My Other Boyfriend is a Vibrator … With Hallie Katherine

GUEST: Tiffany Yelverton, Founder of Entice Me Soirees, and Sexy Survivors

Trigger Warning

This episode includes discussion about: Mental health, homophobia, self-harm, suicidal ideation, non-consensual kinks and religious topics. Please listen with care.

SUMMARY:

Do you want more sex? Or is it actually that you just want better sex? That’s the distinction Tiffany Yelverton was finally able to make through a journey of self-exploration. Her sexual awakening ultimately resulted in the founding of Entice Me, an online boutique that also offers classes, coaching and fun soirees. It’s all about empowering women (and their partners) to enjoy all the benefits that orgasms confer! This episode of My Other Boyfriend is a Vibrator … is all about closing the pleasure gap and opening women up to the richness of their sexuality.

Based in Long Beach, CA, Tiffany is known as The Sex Toys Scientist and Orgasm Guru. Her mission is to educate and entice people into fuller, more robust, more joyful sex lives. She is also an advocate for highest standards of health and safety within the sex toys manufacturing space. Her recommendation? When it comes to retail, think twice if you’re under the impression that the vibrators you’re buying from Amazon and other third-party platforms are a great deal. Learn why that’s absolutely not the case. Think counterfeit – and second-hand goods!

G. Lyonns is a sex coach, former midwife, and ProDom/kink educator with almost 20 years of professional experience in BDSM applications. She has been teaching aspiring BDSM professionals for over 3 years in Philadelphia and NYC and offers a comprehensive FemDom Mentorship program and kink academy.

Founder of the Mars Contract- sex and power coaching for men that focuses on cultivating personal power, healing trauma, nervous system regulation, liberation from shame (esp sexual shame), and restoring the social contract of masculinity on the planet. She works with the full spectrum of men from autogynephilia counseling & advocacy to numerous online trainings designed to heal and prevent erectile dysfunction and other sexual insecurities 100% naturally.

My Other Boyfriend is a Vibrator … With Hallie Katherine

GUEST: Andi MacDowall, Romance Author and Mom

Trigger Warning

This episode includes discussion about: Mental health, homophobia, self-harm, suicidal ideation, non-consensual kinks and religious topics. Please listen with care.

SUMMARY:

This episode of My Other Boyfriend is a Vibrator … features a sexy, kinky romance writer whose marriage is as hot as the fictions she creates. And that’s saying something for a mother of five in Kansas who has been with her husband for 18 years. Andi MacDowall is a sex-positive method writer who enthusiastically immerses herself in a rich array of romantic scenarios.

Starting back in school as a bylined film reviewer for her student newspaper, Andi knew writing was her passion. But after an early effort to wow traditional publishing houses, she lost confidence and gave up trying. Fortunately for us she found her way back and has since enjoyed success with a variety of both indie and self-published works. 

Andi is sharing her personal story, the behind-the-scenes on how she comes up with her ideas (it’s experiential and often involves her husband) as well as why writing in the first-person helps her evoke the texture and nuance of sexual ple --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/myotherboyfriendisavibrator/support

My Other Boyfriend is a Vibrator … With Hallie Katherine

GUEST: Sex and Intimacy Coach Azaria Menezes (aka The Pussy Fairy)

Trigger Warning

This episode includes discussion about: Mental health, homophobia, self-harm, suicidal ideation, non-consensual kinks and religious topics. Please listen with care.

SUMMARY:

Empowered sexuality resides above all else in self-love, which is why Sex and Intimacy Coach Azaria Menezes is focused on teaching women how to connect with and openly embrace their bodies. Trauma, shame, religious teachings and the media all contribute to persistent numbing – and limited access to sexual pleasure. That’s where Azaria – aka The Pussy Fairy – is working her magic. She uses various modalities to help women uncover the source of their blocks and work through them. 

You’ll learn on this episode of My Other Boyfriend is a Vibrator … among other things what Tantric sex is and how to practice as well as why we can define our sacred in myriad ways. It’s very personal completely up to us! Azaria walks us through various techniques to deepen pleasure, whether alone or with a partner. We are challenged to find deep compassion for ourselves – even aspects that feel ugly, hard or shameful. In addition to her coaching work, Azaria is also the host of Getting Intimate, a podcast that offers practical ways to enhance our sex lives. She’s on a passionate mission to help all of us fall more in love with ourselves and with our partners. And, as we learn through exercises and the variety of orgasms Azaria highlights, getting there can be ha --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/myotherboyfriendisavibrator/support

This week on “My Other Boyfriend is a Vibrator…”, Today’s episode is a little different for us because we have the one and only Lady Petra and Saffer Master on the podcast today. If you don’t know Lady Petra and Saffer are the popular voices behind the “Kinky Cocktail Hour Podcast”. Lady Petra runs Lady Petra Playground which provides coaching, mentoring and support for individuals looking to explore or grow within the D/S lifestyle.

