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Some stories don’t explain the world…
but they help us stay in it.

Today’s episode centers around the story of Anthony Ray Hinton, a man who spent nearly 30 years on death row for a crime he did not commit. 💔

This isn’t an episode about justice systems or timelines. It’s about what kept him alive in a place designed to strip everything away.

Friendship that showed up consistently.
Love that reached where hate once lived.
And a mind that refused to stay imprisoned.

If you’ve been feeling the weight of what’s happening in the world lately… this episode can help you feel grounded.

Referenced in this episode or similar Episodes:

• 📖 The Sun Does Shine by Anthony Ray Hinton
• 🎧 SuperSoul Conversations interview with Oprah Winfrey featuring Anthony Ray Hinton
• 🎙️ Earth Tones Podcast Episode 5 – Faith Behind Bars: 16 Years of Unshakable Strength
• 📜 Psalms 52–53

Themes

Love
Friendship
A strong mind

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This episode came from a really simple but honest realization I had recently…

I’m not single.
I’m ALIIIVE!

The word “single” has been carrying a lot of weight that doesn’t actually belong to it.

For some people, it means something is missing.
It turns into questions like:

Why are you single?
Why aren’t you married?
What’s wrong?

And then on the other side, it swings into this hyper-independent, anti-love energy.. I don’t fully resonate with either.

I wanted to sit down and talk through what this season has actually looked like for me.

After almost 7 years of being a single mom, I’ve had time to really observe life- my own patterns, relationships around me, and what actually creates stability… especially when kids are involved.

This episode is about:

• redefining what “single” actually means
• the pressure women feel to explain their relationship status
• why I stopped saying I’m single… and started saying I’m alive
• what it means to build a life that already feels full
• how time gives you clarity in what you actually need in a partner
• my ideal man “list” (to God)
• and why I’m willing to wait for alignment instead of settling for “decent”

I also share some perspective around:

• single-parent households in the U.S.
• how common this actually is
• and why bringing someone into your life (and your kids’ life) isn’t something I take lightly

This isn’t about being anti-love, I do want love. I do want marriage. I would love to have more children.

But I’m not living from a place where something is missing while I wait for that. 🫶🏼

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How often do patterns show up before the problem ever does?

Not just online… but in how we move through our lives. What we share. What we normalize. What we stop questioning.

In a digital world, those patterns don’t just stay personal… they become visible and sometimes even traceable.

We’re not called to live in fear but we are called to be aware.

“Be very careful, then, how you live—not as unwise but as wise.”
— Ephesians 5:15

“Watch your life and doctrine closely…”
— 1 Timothy 4:16

“The prudent see danger and take refuge…”
— Proverbs 22:3

There’s wisdom in noticing.
There’s protection in awareness.

In this episode, I talk through:

• the subtle patterns we tend to overlook
• how repetition can quietly reveal more than we realize
• why awareness is not fear—it’s protection
• and how to move with more intention in what we share and how we show up online

I also touch on something I think matters to say out loud- there’s a difference between sharing meaningful, consented moments (especially in global work or storytelling)…
and unintentionally creating patterns in everyday life that make us more visible than we realize.

Especially when it comes to our children. Our routines. Our homes.

We don’t need to disappear.
But we do need to be mindful.

Because what we miss… someone else might not.

🧭 Helpful Resources

If this stirred something in you and you want to go deeper, here are a few places to start:

For digital awareness + safety:

• National Center for Missing & Exploited Children (NCMEC) — resources on online safety for families
• Common Sense Media — guides for social media, kids, and digital boundaries
• Stop.Think.Connect. — simple digital safety practices

Practical things to consider:

• Turn off location tagging on posts (or delay posting)
• Avoid sharing consistent routines in real-time
• Check privacy settings across platforms
• Be mindful of what backgrounds reveal (schools, streets, landmarks)

For spiritual grounding + discernment:

• Revisit Proverbs (wisdom + awareness)
• Sit with Psalm 119 (guidance + alignment)
• Reflect on James 1:5 (asking for wisdom)