Épisodes

  • Why Waiting Is the Most Dangerous Decision You’ll Ever Make
    Jul 7 2025

    In this episode, I share a personal story of how “waiting until later” nearly cost me everything — me purpose, my relationship, and my sense of self. Learn how comfort becomes a trap, why habits harden over time, and how to break free from the illusion of "readiness." If you’ve been delaying action on something you know you need to do, this episode is your wake-up call. You’ll walk away with real insight, emotional fire, and a path forward. This might be the best chance you have to change — and it starts now.

    If you're interested in more mindset and health hacks for overwhelmed women, find me on Instagram @jaim91, or head to bit.ly/jffapplication to learn more about the 16 week 3R Method

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    6 min
  • How My Ego Almost Destroyed Everything I Loved
    Jun 30 2025

    In this episode, I share the raw truth about how my ego was sabotaging my relationship and shutting down real communication with my wife, Katie. If you’ve ever felt like you’re pushing people away while trying to hold it all together — this one’s for you. Discover the silent ways ego can destroy connection, and what it really means to show up with strength, vulnerability, and leadership. Plus, learn how to break the cycle and start building a stronger body, mindset, and life — together.

    If you're interested in more mindset and health hacks for overwhelmed women, find me on Instagram @jaim91, or head to bit.ly/jffapplication to learn more about the 16 week 3R Method

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    4 min
  • The Wall I Built to Keep Me Safe—That Kept Love Out
    Jun 23 2025

    In this episode, we explore the deep connection between vulnerability and feeling worthy of love—especially for anxious lesbians ;-) I share my personal story of how I avoided vulnerability for years, believing it made me weak, only to realize it was building walls between me and the people I cared about the most. If you struggle with emotional walls, anxious attachment, or fear being “too much” in relationships, this episode will help you soften, reconnect, and begin healing.

    If you're interested in more mindset and health hacks for overwhelmed women, find me on Instagram @jaim91, or head to bit.ly/jffapplication to learn more about the 16 week 3R Method

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    6 min
  • You Don't Suck at it - You're Just Avoiding it
    Jun 16 2025

    Struggling to stay consistent in your workouts, nutrition, or habits? You’re not broken — you’re just avoiding the hard reps. In this episode, I break down the truth behind why you’re “bad” at things, and why repetition is the only real solution. Whether it’s squats, meal prep, or building confidence, you’ll learn how to stop running and start rising. If you’ve ever felt stuck, unmotivated, or frustrated with your progress… this one’s for you.

    🎧 Listen now to discover how doing the thing you avoid is the fastest path to confidence, strength, and success.

    If you're interested in more mindset and health hacks for overwhelmed women, find me on Instagram @jaim91, or head to bit.ly/jffapplication to learn more about the 16 week 3R Method

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    4 min
  • Why Excuses are SO dangerous...
    Jun 9 2025

    In this episode of Monday Morning Mindset Shift, we're calling out one of the sneakiest forms of self-sabotage: making excuses and calling it "valid." If you've ever said, “I didn’t have time” or “I just wasn’t motivated,” you might be unintentionally giving away your power.

    We’re diving into why excuses are more than bad habits—they're a way of surrendering your agency, and how to take it back. Learn how to spot these subtle behaviors, shift your language, and make more empowered decisions this week.

    If you’re ready to stop blaming your schedule and start owning your results—this one’s for you.

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    If you're interested in more mindset and health hacks for overwhelmed women, find me on Instagram @jaim91, or head to bit.ly/jffapplication to learn more about the 16 week 3R Method

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    4 min
  • The One Person I Can't Protect Myself From
    Jun 2 2025

    “I can protect you from everything… except me.”
    Those were the words I said to my wife—and they shook me to my core.

    In this raw and vulnerable episode, I unpack what it means to be the storm in your own love story. The one who overthinks, self-sabotages, pushes people away, then spirals in shame when they leave. If you’re a lesbian or queer woman with anxiety, attachment wounds, or a nervous system that’s been wired for survival instead of safety… this one is for you.

    We talk about:

    • Being the “walking red flag” in your relationship
    • The emotional cost of self-awareness without healing
    • And why our coaching program is helping women feel safe—for the first time in their lives.

    If life has ever felt overwhelming… if you’ve ever been scared of how deeply you feel… if you’re craving safety but don’t know how to let it in—this episode will make you feel seen.

    If you're interested in more mindset and health hacks for overwhelmed women, find me on Instagram @jaim91, or head to bit.ly/jffapplication to learn more about the 16 week 3R Method

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    6 min
  • Burnout Part 2: When the Hustle is your Hiding place
    May 26 2025

    What if the grind you’re proud of… is the thing that’s quietly burning you out?

    In this raw and unfiltered episode, I’m diving into the invisible burnout—the kind that doesn’t show up in your workouts, but lives in your mind. The kind that disguises itself as ambition, discipline, or “just being busy,” but is actually fear in disguise.

    👉 Fear of slowing down.
    👉 Fear of not being enough unless you’re producing something.
    👉 Fear that rest = failure.

    If you’ve ever said “I’m fine” with a tight chest and a tired soul—this one’s for you.

    🎧 Tune in now and let this be your permission to pause, breathe, and just be human for a moment.

    If you're interested in more mindset and health hacks for overwhelmed women, find me on Instagram @jaim91, or head to bit.ly/jffapplication to learn more about the 16 week 3R Method

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    6 min
  • Burnout vs. Laziness: How to Know When You Actually Need Rest
    May 19 2025

    Burnout vs. Laziness: How to Know When You Actually Need Rest

    (And why taking a break won’t ruin your progress)

    If you’ve ever felt guilty for skipping a workout or wrestled with whether you’re actually burned out… or just being “lazy”—this episode is for you. 👇

    In today’s solo riff, I’m sharing the real talk I wish I had years ago:
    ✨ How to tell when your body is truly asking for rest
    ✨ The signs of physical burnout most high-performers ignore
    ✨ The difference between discipline and disconnection
    ✨ And why taking 1–2 days off won’t kill your progress—but pushing through might

    This one’s for the overachievers, the all-or-nothing girls, the queer women trying to “do it all” without burning the whole thing down.

    Your strength isn’t in doing more.
    It’s in knowing when to pause.

    If you're interested in more mindset and health hacks for overwhelmed women, find me on Instagram @jaim91, or head to bit.ly/jffapplication to learn more about the 16 week 3R Method

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    3 min