If you want to learn more about Lady Petra and Saffer Master, check out the Kinky Cocktail Hour Podcast here:

https://kinkycocktailhour.buzzsprout.com/

And to find out more about Slubb USA visit their website. 

Vivian Penny is an author hailing from the Evergreen State. A mother of two girls and a full-time medical professional, she has a unique and expressive form of writing that makes you feel her words more than read them. Vivian is an alter ego for the woman next door. The woman inside us all daring to speak the truth. That all women can be both respectable AND sexual.

If you'd like to learn more about Vivian and Letters to a Sadist: A Memoir here.

We speak with Navi Bliss of Navi Bliss Coaching about finding your confidence and rediscovering your confidence in yourself and your sexuality.

Navi Bliss is a certified love and relationship coach, certified inspirational speaker and host of the blissful love podcast. 

You can find out more about her here.

https://www.naviblisscoaching.com/

My Other Boyfriend is a Vibrator … With Hallie Katherine

GUEST: Princess Lola

Trigger Warning

This episode includes discussion about: Mental health, homophobia, self-harm, suicidal ideation, non-consensual kinks and religious topics.

SUMMARY:

This episode of My Other Boyfriend is a Vibrator … is about all things BDSM. It’s a community that my guest Princess Lola is illuminating, from breaking down the acronym to defining terms, from calling out the power of contracts to underscoring why safe words are important. Herself the host of the "Let's Talk About It" podcast, Princess Lola is also getting intimate about the dynamics of her full-time role as a sometimes bratty Sub with a “Dom Daddy” whose 20 years of experience in the world of BDSM have made him her perfect guide. You’ll appreciate that no questions are off-limits in this open, free-wheeling conversation.

Learn about the difference between a Dominatrix and a Sub; the beautiful intimacy of After Care; the ins and outs of full-time versus part-time Dom-Sub relationships; and why feminism that shames makes no sense and is not okay.

Whether you’re a long-time devotee or curious would-be first-timer, Princess Lola and I have resources to share and information to consider. Empowerment, freedom, communication, respect and pleasure – these are some of the core elements that make the BDSM community unlike any other. We’re offering a window in and invitation to explore. Thanks to Princess Lola for bringing her A game to the pod!

RAPID FIRE:

· Princess Lola’s favorite sex toy or kink? Butt plug.

· Biggest pet peeve about how the dominant culture represents Sub women? Labeling them as lacking self-respect or de facto having a history of sexual abuse or trauma.

· All-time favorite play scene? An intimate act ordered by “Daddy Dom” while they were seated together at a bar.

· Least favorite play scene? Anything “golden shower” – mostly for hygienic reasons!

· Most important lesson learned on the journey so far: Be honest with yourself.

GETTING STARTED:

· Princess Lola feels fortunate to have found her “Dom Daddy,” who has been in the BDSM world for two decades.

· Are you a “Brat” and a “Switch”? There may be a correlation in their personalities!

· Next up on Princess Lola’s journey: Getting involved with the community through clubs, balls or other gathering spaces.

· BDSM is about much more than pain. Being in a real Dom-Sub relationship is not just about punishment. It’s about trust. You’re giving over your body and mind.

· Differentiating: Dominatrix’s may or may not enjoy what they do. It’s a job and not the same as engaging in a reciprocal BDSM relationship.

· Feminism is not a binary or defining element of BDSM.

· Speaking Truth: A lot of intimate “vanilla” relationships lack honesty about sexual desires.

THE ABCs of BDSM:

o Defining the Acronym:

§ Bondage: The use of ropes and other restraints.

§ Discipline: An exchange of power within defined roles and boundaries.

§ Sadism: Pleasure/sexual gratification derived by inflicting pain and/or humiliation.

§ Masochism: Pleasure/sexual gratification derived from being the recipient of pain and/or humiliation.

o There are su --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/myotherboyfriendisavibrator/support