On this episode of Dismissed, Jeni and Amy unpack tech overwhelm, social media learning curves, and the texting habits that drive them nuts. Jeni revisits her early-adopter days during the dot-com boom—and wonders how she went from embracing innovation to battling a shared document. Amy reflects on teaching’s transition from handwritten grade books to online everything, plus an Instagram Reels audio struggle that required reinforcements from her daughter.

They also compare TikTok vs. Instagram Reels, debate the appeal of scrolling, and discuss AI, and The Blackberry.

Then comes Amy’s PMO: people who don’t reply to texts or emails. A response would be lovely. Don’t be rude.

Chapters

00:00 Jeni & Amy Log On
00:09 From Early Adopter to Google Docs Defeat
01:27 Teaching Meets Tech Overload
02:30 Zoom Issues & Accidental IT Careers
03:53 AI Fun, Actual Learning Curves
05:26 “Just Drag & Drop It,” Says Josh
06:07 Reels Audio Drama & Old-Phone Problems
07:19 TikTok vs. Instagram Reels
09:28 Confessions of a Non-Scroller
10:33 Amy’s PMO: Texts & Emails Left Unanswered
12:26 Their Motto: Don’t Be Weird
12:53 Where to Find Jeni & May—Replies Encouraged

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Leaking when you laugh? Peeing every five minutes? Waking up several times a night to pee?

In this episode of dismissed., Jeni and Amy talk about what most of us women are dealing with: urinary leakage, bladder urgency, frequent urination and nighttime peeing. And they talk about what can be done: pelvic floor physical therapy and surgery options.

Jeni shares her very real postpartum leaking story and how she eventually found relief with TVT surgery. Amy shares how pelvic floor PT improved her nighttime bathroom trips.

Then they bring in Ksenia Mack of Lakeshore Physical Therapy to explain what the pelvic floor actually is, why your bladder may be acting like a needy toddler, and why the answer is not always “just do more Kegels.”

Plus, Dr. Burki from GynoInfo! podcast joins once again to answer “Do I still need a gynecologist after menopause?” She explains why annual well-woman visits still matter, how pap smear schedules are different from yearly exams, and what your gynecologist can help monitor in midlife and beyond.

Visit Dr. Burki’s GynoInfo! podcast here. https://youtu.be/yXdW-ESYuPU?si=T6pUxRje5lTORZuU

If you’ve ever crossed your legs before sneezing, mapped out bathrooms before leaving the house, or wondered why your bladder suddenly has main-character energy — this episode is for you.

00:00 Do I Still Need a Gyno

00:18 Urinary Issues After Kids

00:31 Leaking and TVT Surgery

01:28 Frequency and Pelvic PT

02:52 Meet the Pelvic Floor Expert

03:19 How Pelvic Floor Therapy Works

05:21 Leaking vs Frequency Explained

06:56 Menopause and Gyno Visits

08:11 Well Woman Visit Basics

10:53 Pap Smear Timing Guidelines

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In midlife and the empty nest era, friendships can look different — and honestly, that can be a good thing. In this episode of dismissed. Jeni and Amy talk about how friendships in adulthood, midlife, and after the busy mom-life years can become calmer, more honest, and a lot less dramatic.

As we get older, many of us stop chasing friendships that feel exhausting or one-sided. Instead, we start valuing friends who add peace, humor, support, and honesty to our lives. Jeni and Amy discuss the shift from intense, constant friendships in younger years to more relaxed adult relationships where there’s no pressure, no guilt, and no drama.

They also talk about letting go of the “go-to mom” role — the person who is always expected to organize, coordinate, drive, plan, host, and keep everything together. Sometimes that means smaller group texts, casual neighborhood connections, a no-pressure mahjong group, and the freedom to say no to plans without overexplaining.

This episode is for anyone who has ever felt drained by friendship drama, overwhelmed by social obligations, or ready to protect their peace and choose friendships that actually feel good.

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