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"Desires are what create the world, and women are the creators of the world. You cannot have life without a woman."

In this electrifying episode of Becoming Flame, host Kait Tregenza unearths the suppressed power of feminine desire, exposing the centuries-old narratives that have taught women to distrust their deepest creative impulses. Kait dismantles the myth that desire is selfish or sinful, revealing instead how it serves as the primordial spark for true creation—not only of life, but of art, love, business, and personal purpose.

Drawing from embodied wisdom, lived experience, and cultural history, Kait guides listeners through the quantum space of possibility where desire is not conjured, but remembered and reclaimed. She explores why so many women feel disconnected from their own longing, how artificial concepts of time have shaped natural cycles, and what shifts when we recognize that true power is sourced—and manifested—through the body.

Craving a reality where creation is spontaneous, audacious, and communal? Ready to untangle yourself from hustle culture and rediscover the joy and magnitude of living from pure desire? Tune in to Becoming Flame for a soul-stirring exploration of how nurturing your deepest wants isn’t just personal—it’s a radical act that can shift the world itself.

1. Desire is your access point to true creation—drop the shame, claim your desires, and let them guide your actions every day.
2. You cannot birth anything—be it a business, relationship, or dream—without being fully embodied. Get present in your body and trust your innate wisdom.
3. Stop forcing artificial timelines and external expectations. Align with your natural rhythms and let your creations unfold in divine timing.
4. Remember: Your desires are not selfish—they’re encoded in you for the benefit of your entire community. Fill your own cup first, then watch your overflow inspire and uplift others.
5. Refuse to play by systems designed to separate you from your power. Gather with women, support one another, and create boldly from your deepest truth.

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"I am the source of my creation. I am the creator of all that I am here to create, that I desire to create is held within my body."

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In this provocative, unfiltered debut episode, Kait Tregenza challenges the cultural obsession with linear progress and hustle, urging listeners to reject scarcity-driven goal setting in favor of embodying the deeper truth that we are the source—and not the seekers—of our reality.

Drawing on personal experience, cultural commentary, and raw energetic guidance, Kait explains why feeling out of sync with societal pressures—like the push to set January goals—may mean you’re actually attuned to nature’s deeper rhythms. She invites listeners to move beyond “manifestation” hacks and vision boards, and step into a frequency of inevitability, where desires are not chased but embodied and lived as inevitable truths.

Curious what it means to live as your own source? Want to learn how to break free from goal-setting fatigue and step into a new paradigm of effortless creation? Join Becoming Flame for a mind-shifting conversation about becoming, embodiment, and the reclamation of your true creative power—inside and out.

You are the source, the flame, and the inevitable creator. Activate a new reality by reclaiming your power right now:

1. Scrap goal-setting rooted in lack—let go of external chasing and embody the reality where your desire is already inevitable.
2. Tune into your body’s intelligence—step out of habitual numbness, calibrate with nature, and let your inner resonance guide creation.
3. Stop outsourcing your vision—recognize whose stories and patterns you’re following, burn what isn’t yours, and fiercely reclaim what is.
4. Shift from effort and hustle to deep embodiment—breathe, release what contracts you, and allow yourself to align with coherence and truth.
5. Declare your role as creator—decide, choose, and accept your identity as the source, welcoming in creations that are natural extensions of your being.

Drop the old. Breathe in your power. Step into your flame—because the new world begins with you.

"I am the source of my creations, and I am the calibrator of my life. My nervous system and my being are one in connection to the universal infinity."

"When you feel in your body the fullness of your creation potential, the power of what you can create, and the way that you create from within the body, from within the primordial knowledge of creation, then you will let go of your ego in a way that you couldn’t effort to before."

"I do not seek. I am. For I do not try. I am. I create. It is mine. It is. I am here. And the inevitability of what I create—there is no time, there is no stamping, there is no grinding, there is no hustling. It is."

Kait on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kaitlyntregenza/

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🔥 Welcome to Becoming Flame with Kait Tregenza — the podcast for women ready to rise from the ashes, ignite their wildest dreams, and build their own fierce empires.

Each episode is a powerful invitation to break free from old paradigms, embody feminine alchemy, and reconnect with your deepest somatic truth and sovereignty.

Dive into transformative conversations around womb wisdom, erotic intelligence, and nervous system recalibration, designed to help you step unapologetically into your highest identity.

If you're done playing small and craving a space where your magnitude is celebrated, your flame stoked, and your future rearranged, this is your community.