In this episode of the Sad Song Queens, music supervisors Laura Webb and Lindsay Wolfington sit down with the incomparable Brandi Carlile—an Oscar nominee, 11-time Grammy winner, two-time Emmy winner, and New York Times best-selling author who has released ten studio albums to date. They discuss Brandi Carlile’s stunning new deluxe release, Returning To Myself (Sad Gay Version), which features intimate, reimagined versions of all ten songs from the original album. Brandi details the meticulous and vulnerable choices behind reshaping these tracks, including a deep-dive discussion into Brandi’s latest single "Human (Sad Gay Version)," her beautiful collaboration with Jon Hopkins.

Fresh off winning Song of the Year at the 2026 Americana Awards for the title track "Returning To Myself" from her acclaimed 2025 album of the same name, Brandi Carlile joins the show to discuss her incredible career and collaborations with idols like Joni Mitchell and Elton John. She also reflects on how the music she listened to in her adolescence influenced both versions of Returning to Myself, and what sad songs got her through her younger years.

Laura, Lindsay and Brandi share their love for sad songs and go through many of their favorites to determine what makes a song “sad gay” - a genre in and of itself, according to Brandi - while playing a game of "Sad vs Sad Gay,” They also share stories about the shows’ past guests whom she has been inspired by and worked with, including Sara Bareilles, Bernie Taupin, the Secret Sisters, and Lucius, celebrating the tight-knit community of incredible artists she continually champions.

Whether you are looking for a good cry, a deep dive into the craft of songwriting, or simply an inspiring conversation about community and creativity, this episode has it all. Grab your tissues, check out the show notes for the full playlist of every track discussed, and tune in now to experience this unforgettable chat with Brandi Carlile!

Keywords: Brandi Carlile, Returning To Myself Sad Gay Version, Human featuring Jon Hopkins (Sad Gay Version), story behind the song, indie folk music, singer-songwriter interviews, music supervision, acoustic sad songs, music supervisor podcast, Lindsay Wolfington, Laura Webb, Sad Song Queens podcast

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