We’re back.

The conversation got so good in Part One… we had to keep the tape rolling.

In this episode of Grace & Truth Talks, Pastor James and Pastor Tiffany unpack the real reasons why people struggle to change — even when they say they want better.

We’re talking about:

• Rebellion

• Pride

• Ignorance

• Laziness

• Fear

• And the bonus roadblock… Regret

Why do we stay stuck?

Why do we sabotage growth?

Why do we keep repeating cycles in relationships and marriage?

This is not surface conversation. This is transformational dialogue.

You’ll hear:

✔️ How fear disguises itself as perfectionism

✔️ Why ignorance is expensive

✔️ How regret mutates into shame and condemnation

✔️ Why laziness kills covenant

✔️ The difference between loud love and low-key love

✔️ Why marriage is for the mature

And Pastor Tiffany shares a powerful testimony about rebuilding her life after loss — and how God turns regret into restoration.

If you’re serious about growth…

If you’re preparing for marriage…

If your marriage needs realignment…

If you’re rebuilding after heartbreak…

This conversation is for you.

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We are called to:

• Prepare you for divine marriage

• Realign marriages that are off track

• Rebuild those who feel like they’ve fallen off

This is real conversation for real growth.

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We often ask for growth, but are we willing to pay the price for it? The scariest thing about moving forward isn't the work itself—it's the fear of the unknown. When we don't have a clear picture of what’s ahead, we tend to run back to the toxic "comfort" of what we know.

In this episode, we explore the internal roadblocks that keep us stuck in old cycles. We dive deep into why your desire for control is actually the enemy of your progress and how to embrace the "ING"—the nonstop process of rebuilding, healing, and transforming.

In this episode, we discuss:

• The Cost of Growth: Why growth is a "precious and expensive" investment that requires you to count the cost.
• The Mirror of Pride: Why we often think a message is for someone else's ears rather than our own heart.
• The Power of Grace: Learning that grace is the divine ability to do what you couldn't do just moments before.

Tell us in the comments: What is one area of your life where you've been choosing control over growth? Let's support each other in the comments below.

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We’ve been taught how to be wives and how to be mothers… but were we ever taught how to be friends?

In this Grace & Truth conversation, Pastor Tiffaney and her guests expose the silent competition that destroys women’s circles, from the “eye” we give each other when we walk in the room, to friendships that stay “neutral” when you’re the one hurting.

This is real sisterhood and real conversation: why women struggle to trust each other, how jealousy shows up subtly, what loyalty actually looks like, and how to tell if someone is truly a safe place.

In this episode, we get real about:

- Why women “size each other up” (and where it really comes from)

- The difference between spirit-led friendship vs. performative friendship

- Why some women forgive men faster than they forgive women

- How to handle friendships when you’re growing… and they’re not

- The role men play (intentionally or unintentionally) in competition between women

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