Okay let’s talk about being delulu

Because right now the internet is fully romanticizing the idea that if you just decide something is true, it’ll magically work out. And listen, sometimes that mindset is actually powerful as hell.

And sometimes?

It’s just avoidance in a cute outfit.

In this episode, I’m breaking down when “the delulu is the solulu” and when it quietly turns into spiritual bypassing, nervous system freeze, or straight-up lying to yourself.

I get into:

1. Why acting “as if” can genuinely change your life
2. The psychology behind why confidence before evidence actually works
3. The moment delusion stops being playful and starts being harmful
4. How manifestation turns toxic when it disconnects you from reality
5. The difference between faith and avoidance (and how to tell which one you’re in)
6. What conscious delusion actually looks like — belief that moves you forward, not keeps you stuck

If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re trusting the universe… or just not wanting to deal with something uncomfortable, this episode will hit.

Programs and Resources

1. NOCTURNE: 21-days of Shadow Work → https://lovelightandblackholes.com/nocturne
2. FREE Future Self Meditation → https://lovelightandblackholes.com/future-self-meditation
3. Free Guide: Slay Your Shame to Be Magnetic AF → https://lovelightandblackholes.com/slay-shame-be-magnetic-b
4. The Descent: A Guided Journey to Reclaim Lost Magic → https://lovelightandblackholes.com/the-descent-journey

Keep the Magic Rolling:

1. Follow me on Instagram → https://instagram.com/lovelightandblackholes
2. My website → https://lovelightandblackholes.com
3. Read my book Soul Magic: Ancient Wisdom for Modern Mystics → https://morgangarza.com/soul-magic-ancient-wisdom-for-modern-mystics/

About Our Sponsors:

1. Download the Saged App https://sagedapp.com/applink/store

This episode isn’t cute. It’s honest.

Today I’m talking about the parts of ourselves we don’t want to integrate. The ones we wish never happened. Not the soft, Instagram-friendly shadows like dimming your light. Or even that shadows that focus on what others did to you or your wounded inner child. But the moments where we hurt someone. Where we straight up caused harm and moved on with life, with an over-sized bag of shame.

This is the kind of shadow work almost no one wants to touch. Because it’s not about reclaiming power. It’s about responsibility.

I talk about why it’s easier to face the places where we were wounded than the places where we had agency, and how pretending those parts “aren’t us anymore” doesn’t actually free us, it just buries them.

In this episode I talk about:

• Why unintegrated shadow doesn’t disappear, it leaks

• The difference between accountability and self-shaming

• How cruelty, judgment, avoidance, and superiority often come from distorted protection

• Why integration is not approval and never justification

• What real wholeness actually asks of us

This episode is an invitation to stop trying to be spotless… and start being honest.

Programs and Resources

1. NOCTURNE: 21-days of Shadow Work → https://lovelightandblackholes.com/nocturne
2. FREE Future Self Meditation → https://lovelightandblackholes.com/future-self-meditation
3. Free Guide: Slay Your Shame to Be Magnetic AF → https://lovelightandblackholes.com/slay-shame-be-magnetic-b
4. The Descent: A Guided Journey to Reclaim Lost Magic → https://lovelightandblackholes.com/the-descent-journey

Keep the Magic Rolling:

1. Follow me on Instagram → https://instagram.com/lovelightandblackholes
2. My website → https://lovelightandblackholes.com
3. Read my book Soul Magic: Ancient Wisdom for Modern Mystics → https://morgangarza.com/soul-magic-ancient-wisdom-for-modern-mystics/

About Our Sponsors:

1. Download the Saged App https://sagedapp.com/applink/store
2. Get 10% off your first box or shop purchase with my code: MORGANGARZA https://www.sagedshop.com/

Disclaimer:

This podcast is for education and inspiration only. If you’re struggling with mental health or...

HOLY FREAKIN MOLY!!! It's real! I signed my NEW book contract this morning and I am giddy with passion and purpose and direction.

When I lost my dad the day after Christmas in 2024 I was just hoping the survive the year of firsts. I never imagined the first year after his death would be filled with so much life, creativity, adventure, joy, and new beginnings.

My disco ball soul was shattered at the end of 2024, but now a year later I’m shining brighter than ever 🪩

This book is going to show you just how potent and productive looking at your darkness can be.

This is what's possible through shadow work. I wouldn't be where I am if I didn't go into my darkness and ask what it had to show me. I've centered my entire career around shadow work because I've seen first hand that it's literally the key to everything you want to become and do.

This episode is testament to what "doing the work" can do and how to make your shadow sparkle.

AAAAAARRRRROOOOO!!!!

Programs and Resources

1. Way of the Witch Coven CLOSES JANUARY 7: https://www.sagedshop.com/products/way-of-the-witch-virtual-coven
2. NOCTURNE: 21-days of Shadow Work → https://lovelightandblackholes.com/nocturne
3. FREE Future Self Meditation → https://lovelightandblackholes.com/future-self-meditation
4. Free Guide: Slay Your Shame to Be Magnetic AF → https://lovelightandblackholes.com/slay-shame-be-magnetic-b
5. The Descent: A Guided Journey to Reclaim Lost Magic → https://lovelightandblackholes.com/the-descent-journey

Keep the Magic Rolling:

1. Follow me on Instagram → https://instagram.com/lovelightandblackholes
2. My website → https://lovelightandblackholes.com
3. Read my book Soul Magic: Ancient Wisdom for Modern Mystics → https://morgangarza.com/soul-magic-ancient-wisdom-for-modern-mystics/

About Our Sponsors:

1. Download the Saged App https://sagedapp.com/applink/store
2. Get 10% off your first box or shop purchase with my code: MORGANGARZA https://www.sagedshop.com/

Disclaimer:

This podcast is for education and...