On today’s solo episode, I discuss keeping the spark and continuing to date your husband, questions to know if you’re ready to move in together, tips for long distance relationships, pre-engagement conversations, wedding planning in your late 30s, and playing it cool when you want to marry someone.

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Chapters:

01:03 Keeping the Spark Alive in Long-Term Relationships

05:38 Ready to Move In? The Questions You Need to Ask

11:44 Long-Distance Relationships: The Non-Negotiables for Making It Work

17:49 Stop Comparing Timelines in Your 30s (fertility, anxiety, ‘hurry up’ mindset)

22:54 Pre-Engagement Reality Check: Readiness, Rings, and the ‘Unsexy’ Money Talks

30:37 Playing It Cool + Wedding Planning in Your 30s

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Shaun Galanos aka The Love Drive is back on the pod and we are fighting! Well, not really but we discuss my strict dating program and what he agrees or disagrees with. It’s a fun one!

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Chapters

05:34 Dating in 2026: Instagram Rules, Red Flags & Phone Privacy

11:36 First-Date Etiquette Debates: Seats, Towels, Kids, TikTok & Second Locations

25:30 Dating “Cut” List: Periods, Doors, Dancing & Walking You Home

29:24 Listener Q&A: Sex Timing, Orgasms, and “If He Wanted To, He Would”

38:47 Trauma, Sobriety & Psychedelic Journeys + Final Cuts & Wrap-Up

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On today’s bonus solo episode, I talk about merging finances, wedding spending, prenups, when to have these money conversations with a partner, how to get free perks towards your honeymoon, who should be paying for what, and so much more.

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Website: @wemetatacme

Chapters

00:43 Talking Money in Relationships

04:01 Navigating Financial Transparency

11:15 Combining Finances and Joint Accounts

19:09 Planning for the Future

25:44 Maximizing Rewards with Hyatt Credit Card

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