On this installation of Musing from the Mind of Dr. SDB, Dr. Stephanie explores the Love Petal of the Successful & Fulfilled Woman framework and challenges one of the most persistent romantic myths: that love is supposed to complete us. Dr. Stephanie shares candid reflections from her own journey through marriage, divorce, growth, and self-discovery to reveal a powerful truth — healthy love doesn’t fix you, save you, or fill your voids. It complements the wholeness you’ve already cultivated.

This episode is an invitation to move from love driven by loneliness or depletion to love grounded in wholeness, clarity, and self-respect.

Take the Fulfilled, Fit & Free Profile at LiveLifeInTheAnd.com

By day she is a healthcare innovation attorney, but Dr. Stephanie D. Barnes is always Thee Liberated Lawyer committed to helping high-achieving experience a joyful, fulfilled and meaningful life. Life is too long to be unfulfilled!

Dr. Stephanie's mission is to equip high achieving women to be successful AND fulfilled. We should not have to choose! She uses her experience as a trusted counsel and master strategist to help women identify real solutions and strategies to go from burnout to being ignited, invigorated, and inspired! The Successful and Fulfilled Woman is a high-achieving woman who is ready to get everything she desire now and does not have time to wait years before living a joyful, fulfilled and meaningful life. Dr. Stephanie equips powerful women to make powerful decisions to create the life they desire and deserve.

Dr. Stephanie received her law degree from Harvard Law School and her PhD in Organizational Leadership from The Chicago School of Professional Psychology. She is the host of the podcast, Living Life in the And! and Thee Liberated Lawyer blog. She was a founding host of the Black CEO Morning Show and the podcast, Conversations from the C-Suite: The Girlfriend’s Guide to Being A CEO. She is an internationally acclaimed speaker, TEDx Presenter and coach, badass bodybuilder and senior model.

Follow Dr. Stephanie D. Barnes www.facebook.com/DrStephanieDBarnes and instagram @drstephaniedbarnes.

🚀 Ready to Transform Your Life?

Are you a high-achieving woman feeling stuck, uninspired, or ready for a fresh start? Dr. Stephanie D. Barnes is here to help you step into the success and fulfillment you deserve!

✨ If you're ready to:

✅ Reignite your passion and purpose

✅ Start over after a major life change

✅ Create a meaningful and fulfilling life

✅ Stop marking time and start truly living

Then it’s time for a Revelation Conversation! This powerful one-on-one session will help you gain clarity, break through barriers, and take the first step toward your New You!

💻 Book your complimentary session now: www.everythingideserve.com

Go to www.drstephaniedbarnes.com to learn more about how to transform and become the New You!

On this installation of Musing from the Mind of Dr. SDB, Dr. Stephanie continues the Designing Your Life on Purpose Series with the Friends Petal of the Successful & Fulfilled Woman framework. This episode unpacks how friendships shape identity, influence growth, and quietly teach us what to normalize, tolerate, and believe is possible. Through personal stories and practical insight, listeners will learn how to discern whether their circle is upgrading or downgrading them, identify “fuelers” versus “drainers,” and cultivate relationships that align with the woman they are becoming. This conversation is an invitation to choose friendships that celebrate joy, support expansion, and reflect the next-level version of you. Be sure to catch the beginning of the series!

Take the Fulfilled, Fit & Free Profile at LiveLifeInTheAnd.com

By day she is a healthcare innovation attorney, but Dr. Stephanie D. Barnes is always Thee Liberated Lawyer committed to helping high-achieving experience a joyful, fulfilled and meaningful life. Life is too long to be unfulfilled!

Dr. Stephanie's mission is to equip high achieving women to be successful AND fulfilled. We should not have to choose! She uses her experience as a trusted counsel and master strategist to help women identify real solutions and strategies to go from burnout to being ignited, invigorated, and inspired! The Successful and Fulfilled Woman is a high-achieving woman who is ready to get everything she desire now and does not have time to wait years before living a joyful, fulfilled and meaningful life. Dr. Stephanie equips powerful women to make powerful decisions to create the life they desire and deserve.

