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Goals don’t change us—identity does.

Most of us set big targets, get hyped, then fall off by January 20th and feel like quitters. In this episode, we get painfully honest about why that happens and how to build the kind of life that lasts. We replace “set a goal” with Be → Do → Have: become the person first, take the smallest daily action next, and let the results follow.

We talk about identity over resolutions, grace without excuses, and the simple rule that saves momentum: no two days lost. If you’re working hard and going nowhere, this is your reset—less pressure, more progress, and a faith-first lens for leading your home, work, and money.
We get practical: tiny habits that actually stick, how to measure what matters (leading measures, not vanity metrics), and a simple decision filter to buy back time and income—no more “either/or” traps. We also share how to think like an investor before you own a single asset and why consistency beats “perfect” every time.

📌 Key Topics:
✅ Identity beats resolutions (Be → Do → Have)
✅ No two days lost: stack wins, never break the chain
✅ Do less but daily: small steps, compound outcomes
✅ Leading measures only: track what moves the needle
✅ Investor before investments: act the part, then own the part
✅ And, not or: buy time and results
✅ People before profits; time over money; faith over hustle

If you’re stuck, tired, or behind, choose the next right move today—then repeat it tomorrow.

Chapters:
00:00 Why New Year's Resolutions Fail
01:30 The Be-Do-Have Framework
02:21 Identity-Based Goals
04:05 Simplifying SMART Goals
06:17 The Importance of Small Steps
09:06 Consistency and Habit Stacking
14:03 Setting Business Goals
18:01 Balancing Time and Money in Business
27:43 Understanding Fixed Costs and Margins
28:46 The Importance of Tracking Metrics in Real Estate
29:45 The Truth About Numbers and Context
31:59 Setting and Achieving Personal Goals
34:11 Biblical Context of Goal Setting
36:03 First Principles and Goal Setting
37:01 Balancing Personal and Professional Goals
39:38 The Importance of Intentionality
43:41 Consistency and Habit Stacking
48:44 Final Thoughts on Goal Setting and Improvement