Épisodes

  • S4 Ep. 14 - Uncle Dale Reporting for Duty to Parent Rachel's Teenager
    Feb 10 2026

    Rachel and Dale are basically walking proof that a long friendship can stay truly platonic, but we still have to ask the obvious question. Is that rare for a reason, or are people just messy with boundaries.

    We start with real life stuff like parenting a teenager and trying to keep your cool without losing your mind, then we get into the kind of family dynamics that can quietly ruin a relationship. The Beckham wedding drama turns into a bigger convo about in laws, control, and what happens when someone steals the spotlight in a moment that is not theirs.

    From there it turns into our favorite kind of chaos. Nostalgia about bar and bat mitzvah dances that forced kids to actually interact, the way phones changed socializing, and the random pop culture spiral that somehow ends with Florida headlines, rich people problems, and a woman suing a country club over a defective bagel.

    It is funny, a little unhinged, and weirdly honest in the way real friendships actually sound.

    Episode Sponsor:
    Presented by 1-800 Call Lee — South Florida’s trusted personal injury team. Learn more at calllee.com.

    Contact Rachel Sobel:
    Email: rachel@whineandcheezits.com
    Website: www.whineandcheezits.com
    Facebook: Whine and Cheez - its by Rachel Sobel
    Instagram: @whineandcheezits
    TikTok: @rachel.sobel.writes

    Contact Dale McLean:
    Email: dance715@aol.com
    Website: dalethehost.com
    Instagram: @UptownDale

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    41 min
  • S4 Ep. 13 - What Is the Right Thermostat Temperature for a Relationship?
    Feb 3 2026

    Rachel and Dale start with a very serious debate about air conditioning etiquette and what counts as “acceptable” when it comes to temperature, then spiral into snow angels, South Florida winters, and whether TikTok is ruining everyone’s attention span. Rachel’s daughter joins the chaos with peak teen honesty, including what’s officially cringy, what’s not, and why adults love acting like their era was superior. Along the way they get into astrology arguments, aliens among us, the weird politeness of sending dates home with goodie bags, and a surprisingly intense take on death row last meals. Plus, one extremely necessary rule about bathroom conversations that should not need explaining.

    Episode Sponsor:
    Presented by 1-800 Call Lee — South Florida’s trusted personal injury team. Learn more at calllee.com.

    Contact Rachel Sobel:
    Email: rachel@whineandcheezits.com
    Website: www.whineandcheezits.com
    Facebook: Whine and Cheez - its by Rachel Sobel
    Instagram: @whineandcheezits
    TikTok: @rachel.sobel.writes

    Contact Dale McLean:
    Email: dance715@aol.com
    Website: dalethehost.com
    Instagram: @UptownDale

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    38 min
  • S4 Ep. 12 - Reborn Dolls, Rude Servers, and the Weirdest Holiday Conversations
    Jan 13 2026

    Rachel and Dale kick off the holiday stretch the way they do best, by spiraling through the strange headlines and the everyday moments that somehow say a lot about people. They start with the story of a woman who faked an entire pregnancy with a reborn doll, then bounce through a service that roasts your boss for you, a revenge spray paint moment that is honestly unforgettable, and why people feel extra raw around the holidays. The conversation turns to how brazen shoplifting has gotten and how retail return schemes actually work, plus the sticker shock of Disney tickets versus flying to Tokyo. Dale also shares a restaurant story that grossed him out and left him stuck on one question, what else was in the food. They wrap with a Reddit rabbit hole recommendation, a little pay it forward energy, and the kind of end of year delirium that only hits when you have truly been through it.

    Episode Sponsor:
    Presented by 1-800 Call Lee — South Florida’s trusted personal injury team. Learn more at calllee.com.

    Contact Rachel Sobel:
    Email: rachel@whineandcheezits.com
    Website: www.whineandcheezits.com
    Facebook: Whine and Cheez - its by Rachel Sobel
    Instagram: @whineandcheezits
    TikTok: @rachel.sobel.writes

    Contact Dale McLean:
    Email: dance715@aol.com
    Website: dalethehost.com
    Instagram: @UptownDale

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    37 min
  • S4 Ep. 11 - Whatchu Watchin, Culture Takes, and Unfiltered Opinions
    Jan 6 2026

    In this episode of Friends Without Benefits, Dale and Rachel lean all the way into their favorite end of year ritual. A full social media purge, strong opinions about lurkers, and a reminder that social media is meant to be social. From their recurring segment What Are You Watching to deep dives into cult documentaries, celebrity reckoning stories, pop culture chaos, and unexpected takes on Wicked, wellness trends, and dating labels, nothing is off limits.

    The conversation weaves humor with honesty as they unpack documentaries like Orgasm Inc, celebrity scandals, questionable health food claims, and the way narratives shape culture and perception. Along the way, they share real talk about abuse, accountability, media manipulation, and why some stories deserve to be reexamined with clearer eyes.

    As always, the episode wraps with Say It With Your Whole Chest moments that tackle dress codes, public behavior, and modern etiquette with zero filter and plenty of laughs. This is classic Friends Without Benefits. Opinionated, curious, messy, and exactly the conversation you did not know you needed.

    Episode Sponsor:
    Presented by 1-800 Call Lee — South Florida’s trusted personal injury team. Learn more atcalllee.com.

