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  • Is it ok to ask your friends for money? | EP 68 | We Were Fighting Before This

    Is it ok to ask your friends for money? | EP 68 | We Were Fighting Before This
    Oct 24 2026
    Pickleball recap, dealing with haters, and should you let friends borrow money? Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 00:30 Pickleball video thoughts 15:35 Dealing w/ online stalkers 20:21 Being hyper aware as a woman 22:24 Getting pepper sprayed 24:30 Riding in Ubers by yourself 26:11 Yvonne’s Ultrasound appointment 29:25 Seeing yourself in the mirror 31:16 Asking a friend for money 32:10 Toast lending a friend money 36:54 Why Toast pays in group settings 39:11 Why Toast is pissed at his friends 41:20 The Vegas dinner re-explained 45:46 Toast getting upset with an employee 47:35 Calgary trip 49:50 What would happen if Toast did nothing 51:55 Chelsea’s Miami trip 53:57 Toast’s autistic comments 55:32 Women paying for men 1:02:10 Toast’s dating experience with $ 1:07:03 High value man? High value woman? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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    1 h et 15 min
  • We're setting Yvonne up on a blind date | EP 67 | We Were Fighting Before This

    We're setting Yvonne up on a blind date | EP 67 | We Were Fighting Before This
    Oct 15 2026
    The big 6 7 episode is here... Timestamps: 00:00 EPISODE 6 7 1:01 Yvonne’s bday! 3:50 Happier in your 30’s or 20’s? 4:55 Yvonne’s bday present prank 8:10 Scarra’s bday present for Yvonne 10:05 Congrats to DSG! 11:44 Getting affected by comments 13:15 Life of esports player 16:45 Yvonne’s NFL trip 19:40 Reflecting on the bro podcast 21:27 Thoughts on Nate 22:50 Chelsea calls out Nate 24:03 Dissecting Chelsea 28:55 Who’s the biggest ragebaiter in OTV 30:20 How Yvonne feels deals with Toast 32:10 Did Scarra cross the line? 35:01 Crossing the line with friends 37:45 Toast judges Chelsea 40:21 WWFBT book club? 43:35 Raw dogging activities 46:01 Taking business vs first class 49:10 Pickleball video coming soon! 53:16 Blind dating for Yvonne! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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    1 h et 1 min
  • THE BRO EPISODE ft.Toast, Scarra & Nate | EP 66 | We Were Fighting Before This

    THE BRO EPISODE ft.Toast, Scarra & Nate | EP 66 | We Were Fighting Before This
    Oct 8 2026
    The boys take over! A full episode of Toast and Scarra and Nate chatting about life and it's changes and challenges. Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 1:35 Male friendships 6:01 Men and sports 8:28 DSG wins in Riftbound! 12:01 Toast and Scarra’s thoughts about events 15:12 Scarra’s favorite thing about Chelsea 16:40 Toast “celebrates” Chelsea 21:03 The boys thoughts on Yvonne…. 21:22 Why is Chelsea stressed 23:43 Reading mean comments 24:45 Toast’s thoughts on being alone 25:55 Growing up as a man 27:30 Living alone and being ok being alone 32:45 Benefits of being dragged out 34:15 It’s hard to ask for help 37:45 Leaving the door open for others 39:00 Scarra doesn’t ask Toast to hangout 42:44 Being thankful for hangouts 44:47 Trauma dumping on strangers 49:42 You can tell when your friends are struggling 51:00 The Knicks game breakup 54:02 Validating someone’s feelings 56:30 Are men jealous of other men 58:45 Yvonne’s friends that she invites 1:00:35 Toast recognizes he’s hard on Yvonne 1:06:39 Toast wants to be alone but he still cares 1:09:22 Is Leslie and Nate extroverted? 1:12:30 The art of putting together a content friend group 1:17:00 Finding the right balance between friends 1:19:45 Would Chelsea and Toast be friends on the outside? 1:20:10 Chelsea and her brother 1:21:45 Pickleball video coming up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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    1 h et 30 min
  • Hookup mistakes you should never make | EP 65 | We Were Fighting Before This