Dr. Stephanie received her law degree from Harvard Law School and her PhD in Organizational Leadership from The Chicago School of Professional Psychology. She is the host of the podcast, Living Life in the And! and Thee Liberated Lawyer blog. She was a founding host of the Black CEO Morning Show and the podcast, Conversations from the C-Suite: The Girlfriend’s Guide to Being A CEO. She is an internationally acclaimed speaker, TEDx Presenter and coach, badass bodybuilder and senior model.

Follow Dr. Stephanie D. Barnes www.facebook.com/DrStephanieDBarnes and instagram @drstephaniedbarnes.

🚀 Ready to Transform Your Life?

Are you a high-achieving woman feeling stuck, uninspired, or ready for a fresh start? Dr. Stephanie D. Barnes is here to help you step into the success and fulfillment you deserve!

✨ If you're ready to:

✅ Reignite your passion and purpose

✅ Start over after a major life change

✅ Create a meaningful and fulfilling life

✅ Stop marking time and start truly living

Then it’s time for a Revelation Conversation! This powerful one-on-one session will help you gain clarity, break through barriers, and take the first step toward your New You!

💻 Book your complimentary session now: www.everythingideserve.com

Go to www.drstephaniedbarnes.com to learn more about how to transform and become the New You!

On this installation of Musings from the Mind of Dr. SDB, Dr. Stephanie begins the Designing Your Life on Purpose Series. This first part introduces Family — Boundaries Are a Form of Love. Dr. Stephanie explores the intricate dynamics of family relationships, emphasizing the importance of setting boundaries for self-respect and emotional well-being. She discusses the complexities of familial love, the necessity of healing from past wounds, and the significance of thriving within one's family structure. The conversation highlights that healing does not always equate to reconciliation and that personal fulfillment requires emotional sovereignty and clarity in relationships. Ultimately, Barnes encourages listeners to embrace their power to create healthy boundaries and to pursue fulfillment actively.

Take the Fulfilled, Fit & Free Profile at LiveLifeInTheAnd.com

By day she is a healthcare innovation attorney, but Dr. Stephanie D. Barnes is always Thee Liberated Lawyer committed to helping high-achieving experience a joyful, fulfilled and meaningful life. Life is too long to be unfulfilled!

Dr. Stephanie's mission is to equip high achieving women to be successful AND fulfilled. We should not have to choose! She uses her experience as a trusted counsel and master strategist to help women identify real solutions and strategies to go from burnout to being ignited, invigorated, and inspired! The Successful and Fulfilled Woman is a high-achieving woman who is ready to get everything she desire now and does not have time to wait years before living a joyful, fulfilled and meaningful life. Dr. Stephanie equips powerful women to make powerful decisions to create the life they desire and deserve.

Dr. Stephanie received her law degree from Harvard Law School and her PhD in Organizational Leadership from The Chicago School of Professional Psychology. She is the host of the podcast, Living Life in the And! and Thee Liberated Lawyer blog. She was a founding host of the Black CEO Morning Show and the podcast, Conversations from the C-Suite: The Girlfriend’s Guide to Being A CEO. She is an internationally acclaimed speaker, TEDx Presenter and coach, badass bodybuilder and senior model.

Follow Dr. Stephanie D. Barnes www.facebook.com/DrStephanieDBarnes and instagram @drstephaniedbarnes.

🚀 Ready to Transform Your Life?

Are you a high-achieving woman feeling stuck, uninspired, or ready for a fresh start? Dr. Stephanie D. Barnes is here to help you step into the success and fulfillment you deserve!

✨ If you're ready to:

✅ Reignite your passion and purpose

✅ Start over after a major life change

✅ Create a meaningful and fulfilling life

✅ Stop marking time and start truly living

Then it’s time for a Revelation Conversation! This powerful one-on-one session will help you gain clarity, break through barriers, and take the first step toward your New You!

💻 Book your complimentary session now: www.everythingideserve.com

Go to www.drstephaniedbarnes.com to learn more about how to transform and become the New You!

