What sets this self-help journal apart from other dating books? There are many self-help books for women. However, in this one, the listener will carefully consider what they are looking for and come away with a plan on what they want in a partner. The author draws analogies for the listener between shoes and finding the right partner for you. She offers personal dating experiences, humor, and ideas on how to find your perfect partner. When you know what you want, you can remove the fear and create a plan for getting it.

With your purchase of this book, you will be given a detailed plan for you to complete. You will learn what habits to develop to be successful.

What you will learn about:

• Men are inherently more visual, and women are looking at the qualities within. It is important to remember that outward appearances are not always the most reliable gauge when choosing a life partner. It is dangerous to be swept away by looks alone, so caution is advised. Women tend to connect with people on a more spiritual and emotional level, and that is what they find alluring. What should you be looking at?
• Know yourself, what you want, and what you need. How do you see yourself? How do you carry yourself? Your mindset impacts how others will see you. If you truly want to have a fulfilled life, take the time to establish a strong foundation for yourself. Learn to appreciate yourself and your confidence will show through.
• The value of learning what you want and don’t want after each date.
• The power of reflection questions.
• What you can learn from the past.

You will come away with date ideas to incorporate moving ahead. The importance of pampering yourself and learning to love yourself before you can love someone else. You can’t save everyone, so save yourself. There is no such thing as a white knight.

You'll also come away with the value of embracing change. What are your values and priorities? Know your strengths and challenges. Know yourself to know what is best for you.