What are the actual requirements of being a good friend? Apparently, pulling rogue chin hairs, pointing out questionable makeup, and telling someone when they have food in their teeth are just the beginning.

This week, Erica and Jenn are tackling the unwritten rules of friendship, why grown adults still feel the need to make excuses instead of simply saying no, and how many invitations it takes before you finally stop asking.

Somehow, we also get into high school reunions with an alarming amount of beer, our questionable fashion choices growing up, dancing like absolute lunatics, and a childhood cigarette-smoking operation that probably should've stayed in the '90s.

Then things get a little more serious as we talk about the invisible work of running a household, why planning everyone's entire existence is actually a job, and how sending your husband to the grocery store can somehow create more work.

Plus, school picture day failures, learning new things after 40, Erica's refusal to voluntarily enter freezing temperatures, and a friendship story Jenn would really prefer Erica had kept to herself.

As always, we're covering absolutely everything and solving almost nothing.

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Music Credit: "Dirty Gertie" by Shane Ivers, Silverman Sound Studios. Licensed under Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 International (CC BY 4.0). https://www.silvermansound.com