Dear Son: Your Intent Doesn't Change How It Went - Real Talks on Accountability and Relationships

On this first-ever live episode of the Dear Son, Show, hosts Jey Blac and D Johns discuss the importance of intent versus outcome in personal and family relationships. The conversation covers multiple angles, including father-son dynamics, the impact of delivery over intent, and the nuances of loving someone the way they need to be loved. Insightful audience interactions address practical examples such as dealing with curfews, academic standards, and maintaining relationships. This thought-provoking discussion emphasizes accountability and self-awareness in nurturing healthy relationships, both within families and with significant others.

00:00 Introduction and Welcome

00:13 First Live Show Excitement

01:10 Topic Introduction: Intent vs. Outcome

02:21 Parenting Insights: Intentions and Actions

07:02 Personal Anecdotes and Lessons

10:02 Setting Standards and Consequences

21:05 Relationship Advice: Understanding Love

26:07 Lessons from My Marriage

27:11 The Importance of Communication

28:43 Intent vs. Action in Relationships

32:21 The Role of Accountability

35:03 Personal Anecdotes and Reflections

37:58 Navigating Expectations and Standards

48:45 Final Thoughts and Reflections

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Mastering Emotional Intelligence in Fatherhood with Jason Schnitzer | The Dear Son, Show

Join us for a profound episode of 'The Dear Son, Show' as host D Johns engages in a heartfelt and candid conversation with Jason Schnitzer. You’ll explore the complexities of fatherhood, emotional intelligence, and how previous life experiences shape who we become as men and fathers. Jason shares his own journey from aspiring Major League Baseball player to emotional intelligence coach, offering invaluable insights on regulating emotions, effective communication, and the importance of self-awareness. Whether you're a father, soon-to-be father, or simply interested in self-growth, this episode is packed with wisdom and actionable advice. Don’t miss it! Remember to subscribe and share your favorite part in the comments below.

00:00 Introduction to the Dear Sun Show

00:17 Guest Introduction: Jason Schnitzer

01:28 The Importance of Emotional Intelligence

04:40 Family Dynamics and Childhood Experiences

07:56 Marriage and Personal Growth

22:12 Coaching and Self-Reflection

30:35 Reflecting on Near-Death Experiences and Fear

31:09 Parenting Challenges and Passing on Wisdom

31:53 The Impact of Social Dynamics and Shame

33:38 Navigating Fear and Emotional Suppression

35:49 The Struggle with Failure and Identity

38:05 Overcoming Past Failures and Embracing New Challenges

39:39 The Journey from Baseball to Personal Growth

46:25 Helping Others Navigate Emotional Challenges

54:09 Final Thoughts and Closing Remarks

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Dear Son: Don't Lose Yourself Trying to Fix Yourself - Meaningful Conversations for Men

On this episode of the Dear Son, Show, hosts Jey Blac and D Johns engage in a dynamic and heartfelt discussion on the theme 'Don't Lose Yourself Trying to Fix Yourself.' They delve into personal and family life, sharing how they balance personal growth with maintaining their true selves. The episode covers a broad range of topics including the importance of physical and mental health, navigating relationships, parenting strategies, and maintaining individuality in the face of societal and personal pressures. With an emphasis on real-life experiences and personal accountability, this conversation is designed to inspire and provide practical advice to both men and women on their individual journeys. Tune in for an engaging, humorous, and insightful episode.

00:00 Introduction and Greetings

00:32 Catching Up on Life

01:17 School and Future Plans

02:34 Today's Topic: Dear Son, Don't Lose Yourself

03:14 Personal Reflections and Podcast Journey

07:08 The Importance of Seeking Help

13:18 Parenting Challenges and Approaches

20:57 Teaching Life Lessons to Young Men

26:13 A Father's Awareness and Involvement

27:23 Balancing Work and Family Life

28:13 The Importance of Being Present

30:21 Navigating Relationships and Expectations

32:25 Self-Reflection and Personal Growth

37:34 The Impact of Change on Identity

42:48 Closing Thoughts and Future Plans

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Dear Son, Do As I Say, Not As I Did - Lessons for the New Year | The Dear Son, Show

In this engaging episode of 'The Dear Son, Show,' hosts D Johns and Jey Blac dive into meaningful conversations centered around fatherhood, discussing their personal experiences and the challenges of raising sons. They touch upon topics such as the importance of aligning actions with words, the lessons they've learned from their own fathers, and the significance of being intentional with parental guidance. The hosts also share personal anecdotes about their holiday experiences and offer insights on various life lessons they wish to impart to their sons as they journey through manhood. This episode is packed with valuable advice and relatable stories aimed at fostering better father-son relationships.

