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  • Lesbianism Was NOT All Fun And Games For Nico Carney | WHGS 346

    Lesbianism Was NOT All Fun And Games For Nico Carney | WHGS 346
    Oct 19 2026
    This episode is lively, listener! Nico Carney is a comedian, writer, and actor, whose new hour-long special ‘WEE LAD’ is now out on Youtube. We discuss the genders TikTok commenters assign us, straight men with masculine wives, and facing uncertainty before transition. Jen’s parents accidentally see way too much of Ashley’s boobs, Nico shares an insightful story about confronting people from your past, and Freddie talks about the similarities between sex and improv. FOLLOW NICO CARNEY @nicocarney Watch Nico’s Special WEE LAD: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z7Zpx7zRgLs Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nicocarney/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@nicocarneycomedy Substack:​​ https://substack.com/@nicocarney Tour Dates + Sets: https://linktr.ee/nicocarney FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW FREDDIE SHANEL @freddie.shanel1 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freddieshanel Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/freddie.shanel1/ Mailing List and Shows: https://linktr.ee/freddieshanel SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/13Uhq9pO2Dx799YyWXZvB1?si=f33211ce2c1d4f12 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/were-having-gay-sex/id1505116116 Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/w7SSAfu1Qq4 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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    1 h et 12 min
  • Kylie Vincent’s Balance Beam to End MS | WHGS 345

    Kylie Vincent’s Balance Beam to End MS | WHGS 345
    Oct 12 2026
    This episode is a homecoming, listener! Kylie Vincent is back on the pod to discuss her recent MS diagnosis and new show, Lesion Lady. During our catch up we discuss being a white woman with a cane, what your Sims worlds say about your childhood, and the pros and cons of visible vs. invisible disabilities. Ashley gets into her own journey with disability and accommodations, Kylie discusses becoming a bottom by medical necessity, and Jen pops in to discuss whether or not testicles can taste umami?! FOLLOW KYLIE VINCENT @kylievincenthasrisen TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kylievincenthasrisen Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kylievincenthasrisen/ Tour Dates + Sets: https://beacons.ai/kylievincent Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@kylierosevincent FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/13Uhq9pO2Dx799YyWXZvB1?si=f33211ce2c1d4f12 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/were-having-gay-sex/id1505116116 Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/-rHQQYdMPI8 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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    1 h et 12 min
  • Taking Nudes At The Airport w/ Two Dykes and a Mic | WHGS 344

    Taking Nudes At The Airport w/ Two Dykes and a Mic | WHGS 344
    Oct 5 2026
    This episode is double-trouble, listener! McKenzie Goodwin and Rachel Scanlon are the two hilarious hosts of the hit queer podcast Two Dykes and a Mic. We discuss their “lesbian hive mind,” phone sex with your spouse, celesbians, and the art of taking nudes at the airport. Ashley has sex that jump starts her period, Rachel’s best laid plans for a romantic night in are foiled, and McKenzie has a bit of a sex toy mystery. FOLLOW TWO DYKES AND A MIC @twodykesandamic TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@twodykesandamic Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/twodykesandamic/ Tour Dates + Podcast: https://twodykesandamic.com/ Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/TwoDykesAndAMic Check out Mckenzie’s Film: https://www.meetingmarsha.com/ FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/ Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/13Uhq9pO2Dx799YyWXZvB1?si=f33211ce2c1d4f12 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/were-having-gay-sex/id1505116116 Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/-rHQQYdMPI8 ______________________________________________ #comedy #standupcomedy #lesbian #gay #tiktok #lgbt #dating #bi #trans #nonbinary #enby Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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    1 h et 15 min
  • The Dance World = Gay Paradise?? w/ Kiel Tutin | WHGS 343

    The Dance World = Gay Paradise?? w/ Kiel Tutin | WHGS 343
    Sep 28 2026
    This episode is fascinating, listener! Kiel Tutin is a dancer, choreographer, and creative director who has been the visionary behind performances like BLACKPINK’s headlining Coachella set and The JLO Show: Live in Las Vegas. We discuss the policing of popstars, the perils (and benefits?) of reading the comments, and the joy that comes from seeing old people dance. Ashley’s plans get lost in translation at a Berlin FLINTA flat, and Lizzy tries to clock other guests at a straight wedding. Kiel shares his experience growing up and thriving in the ultra-accepting world of high level dance competitions. FOLLOW KIEL TUTIN @kieltutin TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kieltutin Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kieltutin/ FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/ Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/13Uhq9pO2Dx799YyWXZvB1?si=f33211ce2c1d4f12 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/were-having-gay-sex/id1505116116 Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/-rHQQYdMPI8 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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    1 h et 14 min
  • Madison Sinclair Gets Back At A Homophobe By Banging His Wife | WHGS 342

