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Want the kind of relationship talk that’s honest, useful, and a little bit unhinged? We’re diving headfirst into desire: why long‑term couples slip into sexless ruts, how “duty sex” chips away at intimacy, and what it takes to reignite actual want without shame or pressure. Miami jumps in with us to unpack foreplay, context, and effort—especially where women’s desire is more contextual and men’s arousal is often rapid and visual. The throughline is simple: complacency kills chemistry, and communication revives it.

We push into the thorny stuff most people avoid. Where’s the line with porn—fun inspiration or emotional cheating? We talk viewing together, secret subs, money spent, and what to do when porn becomes the only path to arousal. Then it gets spicier: hidden kinks and how to share them without blowing up trust. Consent, safety, and honest limits make room for play; secrets, shame, and guessing games quietly suffocate desire. If your partner’s into something you’re not, you can still respect them while keeping your boundary.

Modern dating gets a run too—body count myths, deep‑stalking exes, and whether you can be friends with someone you used to sleep with. We look at how digital habits tug on jealousy, what “proof over promises” looks like, and how to set clear lines without killing the vibe. To keep the mood cheeky, we debut Red Light Reading Room, turning innocent nursery rhymes into smoky reads, and cap it with cathartic pet peeves and a listener prompt that invites your stories.

If you’ve ever felt your bedroom go quiet or your confidence dip after too many rejections, this one’s for you. We keep it real, we keep it kind, and we leave you with practical ways to bring back flirt, novelty, and fun. Enjoy the ride, then tell us your take: what’s the hardest conversation you’ve had about sex? Subscribe, share with a curious friend, and drop a review so more people can find the show.

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Start the year with a gut check: are you being loving, or just keeping the peace? We kick off with a cheeky New Year catch‑up—house renos, birthday dinners, and a hilariously bad club night—then dive headfirst into a bigger question that touches every relationship: what does “living a lie” look like, and how do you stop doing it without blowing up your life?

We map the quiet ways honesty erodes—people‑pleasing that swaps affection for compliance, silent judgment about weight or habits, and the identities we hide to dodge conflict. From there, we tackle the thorny middle: what actually counts as cheating? We weigh emotional affairs, “happy endings,” and one‑off hookups against the core problem—secrecy—and explore how some couples turn curiosity and kink into ethical, transparent agreements. It’s candid, practical, and grounded in real stories, not finger‑wagging.

Trust repair gets the hard truth too. Confession isn’t a magic reset; consistent behaviour and transparent boundaries rebuild safety, or they don’t. We share frameworks for talking about needs without shaming your partner, setting consent‑based rules if you open the relationship, and choosing a clean exit when dignity demands it. Along the way, expect a few spicy side quests: blood donation changes for queer folks, fake holiday “sales,” roadwork rants, and bands that really should rehearse.

If you’ve felt the ache of unsaid things—or you’re wondering where your line between private and dishonest really sits—this one’s your sign to speak plainly. Listen, share with a friend who deserves better conversations, and hit follow so you never miss a candid chat. Got a story or dilemma? DM us on Instagram at Fully Grown Homos Podcast and tell us what you’d never say out loud—yet.

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A summer holiday can hold both shock and sparkle. We start by unpacking the terror attack at Bondi—what we saw unfold in real time, why rushed reporting amplified confusion, and how hate harms whole communities. We share where our solidarity sits, how to talk about religion without tarring entire cultures, and the very real mental health ripples that follow mass trauma. From first responders and lifesavers to brave bystanders, we honour the people who ran toward danger and remind listeners that counselling and crisis lines are there even if you only witnessed events on a screen.

Then we let some light in. Think ham raffles, family lunches in relentless heat, and the joy of giving small but thoughtful gifts to the club staff who look after us all year. We swap practical LGBTQ+ holiday ideas for every vibe: guilt‑free sleep‑ins, a one‑dish masterpiece, queer karaoke line‑ups, Dragmas outfits, rooftop meetups, and community lunches that welcome anyone spending the day solo. Volunteering, writing cards to queer elders, and choosing spaces that feel safe and inclusive turn a lonely day into a connected one. If you’re budgeting, we’ve got you—camp doesn’t have to be costly.

We close with pet peeves that double as survival tips: don’t panic buy, don’t abuse retail staff, and don’t pretend a one‑day closure is an apocalypse. If a store makes you queue twice, give feedback. If venues hike prices, expect value, not opportunism. And shopping centres, open the car park gates the week of Christmas and New Year; people shouldn’t pay to sit in exit traffic. Through it all, the thread is simple—hold space for grief, make a little room for glitter, and treat strangers like neighbours.

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