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    You can raise good kids!

    Loving Our Kids on Purpose combines the principles of the Kingdom of God and revival to form a powerful strategy for parents.

    Where the Spirit of the Lord is there is freedom. (2 Corinthians 3:17). Rather than the traditional approaches that train children to learn to accept being controlled by well-meaning parents and adults, this book teaches parents how to train children to manage their freedoms and protect their important heart-to-heart relationships.

    Children were designed with the core need of freedom. To deny this or live ignorant of it eventually destroys the trust connection between parent and child.

    There is no fear in love; but perfect love casts out fear, because fear involves torment. But he who fears has not been made perfect in love.(1 John 4:18 NKJV).

    Loving Our Kids on Purpose introduces paradigms, perceptions, skills, and ideas that will help parents reduce fear by eliminating the tool of punishment, and strengthening the core character of their children by empowering their self-control and value for their relationship with their parents.

    ©2008 Danny Silk (P)2016 Destiny Image Publishers

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    • Jonas Land
    • 13/08/2019

    Confusing, but some good advice

    Danny makes some good suggestions, but his idea of God relating to us is confusing. He speaks as if God’s main priority is to make us independent of him and for us to make decisions without him. Danny relates this to parenting and says that that is our main priority. This is confusing. God does the opposite. He’s not trying to give us freedom in order to be self-reliant people. God wants us to be completely dependent on him in every situation. So to make the parallel between God’s parenting of us and our parenting of our children is confusing. His recommendations of giving choices is helpful in many ways, however he speaks as if we should give choices in every situation. This is impractical. He doesn’t do a very good job of speaking about what it means to honour your father and mother. Instead he makes the child the center focus of the family. He almost speaks as if a child can either have freedom or can respect their mother and father, but can’t do both. The child’s freedom, in his opinion, is of paramount importance. Sadly, they are in for a rude awakening when they enter the workforce and realise that they have to submit under authority and their boss is not going to always give them the choices they want. I like his idea of a “think it over” chair. That was good. If you are to read this book, I would suggest you read some other parenting books as well. I would not use this as your only parenting guide.

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    • Amazon Customer
    • 07/03/2018

    Life Changing

    I would recommend this book to everyone raising children ... My prayer is for the Lord to ingrain into my brain these truths that I have missed all these years ... I have so messed up this parenting thing in so many ways ...with all of my good intentions!!! I have been parenting out of pure fear ... thinking that I could control behavior! Fear of failure ....I have failed miserably ...
    Lord change ME, open my eyes to your Perfect Love - help me to know your love in my heart so that I can LOVE my kids on purpose!!!
    Thank you for sharing these pearls of wisdom & truths!

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    • Maria Abreu
    • 29/06/2021

    Great book but not great narration

    Wish the author had narrated. The narration was dull but content was well worth it.

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    • Amanda
    • 07/08/2018

    Thank you

    This book gives me more understanding on how to raise and approach my child. After listening to this book, I rarely yelled at my child as before. I now realized what I’ve been missing. Thank you.

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    • Justin Bellars
    • 15/03/2017

    Provides a great alternate perspective

    Provides a refreshing perspective about what raising kids could look like without losing your mind or, more importantly, your relationship with your kids.

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    • Richelle and Brandon
    • 09/07/2022

    Changed the way I parent!

    I had to slow down and read this in small sections because it was so counterintuitive to how I was raised. Every time I would pick up this book it would further smooth off those rough edges. Putting these practices in place has uncrowded my heart from a controlling Mom to a connection based Mama who can be open and honest with her family. I see now the struggles my own parents had raising me and how so many issues that grew and that needed to heal could’ve been prevented by facilitating a healthy relationship. This book is full of healing wisdom and the very heartbeat of heaven for everyone you meet.

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    • Krysta
    • 03/06/2022

    Kid should “be fun” in order to be around??

    I was recommended this book and really wanted to like it… while I agree with some of his stances,I also wholeheartedly disagree with others. I had to stop listening because i just felt like I wasn’t getting anything from it and was noting how I disagree rather than what I learned.
    For instance: the “no fun rule” saying the kid should be fun to be around or go to their room until they’re fun to be around. And if they try coming to you upset ask them “are you being fun? If not go to your room”…… basically telling the child, “nope I don’t wanna be around you unless you’re pleasing me, I have no space for you if you are having big feelings etc” I want my child to KNOW I’m here regardless if they’re “fun” or not. especially young kids, they need help learning to regulate their emotions and I feel like you set the precedence for a people pleaser if you continually tell them they must be fun in order to be accepted.
    Not for me.
    I also felt like there was lots of “fluff”. Saying what not to do but not giving a lot of alternatives.

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    • Nathan
    • 25/05/2022

    Life changing.

    A books that changes your life by helping you heal and mold your heart to be more like Jesus.
    gives practical how to's to help!

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    • Felisa Jane
    • 21/04/2022

    Life-changing

    So needed. Informative and relevatory. So thankful for this book. "Christ's love was not cautious but extravagant. He didn't love in order to get something from us, but to give something to us."

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    • Anonymous User
    • 16/02/2022

    Great ideas

    Loved it! Danny Silk does such a good job relaying how to respond to your kids.

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    • Tannenfalke
    • 28/06/2019

    Neuer Lieblingsauthor

    Als werdender Vater ein Genuss! Ich verstehe jetzt Beziehungen viel besser und freue mich schon die Prinzipien und Konzepte anzuwenden. Jetzt verstehe ich auch besser, warum meine Beziehung zu meinen Eltern so schwierig war / ist.
    Ich empfehle das Buch unbedingt weiter.

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    • J.S.
    • 29/12/2017

    revolutionary

    ... concept.
    no punishment.
    will listen to it again.
    hoping to be able to apply it soon

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    • Yv
    • 12/06/2017

    sehr lehrreich

    Auch mit 8 Kindern kann ich hier noch viel dazu lernen. Ich hoffe, bevor sie alle Teenager sind, habe ich diese sehr liebende Art drauf.