00:00 Introduction to The Dead Son Show

00:19 New Year Vibes and Studio Updates

00:40 Family and Holiday Reflections

03:26 Live Show Announcements

04:33 Today's Topic: Dear Son, Do as I Say, Not as I Did

06:29 Father-Son Conversations and Lessons

11:45 Conflict Resolution Among Young Men

16:10 Teaching Practical Skills to Sons

20:12 Generational Criticism and Changing Times

21:20 Handling Confrontation with Wisdom

22:20 Teaching Moments and Personal Growth

27:37 Communication and Responsibility

40:57 Aligning Actions with Words

45:52 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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Seeds of Growth: Building Bonds, Overcoming Challenges, and Embracing Obedience

In this heartfelt episode of the Dead Sun Show, hosts Joe T, Jey Blac, Reggie George, and D Johns delve into the importance of accepting help, the impact of past experiences, and the power of genuine connections. They share personal stories of struggle and resilience, discuss the significance of obedience, and offer powerful messages about trust and community. Join them as they reflect on growth, celebrate progress, and look forward to the collective success of their journey. Don't miss this inspiring conversation, and be sure to subscribe to the channel and leave a review!

00:00 Introduction and Setting the Scene

00:33 Reflecting on Connections and Serendipity

02:04 Welcoming Guests and Sharing Stories

03:17 The Power of Genuine Connections

08:28 The Importance of 'Why' and Personal Motivations

19:56 Learning to Ask for Help

27:07 The Struggles of Asking for Help

27:39 Trust and Vulnerability in Relationships

30:23 Dealing with Grief and Loss

35:37 Building Skills Through Adversity

38:29 The Importance of Communication

49:26 Encouragement and Moving Forward

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Fatherhood Lessons & Life Conversations

In this episode of 'The Dear Son, Show,' we dive deep into meaningful conversations about fatherhood with special guest, Antoine Clark. D Johns, the host, leads the discussion on the dynamics of growing up with different parental structures, the influence of parenting on shaping futures, and the vital lessons about responsibility and growth. From childhood experiences to navigating adulthood, both speakers reflect on their journeys, share personal stories, and offer insights into fostering strong family bonds. Don't miss this heartfelt discussion that bridges the gaps between parents and children and explores how we can lead by example. Subscribe to the channel and let us know in the comments which part of the discussion resonated with you the most!

00:00 Introduction to the Dear Son Show

00:17 Guest Introduction: An Swan Clark

00:30 Childhood Memories and Family Dynamics

01:17 Father's Influence and Life Lessons

04:37 Marriage and Commitment Perspectives

08:40 Raising Children and Parental Reflections

26:01 Learning Through Experiences

26:26 Balancing Freedom and Responsibility

26:45 Navigating New Experiences

28:28 Conversations About Relationships

29:24 Blended Families and Parenting

29:49 Setting Standards and Discipline

41:01 Financial Wisdom and Legacy

46:15 Reflections on Fatherhood

51:28 Closing Thoughts and Farewell

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Year End Reflections: Wisdom We Wish We Had Learned Sooner

In this episode of 'The Dear Son, Show,' hosts Jey Blac and D Johns engage in a deep and reflective conversation to discuss the wisdom they wish they had known earlier in life. As they navigate through topics like celebrating holidays, the importance of valuing time with family, and lessons learned from 2025, Jey and D Johns offer valuable insights. They touch on topics such as hiring family members, dealing with imposter syndrome, fostering meaningful relationships, and preparing for the future. Tune in for a heartfelt episode that promises to spark meaningful conversations in your home. Don't forget to like, share, and subscribe! Let us know your favorite part in the comment section below.

00:00 Introduction and Holiday Vibes

00:40 Birthday Reflections and Festive Mood

02:29 Studio Updates and Group Chat Buzz

04:17 Topic Introduction: Dear Son, Why Should I Hire You?

05:38 Parental Perspectives on Hiring Family

21:09 Generational Stacking and Family Legacy

27:06 Settling in Texas: Establishing Roots

27:39 Embracing Louisiana Culture

28:40 Challenges of Distance and Travel

31:07 Reflecting on 2025: Lessons and Growth

36:05 Parenting Insights and Family Dynamics

41:52 Navigating Relationships and Personal Growth

42:48 Academic Pursuits and Generational Gaps

47:32 Commitment to Personal and Professional Development

53:07 Closing Thoughts and New Year Wishes

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Dreams Deferred: Fathers and Their Unspoken Desires

Welcome to the 'Dear Son, Show,' where meaningful conversations about life and fatherhood unfold. In this episode, hosts D Johns and Jey Blac delve into the often overlooked dreams and aspirations of fathers. They discuss the balance between providing for their families and pursuing their own passions, sharing personal anecdotes of dreams deferred and the emotional impact of sacrifices made for their loved ones. With humor and honesty, they explore the importance of acknowledging and sharing personal dreams, offering a heartfelt perspective on fatherhood, ambition, and self-worth. Join the conversation, subscribe to the channel, and leave a review to support the show!

00:00 Welcome to the Dead Son Show

00:38 Upcoming Live Event Announcement

01:50 Excitement and Reflections

02:33 Dear Son: Christmas Wishes

05:50 Dreams and Sacrifices

08:58 Self-Worth and Family Dynamics

12:16 Balancing Self and Family

16:25 The Importance of Self-Acknowledgment

22:47 Balancing Family and Personal Aspirations

23:11 The Joy of Traveling and Motorcycling

23:46 Sacrifices for Family Stability

25:41 Reflecting on Personal Dreams and Family Responsibilities

28:17 Encouraging and Understanding Spousal Dreams

35:08 Navigating Personal Failures and Embarrassment

44:07 The Importance of Intentionality and Family Moments

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