If you’re constantly overcommitting, overexplaining, or second-guessing how others will react to your decisions, this episode is for you.

People pleasing often gets dressed up as being “nice”. But under the surface, it’s fear. Fear of conflict. Fear of disconnection. Fear of being misunderstood or rejected. And left unchecked, it quietly turns into self-sabotage.

In this solo episode, Shelley breaks down why people pleasing isn’t a personality trait or a weakness — it’s a learned habit rooted in safety. She shares how it shows up in business, leadership, and relationships, and why your nervous system keeps choosing approval over honesty.

Most importantly, she walks you through practical, realistic shifts to start disrupting the pattern without swinging to the other extreme.

You’ll hear how to build clarity, courage, and confidence — without becoming rude, harsh, or someone you’re not.

In this episode, you’ll learn how to:

1. Recognise where people pleasing is running on autopilot
2. Ask what you actually want before defaulting to yes
3. Practise saying no without overexplaining or managing reactions

If people pleasing is costing you your energy, your voice, or your alignment, this conversation will help you start choosing yourself — one honest moment at a time.

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