In this episode, we take a step back from bullying itself and look at what’s underneath it, including how we think, what we believe, and how those patterns shape our behavior.

This episode questions the idea of success that a lot of us grow up with. If success means being on top, being right, or winning, it can lead to competition, comparison, and even bullying. We discuss another way to look at it, one that’s more grounded in cooperation and how we treat people.

We also talk about the idea of a “pecking order.” It shows up everywhere, not just with kids, but just because it exists doesn’t mean you have to take part in it.

A big part of this episode focuses on how past experiences stick with us. Things people say, hurtful moments, labels we pick up; they can shape how you see yourself without you even noticing. Over time, that can affect how you respond to others.

When you start to see those patterns clearly, you’re not as controlled by them. That’s really what this episode comes down to: when you’re aware, you have a choice.

You’re not stuck in old roles or old thinking, and you can respond differently.

Resources Mentioned:

• Read the full book ⁠⁠⁠⁠Why Is Everybody Always Picking on Me?⁠⁠
• Explore our ⁠⁠⁠⁠bullying prevention and SEL programs⁠⁠⁠⁠
• Sign up for the ⁠⁠⁠⁠Weekly Bullying Prevention Newsletter⁠⁠⁠⁠
• Join our ⁠⁠⁠⁠signature online course, MAP STARS

Welcome to the first episode of the Bully Proof Your Child Podcast! We’re excited to start by sharing the story behind the Atrium Society and how we’ve been working to help children, parents, and teachers for over 40 years.

In this episode, we talk about:

• The history of the Atrium Society and our mission to create a more peaceful world
• How we got involved in bully prevention and why this work matters
• The common misunderstanding about martial arts and its role in bully prevention
• A few quick, practical tips to help kids navigate bullying situations today

Learn more about the Atrium Society on our website.

RESOURCES & WAYS TO CONNECT

• Join our weekly bully prevention course
• Join our online course to teach kids to resolve conflict safely
• For our curricula and books, visit atriumsoc.org/resource-library/
• Have a question or topic suggestion? Email us at podcast@atriumsoc.org
• Follow us on social media for more tips & updates on Instagram and Facebook

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