Kevin Palmieri and Alan Lazaros

Next Level University is a top-ranked daily podcast for dream chasers and self-improvement lovers. With over 2,100 episodes, we help you level up in life, love, health, and wealth one day at a time. Subscribe for real, honest, no-fluff growth every single day.