After I recorded this episode, I listened to it and realized my allergies affected my voice more than I thought! Apologies for my grogginess!

In this episode, I respond to a listener question about breaking the ice. Then, I talk about how several factors are making it seem like our time in the lifestyle is winding down.

What happens when there are two couples you want to play with at the club? How do you choose? Instead, how about you just play with both? That's exactly what happened when Eva and I attended a St. Patrick's Day event at a club. We had a great time and I'll tell you all about it in this episode!

I have learned that going into an event with no expectations is often the best way to ensure I'll have fun. It was no exception on Valentines Day when Eva and I attended a club event, knowing full well ahead of time that we would not be playing with anyone that evening.

Something that continues to be an absolute favorite of both Eva and myself: reclaim sex. In this episode, I'll discuss why it has become such an enjoyable and dare I say necessary part of our lifestyle adventures.

In this episode you'll hear about a solo adventure that was not only enjoyable, but unusual...at least for me. I'll tell you all about it and reinforce how respecting the dynamics of other couples is important in the lifestyle.

There are plenty of pet peeves I have but one related to the lifestyle is flaky couples. In this episode, I answer a few listener questions and then discuss a baffling situation involving a couple that suddenly changed their minds about meeting Eva and me for a play date.

I often do this podcast with the hope that my stories, rantings, ramblings, and ravings are relatable to others and help them navigate the lifestyle. But the two topics I discuss today left me with more questions than answers.

- Are Eva and I at fault for a miscommunication involving a couple we hoped to see again?

- What should a guy do if he's playing with a woman and he is suddenly met with an uncomfortable surprise?

Our New Years celebration was "neutral." A very enjoyable evening with plenty of disappointment. Also: how something as simple as wearing a fedora could be a catalyst for fun with another couple.

Plus: Evan Swings gets a not-so-great review!