Every woman must get this.

Excellent resource! Everyone should get this audible book or read this book. It is excellent, packed full of information. I've read her books in the past and they keep getting better - just when you think you've heard it all, you get a deeper understanding.

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Eye opening. Not 4 those with PTSD Betrayal Trauma

This it was eye-opening. However. I have a few friends in councelling, so I have first hand knowedge that this book really isn't for everyone. For women who have wonderful husbands who just happen to be male and have eyeballs and testosterone.. for women who are simply curious about what the average visual guy goes through in a day, then this book is for you. However, if you are being treated for Betrayal Trauma PTSD, this book is not for you. The book is very eye-opening to the world of men's visual nature, yes. But it is also a little insensitive to the 50%-70 of women and wives who have Betrayal Trauma PTSD after their husband's porn addiction. Also, this book never touches on how deep the rabbit hole goes where porn is concerned and that it almost always leads to child pornography when an addiction is involved, no matter how nice or moral the addicted man is. In that aspect, I think this book is either a bit outdated or under researched. (For more info on the realities of porn, go to fightthenewdrug.com and if you have Betrayal Trauma PTSD read the book Intimate Deceptions by Dr. Sheri Keffer). This book seems to be a bit light-hearted in an area where a lot of women are in actual *psychological trauma* due to their spouse's porn use. If you're looking for a book that has a general, light approach to how men are visual, this is a great book for you. But if you're trying to understand how your husband has gotten himself into a horrible porn addiction, then you will be further traumatized and possibly triggered by this book.

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Powerful, helpful and practical

My husband and I have weathered the storm of dealing with a porn problem. As a wife I was never able to really "get" the way his mind works and why he would seek that out in the first place. After reading this I am convinced that it truly doesn't have anything to do with me but with how the males mind works. I have come to find helpful ways to navigate past hurts; for my own self to embrace freedom with him. Freedom from the snare of pornography and lust for him as well as freedom from insecurity, fear and depression for me. Excellent book for every woman to read or listen to.

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Do you have males in your life? Then read this!

Great for anyone who strives to understand the visual nature males of all ages. It also gives great tips as to how females can help males to take their thoughts captive And remain pure. If you are concerned that the male in your life has a problem with pornography or strip clubs or anything similar, read this for clarity and what might be the next step for you for your situation

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Zero responsibility to Men

If I could I would give this zero stars. I can’t believe how bad this book is....

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Amazing book

Very easy to listen to and quite compelling. All women would do well to listen to better understand the nature of men. It is even worthwhile for men to listen to realize that your nature is not intrinsically bad.

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So Enlightening!

This book was very helpful for many reasons!

1. I can now better understand what my husband experiences on a daily basis and be more understanding when we have open dialogue about it.

2. I have a young son. I feel more empowered to help guide him through struggles he will experience

3. I have a daughter. I can help her understand a new layer of thinking before getting dressed each day…as well as myself.

4. We do Christian Coaching and have encountered couples dealing with these issues. This is a great tool for helping them understand the why behind the behavior as they heal.

religious sexist book

book is horrible, more of the same, men are visual women need to understand and pray, it doesn't bring anything solution. The book treats women as saints without sexual desire and says that's why we don't understand men. l It doesn't treat the root or the cure, well women the fault of the man's perversion is just pornography and masturbation if you want to learn something good go to the fight the new drug website. com and oh yes you will find content not all this nonsense that this crazy woman is talking, don’t you play with porn , don’t let your kids play with porn don’t let your husband play with porn this is the answers not this trash book.

wives and mothers, PLEASE read this book!!!!

If you love your husband and sons, if you stand in front of men on a regular basis, you need to read this book!!!!

Absolute regressive filth.

Absolute filth. As a father of two daughters I find this book deeply disturbing conservative Christian rubbish.