Millennials: will they retire? That's what we're mulling over this week. As an elder millennial, Contra Tenore has some thoughts on how this was all supposed to go. Brown is waiting for the collapse. We're all existing in this capitalist hellscape until then.

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This week's episode is about how we try to fit a neat narrative onto messy real life events. We're always looking for a way to make sense of the world and sometimes it just doesn't make sense. We also talk about cognitive bias and some pieces of story that are useful and even advance us as a species.

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This week we talk about our love of dating shows. Are there any that aren't trashy? Tangents include why Americans need to be on the TV, Contra Tenor's love of below deck, and the complex relationship dynamics of some fairly shallow people.

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It's a special episode. In fact, more of our episodes are going to be special episodes from now on. Every few weeks contra tenor will be out and brown will have a guest co-host. This week's guest is Sarah Bigman, a functional medicine practitioner and licensed mental health therapist. She's here to talk about narcissism- what it is and how to identify it in your life or your relationships.

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We're talking about anxiety this week because contra tenor is going through an anxiety inducing situation and it seemed topical.

Trigger warning- we talk briefly about unaliving in this episode and it it's not something you want to hear about please do skip this one.

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This week we ask the question "is it easier to relate across class lines or across generational lines?" Contra tenor teaches brown about The Silent Generation and brown realizes more about her own privilege.Support the podcast: https://patreon.com/WindowGazingPodcastCheck out our website: https://windowgazingpodcast.com/Visit us on Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cntrtnr https://www.tiktok.com/@brown19170

It's our first crossover episode! This week we invited one of our favorite Tiktok creators to talk about urban planning, city walkability, affordable housing, and public transportation. By the end of the episode we will have solved this issue, you're welcome :)

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We're talking about relationships this week! Brown's many relationships and thoughts about them, and Contra tenor's one stable marriage or 20 years. Two different perspectives to compare and contrast relationships.

There's also a list of "insecure" relationship aspects that I list early in the episode. Here they are in written form:

• lack of trust-difficulty with intimacy
• trying to get emotionally unavailable people to respond / be nice
• limerance / creating a fantasy world around the relationship
• not being able to tell when people are being nice or mean
• enmeshment. Not knowing where my emotions stop and yours begin. Chronically prioritizing other people
• either taking too much responsibility or not enough. In either case ending up in bad relationships over and over again
• insecurity of all kinds
• loss of self: not knowing what I want, not knowing how I feel, not knowing who I like

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