    Contact Rachel Sobel:
    Email: rachel@whineandcheezits.com
    Website: www.whineandcheezits.com
    Facebook: Whine and Cheez - its by Rachel Sobel
    Instagram: @whineandcheezits
    TikTok: @rachel.sobel.writes

    Contact Dale McLean:
    Email: dance715@aol.com
    Website: dalethehost.com
    Instagram: @UptownDale

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    36 min
  • S4 Ep. 10 - Can Men and Women Stay Just Friends A Funny Honest Conversation About Platonic Love
    Dec 30 2025

    In this episode of Friends Without Benefits, we dig into one big question we get asked all the time. Can men and women really stay just friends? As two longtime friends who have never crossed the platonic line, we share our real life experiences, laugh through listener shoutouts, and talk honestly about friendship, attention, and what it means when people actually miss your podcast during a break.

    From comedy shows in Miami and supporting friends on tour to awkward small talk with strangers, fast food conspiracy theories, and the mystery of why smoke detectors always beep at the worst possible times, this episode is classic Friends Without Benefits energy. It is unscripted, funny, and full of the everyday observations that turn into big laughs.

    We also touch on why feeling seen by listeners matters, how humor connects people, and why sometimes the most meaningful relationships are the ones without expectations attached. Pull up a chair and hang out with us as we figure it out in real time.

    Episode Sponsor:
    Presented by 1-800 Call Lee — South Florida’s trusted personal injury team. Learn more at calllee.com.

    Contact Rachel Sobel:
    Email: rachel@whineandcheezits.com
    Website: www.whineandcheezits.com
    Facebook: Whine and Cheez - its by Rachel Sobel
    Instagram: @whineandcheezits
    TikTok: @rachel.sobel.writes

    Contact Dale McLean:
    Email: dance715@aol.com
    Website: dalethehost.com
    Instagram: @UptownDale

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    37 min
  • S4 Ep. 9 - Salmon Sperm Masks, Spirit Airlines, and Platonic Friend Chaos
    Dec 23 2025

    Dale and Rachel catch up on life, travel, and the strange conversations that only long-term platonic friends can have. They debate manicures, dating standards, and whether asking for a feet picture is ever acceptable. Rachel explains why she wore a salmon sperm face mask on a flight and how she handled the internet backlash that followed.

    The conversation shifts to Dale’s NBC6 appearance, the brainstorming process behind naming his sports segment Dale’s Download, and the stress of live television. They also share stories from Spirit Airlines, reality show hosting at Camp Challenge, and wrap with their “say it with your chest” segment, touching on airline fees and a serious moment about witnessing immigration enforcement in real time.

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    39 min
  • S4 Ep. 8 - Daylight Saving Debates, Viral Trends, and Thanksgiving Chaos
    Nov 25 2025

    In this episode of Friends Without Benefits, Dale and Rachel jump straight into the holiday season with their take on daylight saving time, the chaos of early Christmas displays, and why the whole world is suddenly obsessed with the viral six seven trend. They unpack the slang teens are using now, compare it to the phrases they grew up with, and laugh through the generational gap that gets wider by the minute.

    From wild stories about word of the year announcements to nostalgic rants about 90s music, they also open up about choices they wish they made in their twenties, the friendships that shaped them, and the strange traditions that show up in every family during Thanksgiving. With conversations about parenting, social media, relationship red flags, school safety, and even cranberry sauce preferences, this episode covers everything from serious moments to complete nonsense in true Friends Without Benefits style.

    If you love real talk, random tangents, and an honest look at life, family, and the weird things people do, you will feel right at home with this one.

    Episode Sponsor:
    Presented by 1-800 Call Lee — South Florida’s trusted personal injury team. Learn more at calllee.com.

    Contact Rachel Sobel:
    Email: rachel@whineandcheezits.com
    Website: www.whineandcheezits.com
    Facebook: Whine and Cheez - its by Rachel Sobel
    Instagram: @whineandcheezits
    TikTok: @rachel.sobel.writes

    Contact Dale McLean:
    Email: dance715@aol.com
    Website: dalethehost.com
    Instagram: @UptownDale

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    41 min
  • S4 Ep. 7 - From Whatcha Watchin’ to Whatcha Wearing
    Nov 18 2025

    Dale and Rachel roll out their new segment Whatcha Watchin’ and dive into their latest TV obsessions—from wild true-crime dramas to addictive reality shows. Then they switch gears to fashion, testing each other on how to actually pronounce those luxury brand names we all fake confidence saying (Hermès, Balmain, Givenchy… or is it “Vasace”?). Toss in a few blind-date stories, some puppy yoga confusion, and plenty of laughs, and you’ve got another classic Friends Without Benefits episode full of chemistry, chaos, and charm.

    Episode Sponsor:
    Presented by 1-800 Call Lee — South Florida’s trusted personal injury team. Learn more at calllee.com.

    Contact Rachel Sobel:
    Email: rachel@whineandcheezits.com
    Website: www.whineandcheezits.com
    Facebook: Whine and Cheez - its by Rachel Sobel
    Instagram: @whineandcheezits
    TikTok: @rachel.sobel.writes

    Contact Dale McLean:
    Email: dance715@aol.com
    Website: dalethehost.com
    Instagram: @UptownDale

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    38 min