In this episode of Uncoupled and Unfiltered, we sit down with Vikki Stark, psychotherapist and author of Runaway Husbands, to explore why some men emotionally or physically disappear during marriage or divorce.

We unpack what defines a runaway husband, the role of emotional avoidance, fear of conflict, and identity loss, and how sudden withdrawal and lack of closure impact spouses, families, and children. This conversation offers insight for anyone navigating divorce, separation, or emotional abandonment—and a deeper understanding of men’s emotional coping in modern relationships.

Key Topics Covered:

• What the “Runaway Husbands” phenomenon really means
• Why do some men emotionally or physically disappear during marriage or divorce
• Emotional avoidance, conflict fear, and identity loss in men
• The psychological impact of abandonment on spouses and families
• Whether runaway husbands are becoming more common today
• Why closure is often missing—and how to heal without it
• What women wish they had understood sooner about emotional withdrawal
• How to move forward after a sudden separation or divorce

Who This Episode Is For:

• Women experiencing sudden separation or divorce
• Anyone dealing with emotional abandonment or lack of closure
• Listeners interested in relationship psychology and divorce recovery
• Those seeking clarity around men’s emotional behavior in relationships

“Life will go on, and you will have a new chapter, and it might be a very nice chapter.” - Vikki Stark

About Our Guest: Vikki Stark

Vikki Stark is a psychotherapist and author specializing in relationships, marriage breakdown, and emotional abandonment. Her work focuses on helping individuals understand the dynamics of sudden marital disengagement and healing after divorce.

Connect with Vikki Stark:

Website: https://www.vikkistark.com/

Connect with Ksenia Muench:

Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kvmuench/

Email: ksenia@thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com

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