    Hookup mistakes you should never make | EP 65 | We Were Fighting Before This
    Oct 1 2026
    Toast is back in town and we have a lot to catch up on... Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 1:01 Toast is back in town 4:36 Is life different without Toast? 9:15 Yvonne’s apartment is cozy 10:10 Is Yvonne family? 11:47 Yvonne questions Toast… 13:03 Toast doesn’t want Chelsea to help him 15:05 Chelsea’s HOT questions for Toast 17:36 Is Yvonne an ally to men? 22:02 How many times have we hooked up 24:44 Yvonne lists five men she respects 25:30 Has Yvonne ever helped out Toast 29:25 Setting boundaries with fans 32:05 How can Yvonne celebrate Toast more 33:21 AAPI months thoughts 36:00 Toast can’t make it to Yvonne’s BDAY 38:20 Why do asians go to raves? 43:12 Toast and Scarra have the same bday 45:32 Introvert vs Extrovert personalities 46:45 Eating alone at a restaurant 49:50 Chelsea’s alone alot 51:16 Toast likes to sleep on the floor ALONE 54:50 Sleeping in separate rooms 56:34 Who has the higher social battery? 1:01:00 Toast hasn't made a new friend 1:03:21 Chelsea has a friend for Toast 1:05:51 Yvonne’s first date ettiequte 1:08:34 Google-ing Yvonne on the first date 1:10:41 How much $ would it take to be a stay at home mom/dad 1:17:55 Leaving mean comments online 1:20:13 Who’s ragebaiting who?? 1:22:30 Playing your attractive cards 1:23:27 Flexing your car Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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    1 h et 34 min
  • How Yvonne went on an accidental date | EP 64 | We Were Fighting Before This

    How Yvonne went on an accidental date | EP 64 | We Were Fighting Before This
    Sep 24 2026
    Yvonne's accidental date might have been a blessing in disguise... This week, Toast forces the pod to play pickleball, stay tuned... Thanks to our Sponsors: Sign up for your free trial at ⁠https://www.shopify.com/beforethis Timestamps: 00:00 intro 1:13 The podcast lives on 3:01 Toast thinks Yvonne is going through it 4:28 Does Toast have friends for Yvonne? 5:50 Guys going for the same girl… 8:03 Yvonne and Leslie hypotheticals 11:00 Can a woman or man be bumped up to a 10 12:01 Rewatching older clips 13:20 Chelsea reviews if she is biased 16:35 Fighting women on a public platform 19:22 Fighting men on a public platform 21:42 Yvonne’s rude date 25:02 Creators feeling privileged 27:11 Being direct 30:28 Chelsea’s animation friend 31:33 Who’s the funniest OTV member 37:40 What Toast is consuming these days 38:52 Peak OTV days 40:20 Creative rut 44:45 Predicting life 45:55 Toast wants to play pickleball 48:44 Toast comments on Yvonnes weight 53:10 Yvonne’s been working out! 55:04 Chelsea invites Scarra to play pickleball… 57:20 Tune in when we all play pickleball… Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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    1 h et 4 min
  • Chelsea’s master plan for Scarra’s dating life | EP 62 | We Were Fighting Before This

    Chelsea’s master plan for Scarra’s dating life | EP 62 | We Were Fighting Before This
    Sep 10 2026
    Scarra and Chelsea are back together for round 2! This time Chelsea needs answers. Sign up for your $1 per month trial at https://www.shopify.com/beforethis Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 00:45 Scarra’s here!! Again… 2:18 Are Chelsea and Scarra friends now? 3:10 Getting Scarra to play tennis 5:32 Chelsea on the courts… 7:30 How Scarra REALLY felt playing tennis again 16:04 Being a tennis influencer… 18:17 Updates on Scarra’s dating life 20:12 When did Scarra know he was straight 21:45 Female allies 25:55 Is Chelsea an ally to Scarra? 29:43 Chelsea proposes a NEW friend! 32:27 Are streamers socially awkward? 34:15 Scarra loves pickleball 37:28 Finding Scarra’s perfect woman 49:00 Scarra doesn’t think Yvonne is a pro gamer 53:12 Intelligent dream woman? 54:25 Paying your therapist to laugh 55:10 Having a close family 1:01:25 Complimenting a guy 1:05:48 Chelsea is here to help Scarra 1:10:27 Toast and Scarra’s relationship 1:14:31 Why Chelsea became friends with Scarra 1:21:20 Fakefans is back! 1:24:20 The don and the diva… Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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    1 h et 36 min
  • How Leslie and Nate reconnected after 30 years | EP 61 | We Were Fighting Before This

    How Leslie and Nate reconnected after 30 years | EP 61 | We Were Fighting Before This
    Sep 3 2026
    The Fu siblings are here! Leslie and Nate share how they reunited as siblings and past memories they had apart from each other. Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 1:20 the Fu Siblings! 1:55 Who is Nate Fu 4:54 Toast is being squished… 8:10 Does Toast needs backup? 10:10 The reality of Yvonne and Toast 11:22 Leslie’s OG streaming days 14:35 Nate’s streaming POV 16:25 Being a female streamer 20:40 OTV parties 24:34 Leslie on Ryan Higa’s Influence 26:15 Nate Films with Ryan Higa in Hawaii 29:54 The Canceled HyperX Commercial 32:08 Leslie and Nate Discover Similarities 37:49 Leslie and Nate’s 30-Year Estrangement 40:13 Lost Hamster Story 41:46 How Leslie and Nate Reconnect 48:54 Leslie on Being Vulnerable Online 52:04 Yvonne's 4D Movie Date 1:03:56 Nate’s First Time Going Live 1:08:50 Nate Makes Aluminum Trophies 1:12:53 Icing Toast in Calgary Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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    1 h et 20 min