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Divorce with Carolyn

Divorce with Carolyn

De : Carolyn Tate
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Divorce with Carolyn is real talk for women about the hard parts of divorce and the beautiful life waiting on the other side. I've been through two divorces, spent years coaching women inside Women's Divorce Academy, and I'm here to be the divorce bestie you didn't know you needed — straight with you, cheering you on, and always bringing you back to what matters.

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  • Follow the money: What a forensic accountant wants every divorcing woman to know
    Apr 13 2026

    Ever stared at a pile of financial documents and felt completely out of your depth? Me too – but Julie Garis is here to help. Julie is a forensic accountant who specialises in helping women navigate the financial side of separation and property settlement. Julie has been through divorce herself – and she brings both professional expertise and lived experience to everything she does.

    We cover what she actually does (and how it's different from what your lawyer does), the financial red flags to watch for, what to do if you suspect your ex isn't disclosing everything, and why 'fair' might not be the right thing to aim for – and what question to ask instead.

    Key takeaways

    • The earlier you get organised, the better. Arriving at your lawyer's office prepared (with a relationship timeline, asset list, and key financial documents) can save you significant legal fees.
    • Business structures, crypto, undisclosed accounts and gambling are among the most common financial issues she encounters - and she shares what to do in those circumstances.
    • 'Fair' is rarely how property settlement feels for either party. The better question is: can I live with this outcome?
    • Financial clarity after settlement can be life-changing – many women discover their own competence with money for the first time.


    Resources mentioned

    • Julies' free First Steps: Financial Settlement Preparation checklist – https://www.simplesplitfinancials.com.au/checklist
    • Naomi Holmes – women's financial literacy – listen to our podcast with Naomi in episode 1
    • Women's Divorce Academy membership – womensdivorceacademy.com

    Send Carolyn a text

    READY FOR MORE SUPPORT?

    Women's Divorce Academy offers expert divorce support and a friendly community of women who understand exactly what you're going through.

    Learn more about our membership and divorce support: womensdivorceacademy.com

    CONNECT WITH US:

    Instagram: @womensdivorceacademy

    Facebook: Women's Divorce Academy

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    If this episode helped you, subscribe to Divorce With Carolyn and leave us a review on Apple Podcasts - it helps other women find the show. Thank you!

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    48 min
  • 5 divorce mistakes I see women making – and what to do instead
    Apr 6 2026

    If you're going through separation or divorce right now, this episode is for you. After seven years running Women's Divorce Academy and walking alongside over 800 women, I've seen the same 5 mistakes come up again and again – not because women aren't smart or capable, but because nobody tells them this stuff. In this episode I name each one clearly, explain why it happens, and share exactly what to do instead.


    KEY TAKEAWAYS

    • Getting independent legal advice early – even just one consultation – can change everything.
    • Keeping things 'nice' is not the same as keeping things functional. You're allowed to have needs in this process.
    • Equal and fair are not the same thing. 50/50 is not automatically the right outcome.
    • Rushing to settle can cost you. Taking time to understand your situation leads to better decisions.
    • Children are not primarily damaged by separation – they're damaged by sustained conflict. Having at least one stable, loving parent is what matters most.


    RESEARCH MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE

    • Amato, P.R. & Keith, B. (1991). Parental divorce and the well-being of children: A meta-analysis. Psychological Bulletin, 110(1), 26–46.
    • Arcangeli et al. (2024). Does Time Heal All Wounds? Journal of Happiness Studies. University of South Australia & University of Adelaide. doi.org/10.1007/s10902-024-00853-5
    • Clark & Georgellis, Kingston University London — 20-year longitudinal study, 10,000 participants.



    Send Carolyn a text

    READY FOR MORE SUPPORT?

    Women's Divorce Academy offers expert divorce support and a friendly community of women who understand exactly what you're going through.

    Learn more about our membership and divorce support: womensdivorceacademy.com

    CONNECT WITH US:

    Instagram: @womensdivorceacademy

    Facebook: Women's Divorce Academy

    SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW:

    If this episode helped you, subscribe to Divorce With Carolyn and leave us a review on Apple Podcasts - it helps other women find the show. Thank you!

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    21 min
  • What divorce stress does to your body, and how food (even potatoes!) can help
    Mar 30 2026

    Carolyn speaks with clinical nutritionist Susie Allen about what divorce and chronic stress actually do to your body – and what you can do about it. Susie draws on her own experience of two divorces and her clinical work to explain how the nervous system responds to prolonged pressure, why so many women find themselves wired but exhausted, and how simple nutritional choices can help break that cycle.

    We talk about adrenaline and fight-or-flight, the gut-brain axis, protein at breakfast, resistant starch (and how potatoes can actually be your friend OMG), sleep disruption, alcohol, and quick meals for when you're running on empty.



    Key takeaways

    • Running on adrenaline depletes magnesium, B vitamins, and the building blocks for key neurotransmitters
    • Protein at breakfast – within 30 to 60 minutes of waking, before coffee – sends a safety signal to your nervous system
    • Cooking potatoes, rice, and pasta the day before and refrigerating overnight converts them to resistant starch – better for your gut and absorbed differently
    • Late-night sugar and alcohol spike cortisol, disrupting sleep and contributing to the 3am wake-up (booooo!)
    • Morning sunlight triggers the melatonin cycle and supports better evening sleep


    Guest

    Susie Allen — Nutritionist, Your Vitality Nutrition

    • Website: www.yourvitalitynutrition.com.au
    • Instagram & Facebook: @yourvitalitynutrition
    • Ebook: Suddenly Single: https://yourvitalitynutrition.thrivecart.com/suddenly-single-ebook/


    Resources mentioned

    • Susie's ebook: Suddenly Single – https://yourvitalitynutrition.thrivecart.com/suddenly-single-ebook/ (or FREE inside the Women's Divorce Academy membership – www.womensdivorceacademy.com/our-program)
    • Wholesomeness (Queensland, Northern NSW, Sydney, Melbourne) – wholesomeness.com.au
    • Youfoodz – https://www.youfoodz.com/

    Send Carolyn a text

    READY FOR MORE SUPPORT?

    Women's Divorce Academy offers expert divorce support and a friendly community of women who understand exactly what you're going through.

    Learn more about our membership and divorce support: womensdivorceacademy.com

    CONNECT WITH US:

    Instagram: @womensdivorceacademy

    Facebook: Women's Divorce Academy

    SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW:

    If this episode helped you, subscribe to Divorce With Carolyn and leave us a review on Apple Podcasts - it helps other women find the show. Thank you!

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    46 min
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