In this episode we dive into two guideposts from Brene Brown's "The Gifts of Imperfection": Rest and Play (the antidote to exhaustion as a status symbol) and Creativity (the antidote to comparison). We talk about tools for challenging comparison, how rest can look different for different people, and the ways in which rest and play and creativity are different and can be difficult to tease apart. We also briefly touch on how rest is different from calm and stillness (which we discussed in episode 1 of this series)

Sources:

Brene Brown's "Gifts of Imperfection"

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https://leoniedawson.com/free-poster-colouring-page-brene-browns-10-guideposts-for-wholehearted-living/

The Wholehearted Inventory

https://brenebrown.com/wholeheartedinventory/

Laziness Does Not Exist by Dr. Devon Price

The Artist's Way by Julia Cameron

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In this episode we continue the brief series where we focus on Brene Brown's wholehearted guideposts. In this episode we dive into Resilient Spirit (the antidote to numbing and powerlessness) and Self Compassion (the antidote to perfectionism).

Sources:

Brene Brown's "Gifts of Imperfection"

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https://leoniedawson.com/free-poster-colouring-page-brene-browns-10-guideposts-for-wholehearted-living/

The Wholehearted Inventory

https://brenebrown.com/wholeheartedinventory/

"Burnout" by the Nagoski Sisters

"Self Compassion" by Kristin Neff

"I thought it was just me but it isn't" by Brene Brown

Kristin Neff's online community

https://self-compassion.org/self-compassion-community/

Podcast episodes mentioned:

https://www.buzzsprout.com/2045805/episodes/12397344

https://www.buzzsprout.com/2045805/episodes/12397356

https://dralexandrasolomon.com/podcasts/why-self-compassion-is-an-essential-practice-with-dr-kristin-neff/

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In this episode we begin a brief series where we focus on Brene Brown's wholehearted guideposts. If you have been listening for awhile, you have likely noticed (or heard in the intro episode) that we generally use the guideposts as our check-in of what is hard right now and our check-out of what is keeping us wholehearted.

We discuss what the guideposts are, why we like them, and how we use them in therapy. Then we dive into Authenticity (the antidote to worrying about what people think) and Calm and Stillness (the antidote to anxiety as a lifestyle).

Sources:

Brene Brown's "Gifts of Imperfection"

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https://leoniedawson.com/free-poster-colouring-page-brene-browns-10-guideposts-for-wholehearted-living/

The Wholehearted Inventory

https://brenebrown.com/wholeheartedinventory/

Meditation apps: Insight timer, Buddhify, and Calm App

Newsletters mentioned:

Letters from Love

https://elizabethgilbert.substack.com/

Things That don't suck (Andrea Gibson's newsletter on substack now continued by their widow)

https://andreagibson.substack.com/

Tangle

https://www.readtangle.com/

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In this episode we focus on values. We talk about what values are, how we use them in therapy, and how knowing your values and keeping them front of mind can help in life.

Resources and sources mentioned are "Love Every Day" by Dr. Alexandra Solomon, Andrea Gibson's definition of codependency, Brene Brown's Values List and BRAVING acronym, and the values cards created by Lisa Congdon and Andreea Niculescu.

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In this episode we explore The Unknown (tm)

What even is the unknown? What are examples of experiencing unknown in day to day life as well as big life events? How often are we afraid of the unknown versus afraid our experience will not meet our hopes or expectations?

We talk about all these questions as well as trusting faith and when it teeters into looking for control or certainty. Living from a place of love rather than fear. And the subtle difference in searching and openness.

Resources mentioned are "How We Live is How We Die" by Pema Chödrön, "The Universe Has your Back" By Gabby Bernstein, and "Signs: The Secret Language of the Universe" by Laura Lynne Jackson.

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In this episode we explore grief and loss.

Resources mentioned are "How We Live is How We Die" by Pema Chödrön and "The Wild Edge of Sorrow" by Francis Weller.

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Join us as we focus on codependency in relationships part 3. Truly one of my (Chelsea's) favorite topics.

Resources include Melody Beattie's books such as "Codependent No More" and "The New Codependency".


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In relationships part 2 we focus on exploring a tool called the non-escalator relationship menu. Shared with us by a friend who first discovered the menu on reddit (thank you internet crowdsourcing!) This tool is awesome. Chelsea believes that if everyone filled this form out and walked around with and exchanged with others, we would get to the core of compatibility a lot faster. One of my requirements is hourly texting and you don't own a phone? Oh? Easy, we should NOT date." This sounds dry as I type it but truly, this tool is awesome. And we cover only three sub items on this episode so it becomes clear how much this menu can open up conversations for those interested in being in connection with someone else.

https://www.amorywellness.com/_files/ugd/4f6a21_44ae73d7c6da4a4694d75422f3f9a79d.pdf?index=true

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