Are finances tearing couples apart before they even get started? Marvin and Tay get into the real conversations people avoid: loaning money to family, who should have a say in how your partner spends, and whether marriage actually benefits men or women. Plus, would you stay in a relationship just because your family loves your partner? And what happens when your ex is still treated like family? This episode hits every nerve. Subscribe and drop your thoughts in the comments.

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00:00 Icebreaker: What Would Your Mom Disown You For?
06:45 Parenting Standards: Raising Sons and Daughters the Same Way
14:20 Loaning Money: Where Do You Draw the Line?
27:10 Should Married Couples Clear Every Financial Decision Together?
38:00 Does Marriage Benefit Men or Women More?
48:30 Would You Stay Because Your Family Loves Them?
55:15 Exes as Family: When Does It Cross the Line?
59:00 Lifestyle Misconceptions and Wrapping Up


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Once trust is broken, can you ever really get it back? Mar B and Tay go deep on rebuilding trust, lying in relationships, what it means to be equally yoked, dating someone without a strong male role model, and whether asking your partner to cut off opposite-sex friends is controlling or just smart. Plus a would you or wouldn't you that gets real very fast. This is Conversate After Dark — no filter, all the way Black.

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00:00 — Intro + show open
01:00 — Icebreaker: Once trust is broken, can you get it back?
05:30 — "I used to lie and cheat" — Mar B's confession and accountability
09:00 — Small lies vs big lies: where does it start?
13:30 — Equally yoked: background, class, and who your family approves of
20:00 — Raised on love vs raised on survival
26:00 — Would you date someone with no strong male role model?
33:00 — Cutting off opposite-sex friends: controlling or valid?
41:00 — Men see things women don't and vice versa
46:00 — Would you or wouldn't you: skinny dipping + naturist lifestyle
51:00 — Outro + where to find CVAD


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Masturbation, Mental Health, and Relationship Boundaries: The Conversation Nobody Wants to Have

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00:00 Cold Open
00:30 Show Intro and Where to Find Us
01:45 Icebreaker: Bedroom Names and Alter Egos
07:00 Facebook Jail, Alternate Pages, and May Awareness Months
13:30 The History of Shame Around Self-Pleasure and the Gender Double Standard
22:00 Toys, Preferences, Desensitization, and When Solo Pleasure Becomes a Relationship Problem
31:30 The Amazon Package That Went to Grandma Twice and Our Most Embarrassing Caught Stories
38:00 Mental Health Awareness Month: Can You Date Someone Who Refuses to Get Help
45:00 Marv Opens Up About Depression and Suicidal Ideation
51:30 Male Role Models, How They Shape Relationship Behavior, and Mentoring Young Men
55:30 Final Thoughts and Show Close
57:20 End


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What would you do if your sex tape leaked online? Marv and Tay go there — and don't stop there. This episode covers Ray J's wild claims, Klay Thompson fumbling Megan Thee Stallion, Tory Lanez, and the real reason couples stay silent about what they want in the bedroom. Are you a pleaser or a controller? Can two pleasers actually work? Plus, would you date someone who refuses to meet your people after 6 months?

CVAD brings the real conversations nobody else is having. Subscribe and tell a friend.

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0:29 Intro & Where to Find Us
1:45 Icebreaker: Your Sex Tape Just Leaked — Now What?
13:30 Ray J Claims 12,500 Partners — Do We Believe Him?
23:50 Klay Thompson Fumbled Megan Thee Stallion
32:20 Tory Lanez, Accountability & Why People Still Hate Meg
41:10 Do Couples Actually Talk About What They Want in Bed?
50:30 What Happens When Two Pleasers Collide
59:45 Would You Date Someone Who Won't Meet Your People After 6 Months?
1:11:00 Introducing Partners to Family — Where's the Line?
1:18:45 Final Thoughts & Outro


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In this episode of Conversate After Dark, we dive into real conversations about relationships, intimacy, and boundaries.

We break down:
• How important alone time is in relationships
• Clingy vs independent partners
• Does porn negatively impact intimacy?
• Can good sex actually save a bad relationship?
• Revenge sex, toxic habits, and relationship truths
This episode gets honest, funny, and real about modern dating and connection.

🎧 Streaming everywhere

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0:00 Intro + where to find the show
0:38 Icebreaker: how important is alone time in a relationship
3:30 Clingy vs independent partners
4:03 Nonchalant partners and getting too used to being single
12:12 “Nothing is worse than being touched when you don’t want to be touched”
13:20 Does porn mess up intimacy in relationships?
14:27 Porn and unrealistic expectations
16:26 Can porn desensitize you sexually?
21:18 What if your partner’s porn preference is the opposite of you?
22:37 Race preferences and dating outside your race
28:16 Black men and Black women discussion
28:49 Can good sex save a struggling relationship?
32:19 Can you have sex while still mad at your partner?
36:23 Would you ever have revenge sex?
43:30 Friends, loyalty, and crossing relationship lines
50:17 Outro


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On this episode Tay and Marv talk about the viral clip of the man sleeping his car to avoid his wife, and can you be with someone who does not think sex is important.

Grown folks talk. No fluff. Just real convo.

Tune in and tell us what you think.


It’s the real talk you need before you hit “post.”
No fluff, no mess — just grown conversation.

🎧 Streaming everywhere
📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/RPqwmg_vLC8
📌 Link in bio

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On this episode Tay and Marv talk about is it weird to manifest a marriage.

Grown folks talk. No fluff. Just real convo.

Tune in and tell us what you think.


It’s the real talk you need before you hit “post.”
No fluff, no mess — just grown conversation.

🎧 Streaming everywhere
📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/JiRKZrimOoA
📌 Link in bio

💬 Got thoughts? DM us or email cvadthepodcast@gmail.com

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On this episode Tay and Marv talk about apology languages and when does liking social media pictures go too far?

Grown folks talk. No fluff. Just real convo.

Tune in and tell us what you think.


It’s the real talk you need before you hit “post.”
No fluff, no mess — just grown conversation.

🎧 Streaming everywhere
📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/gdCKXnHHejU
📌 Link in bio

💬 Got thoughts? DM us or email cvadthepodcast@gmail.com

#CVADPodcast #ConversateAfterDark#SocialMediaAndLove #healingjourney #GrownFolksTalk #BlackLoveConversations #LoveAndBoundaries #ModernRelationships #RealTalkOnly