On this installation of Musings from the Mind of Dr. SDB, Dr. Stephanie reflects on how her perspective on childhood movies has evolved over time. She discusses the impact of media on personal beliefs and societal norms, using examples from films like 'Purple Rain', 'Gone with the Wind', and the series 'Bridgerton'. Dr. Barnes emphasizes the importance of recognizing harmful narratives in entertainment and the need for a critical perspective that balances joy with truth. She also touches on themes of women's status, ethical wealth, and the dangers of romanticizing harmful behaviors in real life.

By day she is a healthcare innovation attorney, but Dr. Stephanie D. Barnes is always Thee Liberated Lawyer committed to helping high-achieving experience a joyful, fulfilled and meaningful life. Life is too long to be unfulfilled!

Dr. Stephanie's mission is to equip high achieving women to be successful AND fulfilled. We should not have to choose! She uses her experience as a trusted counsel and master strategist to help women identify real solutions and strategies to go from burnout to being ignited, invigorated, and inspired! The Successful and Fulfilled Woman is a high-achieving woman who is ready to get everything she desire now and does not have time to wait years before living a joyful, fulfilled and meaningful life. Dr. Stephanie equips powerful women to make powerful decisions to create the life they desire and deserve.

Dr. Stephanie received her law degree from Harvard Law School and her PhD in Organizational Leadership from The Chicago School of Professional Psychology. She is the host of the podcast, Living Life in the And! and Thee Liberated Lawyer blog. She was a founding host of the Black CEO Morning Show and the podcast, Conversations from the C-Suite: The Girlfriend’s Guide to Being A CEO. She is an internationally acclaimed speaker, TEDx Presenter and coach, badass bodybuilder and senior model.

Follow Dr. Stephanie D. Barnes www.facebook.com/DrStephanieDBarnes and instagram @drstephaniedbarnes.

🚀 Ready to Transform Your Life?

Are you a high-achieving woman feeling stuck, uninspired, or ready for a fresh start? Dr. Stephanie D. Barnes is here to help you step into the success and fulfillment you deserve!

✨ If you're ready to:

✅ Reignite your passion and purpose

✅ Start over after a major life change

✅ Create a meaningful and fulfilling life

✅ Stop marking time and start truly living

Then it’s time for a Revelation Conversation! This powerful one-on-one session will help you gain clarity, break through barriers, and take the first step toward your New You!

💻 Book your complimentary session now: www.everythingideserve.com

Go to www.drstephaniedbarnes.com to learn more about how to transform and become the New You!

On this installation of Musing from the Mind of Dr. SDB, Dr. Stephanie reflects on the power of change, challenge, and sacrifice. Sometimes the most loving thing you can do for your goals is to change your environment. Dr. Stephanie shares why she switched gyms and trainers, how a farther drive became sacred think-time, and the exact cues that reveal when it is time to level up. No shade to the starting line—just truth about complacency, loyalty, and growth.

You’ll learn:

• How to spot stagnation vs. fatigue
• Why environment beats willpower
• A simple 7-day Level-Up Challenge (audit → upgrade → sacrifice → track → report)

Note: "If it's not measured, it's not managed" (or "What gets measured gets managed") is a popular management principle, often misattributed to Peter Drucker, that highlights the importance of metrics for tracking progress and making data-driven decisions.

By day she is a healthcare innovation attorney, but Dr. Stephanie D. Barnes is always Thee Liberated Lawyer committed to helping high-achieving experience a joyful, fulfilled and meaningful life. Life is too long to be unfulfilled!

Dr. Stephanie's mission is to equip high achieving women to be successful AND fulfilled. We should not have to choose! She uses her experience as a trusted counsel and master strategist to help women identify real solutions and strategies to go from burnout to being ignited, invigorated, and inspired! The Successful and Fulfilled Woman is a high-achieving woman who is ready to get everything she desire now and does not have time to wait years before living a joyful, fulfilled and meaningful life. Dr. Stephanie equips powerful women to make powerful decisions to create the life they desire and deserve.

