You’re not still single because you’re doing dating wrong — you might be under the influence of bad dating advice. Advice that sounds confident and empowering, but quietly trains you to stay guarded instead of connected. We live in a time where anyone with a platform can position themselves as a dating expert, and over time, we absorb beliefs about love, men, women, and relationships without realizing how deeply they shape what we expect, what we tolerate, and how emotionally available we’re able to be. That’s how so many people end up doing “everything right” in dating and still feeling stuck, exhausted, or disconnected — not because they’re broken, but because the advice they’ve been following was designed to help them protect themselves, not prepare for love. In this episode, we break down how influence actually works, why certain dating advice feels true even when it’s costing you connection, and how to discern whether the voices you’re listening to are expanding you or quietly keeping you stuck.

If this resonates, download the free Dating Advice Discernment Guide to do an honest advice audit, and if you’re ready to find and keep a healthy relationship this year 100% dating app free, you can book a consultation with me here.

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If early dating feels emotionally exhausting — like every pause, delay, or moment of uncertainty sends you spiraling — this episode is for you.

In this conversation, we talk about why control can start to feel safer than love, especially if your past has taught you that uncertainty usually comes before disappointment. You’ll learn how seeking clarity, reassurance, or certainty can look like emotional maturity — while quietly keeping you stuck in familiar patterns that never lead to the relationship you want. We unpack why “just trusting” doesn’t work, how meaning gets assigned to dating situations without you realizing it, and what actually has to shift so dating doesn’t feel like something that keeps happening to you.

If this episode hit close to home and you’re wondering what’s really keeping you single, take the Why You’re Really Still Single Quiz. It will help you uncover the specific dynamic shaping how you show up in dating — and what needs attention next.

If you’re tired of feeling like you’re doing everything “right” but still ending up heartbroken, anxious, or stuck in almost-relationships, you need this episode. The real reason love feels so hard for you isn’t your standards, your past, or your personality — it’s the identity you’ve unknowingly been living in. An identity shaped from old pain, old experiences, and old survival strategies that your heart hasn’t outgrown yet.

In this episode, I show you how these hidden identities form, how they choose your partners for you, why they make you mistake chaos for chemistry, and how to begin shifting into a healthier identity that finally supports the love you want.

👉 Want clarity on which identity YOU’VE been dating from? Take the “Why You’re Really Still Single” Quiz — it reveals the exact identity keeping you single.