Do you know you are loved by God, but still find yourself desperate to be chosen by someone else?

You trust Jesus. You know the verses. Yet when someone pulls away, a text goes unanswered, or a loved one’s mood shifts, fear can take over. You start overthinking, fixing, performing, or wondering what you did wrong.

Secure in Christ, Anxious in Love is for the Christian woman who is tired of living in the gap between what her head knows about God’s love and what her heart actually feels.

With candid honesty, biblical truth, and practical reflection, Savanna Barrett shares her journey through childhood abandonment, father wounds, approval-seeking, unhealthy attachments, marital betrayal, separation, and reconciliation. Along the way, she helps you:

Recognize patterns of anxious attachment and fear of abandonmentIdentify childhood wounds and false beliefs that still shape your relationshipsBreak free from approval-seeking, people-pleasing, and unhealthy emotional dependenceBuild healthier boundaries and reframe your story through biblical truthLearn to love from the security of Christ instead of the fear of losing someoneIncludes Scripture-based exercises, journal prompts, prayers, action steps, and a complete six-week group study guide.

Your past may explain why your heart learned to brace for rejection, but it does not have to determine your future.

Stop scanning the horizon for reassurance and begin resting in the steady love of the One who stays.