Dr. Stephanie received her law degree from Harvard Law School and her PhD in Organizational Leadership from The Chicago School of Professional Psychology. She is the host of the podcast, Living Life in the And! and Thee Liberated Lawyer blog. She was a founding host of the Black CEO Morning Show and the podcast, Conversations from the C-Suite: The Girlfriend’s Guide to Being A CEO. She is an internationally acclaimed speaker, TEDx Presenter and coach, badass bodybuilder and senior model.

Follow Dr. Stephanie D. Barnes www.facebook.com/DrStephanieDBarnes and instagram @drstephaniedbarnes.

🚀 Ready to Transform Your Life?

Are you a high-achieving woman feeling stuck, uninspired, or ready for a fresh start? Dr. Stephanie D. Barnes is here to help you step into the success and fulfillment you deserve!

✨ If you're ready to:

✅ Reignite your passion and purpose

✅ Start over after a major life change

✅ Create a meaningful and fulfilling life

✅ Stop marking time and start truly living

Then it’s time for a Revelation Conversation! This powerful one-on-one session will help you gain clarity, break through barriers, and take the first step toward your New You!

In this installation of Musing from the Mind of Dr. SDB, Dr. Stephanie gets honest about 2025—what worked, what wobbled—and models a practical Year-Design using the Fulfilled, Fit & Free Profile. You’ll learn how to turn self-awareness into simple, trackable habits that move you toward a more focused, funded, and fulfilling 2026.

Take the assessment: www.livelifeintheand.com→ Fulfilled, Fit & Free Profile

By day she is a healthcare innovation attorney, but Dr. Stephanie D. Barnes is always Thee Liberated Lawyer committed to helping high-achieving experience a joyful, fulfilled and meaningful life. Life is too long to be unfulfilled!

Dr. Stephanie's mission is to equip high achieving women to be successful AND fulfilled. We should not have to choose! She uses her experience as a trusted counsel and master strategist to help women identify real solutions and strategies to go from burnout to being ignited, invigorated, and inspired! The Successful and Fulfilled Woman is a high-achieving woman who is ready to get everything she desire now and does not have time to wait years before living a joyful, fulfilled and meaningful life. Dr. Stephanie equips powerful women to make powerful decisions to create the life they desire and deserve.

Dr. Stephanie received her law degree from Harvard Law School and her PhD in Organizational Leadership from The Chicago School of Professional Psychology. She is the host of the podcast, Living Life in the And! and Thee Liberated Lawyer blog. She was a founding host of the Black CEO Morning Show and the podcast, Conversations from the C-Suite: The Girlfriend’s Guide to Being A CEO. She is an internationally acclaimed speaker, TEDx Presenter and coach, badass bodybuilder and senior model.

Follow Dr. Stephanie D. Barnes www.facebook.com/DrStephanieDBarnes and instagram @drstephaniedbarnes.

🚀 Ready to Transform Your Life?

Are you a high-achieving woman feeling stuck, uninspired, or ready for a fresh start? Dr. Stephanie D. Barnes is here to help you step into the success and fulfillment you deserve!

✨ If you're ready to:

✅ Reignite your passion and purpose

✅ Start over after a major life change

✅ Create a meaningful and fulfilling life

✅ Stop marking time and start truly living

Then it’s time for a Revelation Conversation! This powerful one-on-one session will help you gain clarity, break through barriers, and take the first step toward your New You!

💻 Book your complimentary session now: www.everythingideserve.com

Go to www.drstephaniedbarnes.com to learn more about how to transform and become the New You!

On this installation of Musings from the Mind of Dr. SDB, Dr. Stephanie discusses the importance of strategic waiting in achieving personal goals, particularly in bodybuilding. She emphasizes the difference between delaying due to fear and making a conscious decision to wait for the right moment to compete. Dr. Barnes shares her journey of preparing for competitions, the significance of building a competitive edge through training and nutrition, and the lessons learned from waiting. The conversation highlights the value of patience, preparation, and self-awareness in the pursuit of excellence.

By day she is a healthcare innovation attorney, but Dr. Stephanie D. Barnes is always Thee Liberated Lawyer committed to helping high-achieving experience a joyful, fulfilled and meaningful life. Life is too long to be unfulfilled!