    Madison Sinclair Gets Back At A Homophobe By Banging His Wife | WHGS 342
    Sep 21 2026
    This episode is WILD, listener! Madison Sinclair is a comedian, writer (Comedy Central’s Roasts of Kevin Hart, Whitney Cummings, and Bert Kreischer), and CEO of The Bummer Shop, which sells booty shorts with sad facts. We discuss being “the man” in a femme for femme relationship, doing comedy with (and for) your dog, and the crime of being gay in the NFL. Ashley fumbles a flirtatious audience member after a show, and Lizzy gets kicked out of a timeshare presentation. Madison shares an iconic story about getting revenge on a homophobic comedian by sleeping with his ex…and there’s surprise knife play involved?! FOLLOW MADISON SINCLAIR @madisonsinclair 9/27 Live Taping Tickets: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/madison-sinclair-comedy-special-taping-tickets-1999318760232 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@madisoncomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/madisonsinclair/ Twitter: https://x.com/alikolbert Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://madisonsinclair.org The Bummer Shop: https://thebummershop.com/ FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/ Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/13Uhq9pO2Dx799YyWXZvB1?si=f33211ce2c1d4f12 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/were-having-gay-sex/id1505116116 Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/-rHQQYdMPI8 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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    1 h et 15 min
  • We All Confront Each Other, & the WHGS Family May Never Recover… | WHGS 341

    We All Confront Each Other, & the WHGS Family May Never Recover… | WHGS 341
    Sep 14 2026
    Tensions are HIGH in this episode, listener! It’s a non-traditional WHGS family episode today, and it may be one of our most raw and emotional episodes to date… Joined by both our fantastic co-hosts and comedians Lizzy Cassidy and Ali Kolbert, it all gets laid bare: Ashley confronts Ali on why she’s so intimidating, Ali confronts Ashley on why she’s so intimidated, the room confronts Ashley and Jen on why they haven’t got married, and Lizzy confronts strangers about their children. In-between, we discuss novel approaches to giving head, energy patches, and going to the movies. And to top it all off, some devastating news is dropped that may change the WHGS family forever… FOLLOW ALEX VRAHAS @alvrahas Mailing List: https://forms.gle/t48AUUEYzrNagU1B9 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alvrahas Twitch: https://www.twitch.tv/alvrahas FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW ALI KOLBERT @alikolbert TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alikolbert Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alikolbert/ Twitter: https://x.com/alikolbert Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://www.alikolbert.com/shows FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/ Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/-rHQQYdMPI8 ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HERS: Get affordable and personalized treatment at https://www.forhers.com/gay Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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    1 h et 11 min
  • Amelia Montooth Prefers to Start Threeways Over Dinner | WHGS 340

    Amelia Montooth Prefers to Start Threeways Over Dinner | WHGS 340
    Sep 7 2026
    This episode is being BOLD, listener! Amelia Montooth is the founder and CEO of Mutuals Media — the people behind your favorite online queer content like “Gaydar” with Anania, but today she’s in the apartment to get behind YOU with a strap! We discuss starting threesomes with strangers at pride, initiating it inside a crowded Thai restaurant, changing relationship habits, starting Mutuals Media, and the trauma caused by Tumblr and AskFM. How gay were Ashley’s parents?! Did Lizzy get discriminated against for getting gay married?! FOLLOW AMELIA, GAYDAR, & MUTUALS MEDIA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mutualsmedia/ https://www.instagram.com/gaydarshow/ https://www.instagram.com/ameliamontooth/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@mutualsmedia https://www.tiktok.com/@gaydar.show YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@gaydarshow FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/ Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy FOLLOW ALEX VRAHAS @alvrahas Mailing List: https://forms.gle/t48AUUEYzrNagU1B9 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/ SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/X8gYb2mJT68 ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELIX: Get 27% OFF sitewide at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex FACTOR: Use code GAY50OFF for 50% OFF + FREE breakfasts at https://www.factormeals.com/gay50off Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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    1 h et 13 min
  • Edy Modica Has an “Understanding” With Her Boyfriend | WHGS 338

    Edy Modica Has an “Understanding” With Her Boyfriend | WHGS 338
    Aug 31 2026
    This episode is open and free, listener! Edy Modica (Jury Duty, Let’s Start a Cult) is a hilarious comedian, actor, and content creator that had you chuckling on one of the greatest TV shows of our current time, but now she’s on the couch to show something NASTIER on screen! We discuss having an open relationship dynamic with your boyfriend, using your arrangement to flash strangers on the internet, butt play, pansexuality, and sexting people with gusto. Ashley asks Jen for permission to MILF. Lizzy gets gay married. FOLLOW EDY MODICA: Watch her special premiere, “I’m Just Like You (And It Sucks), this 9/17 on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yMhAV7XrSKM Or, Watch it NOW on VEEPS: https://veeps.com/edymodica See her LIVE: https://linktr.ee/edytree Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doodiehole/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJs__QcRSjGMpyRbchWmXHQ FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/ Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy FOLLOW ALEX VRAHAS @alvrahas Mailing List: https://forms.gle/t48AUUEYzrNagU1B9 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/ SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/ecbxpFCqIcI Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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    1 h et 6 min