Most people choose a word for the year based on what they want to achieve, acquire, or accomplish. But that's not how transformation works.

In this episode, I'm sharing why your word of the year should be about who you're becoming, not what you want to get. It's a practice in identity, not goals. A call toward the woman you're evolving into. not a to-do list disguised as intention-setting.

I'll walk you through:

• Why choosing a word based on outcomes keep you stuck in the same patterns
• The difference between a word that motivates and a word that transforms
• My own experience choosing 'selfish' as my word in 2020 - what it taught me, how it challenged me, and why it was exactly what I needed
• How to choose a word that serves your evolution (not just your ambition)
• This isn't about New Year's resolutions or vision boards. It's about claiming who you're becoming and letting that guide everything else.

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