Dr. Stephanie's mission is to equip high achieving women to be successful AND fulfilled. We should not have to choose! She uses her experience as a trusted counsel and master strategist to help women identify real solutions and strategies to go from burnout to being ignited, invigorated, and inspired! The Successful and Fulfilled Woman is a high-achieving woman who is ready to get everything she desire now and does not have time to wait years before living a joyful, fulfilled and meaningful life. Dr. Stephanie equips powerful women to make powerful decisions to create the life they desire and deserve.

Dr. Stephanie received her law degree from Harvard Law School and her PhD in Organizational Leadership from The Chicago School of Professional Psychology. She is the host of the podcast, Living Life in the And! and Thee Liberated Lawyer blog. She was a founding host of the Black CEO Morning Show and the podcast, Conversations from the C-Suite: The Girlfriend’s Guide to Being A CEO. She is an internationally acclaimed speaker, TEDx Presenter and coach, badass bodybuilder and senior model.

Follow Dr. Stephanie D. Barnes www.facebook.com/DrStephanieDBarnes and instagram @drstephaniedbarnes.

🚀 Ready to Transform Your Life?

Are you a high-achieving woman feeling stuck, uninspired, or ready for a fresh start? Dr. Stephanie D. Barnes is here to help you step into the success and fulfillment you deserve!

✨ If you're ready to:

✅ Reignite your passion and purpose

✅ Start over after a major life change

✅ Create a meaningful and fulfilling life

✅ Stop marking time and start truly living

Then it’s time for a Revelation Conversation! This powerful one-on-one session will help you gain clarity, break through barriers, and take the first step toward your New You!

💻 Book your complimentary session now: www.everythingideserve.com

Go to www.drstephaniedbarnes.com to learn more about how to transform and become the New You!

On this installation of Musing from the Mind of Dr. SDB, Dr. Stephanie critiques the narrative presented in Hallmark movies, arguing that they perpetuate harmful stereotypes about women, love, and success. She emphasizes the need for a new narrative that allows women to be both ambitious and fulfilled in their personal lives. Dr. Barnes shares insights from her research on media influence and encourages women to challenge societal expectations and design their lives for both success and love.

By day she is a healthcare innovation attorney, but Dr. Stephanie D. Barnes is always Thee Liberated Lawyer committed to helping high-achieving experience a joyful, fulfilled and meaningful life. Life is too long to be unfulfilled!

Dr. Stephanie's mission is to equip high achieving women to be successful AND fulfilled. We should not have to choose! She uses her experience as a trusted counsel and master strategist to help women identify real solutions and strategies to go from burnout to being ignited, invigorated, and inspired! The Successful and Fulfilled Woman is a high-achieving woman who is ready to get everything she desire now and does not have time to wait years before living a joyful, fulfilled and meaningful life. Dr. Stephanie equips powerful women to make powerful decisions to create the life they desire and deserve.

Dr. Stephanie received her law degree from Harvard Law School and her PhD in Organizational Leadership from The Chicago School of Professional Psychology. She is the host of the podcast, Living Life in the And! and Thee Liberated Lawyer blog. She was a founding host of the Black CEO Morning Show and the podcast, Conversations from the C-Suite: The Girlfriend’s Guide to Being A CEO. She is an internationally acclaimed speaker, TEDx Presenter and coach, badass bodybuilder and senior model.

Follow Dr. Stephanie D. Barnes www.facebook.com/DrStephanieDBarnes and instagram @drstephaniedbarnes.

🚀 Ready to Transform Your Life?

Are you a high-achieving woman feeling stuck, uninspired, or ready for a fresh start? Dr. Stephanie D. Barnes is here to help you step into the success and fulfillment you deserve!

✨ If you're ready to:

✅ Reignite your passion and purpose

✅ Start over after a major life change

✅ Create a meaningful and fulfilling life

✅ Stop marking time and start truly living

Then it’s time for a Revelation Conversation! This powerful one-on-one session will help you gain clarity, break through barriers, and take the first step toward your New You!

💻 Book your complimentary session now: www.everythingideserve.com

Go to www.drstephaniedbarnes.com to learn more about how to transform and become the New You!