In this episode of the Voice2Change podcast by Jane Doe No More, host Jocelyn Maminta welcomes back licensed trauma therapist and Survivor Speak member Patti Leraci for an honest conversation about navigating holiday stress and practicing self-care. Together, they explore why the holidays can be triggering for many, especially for trauma and sexual assault survivors. Patti shares actionable tools for coping, how to set healthy boundaries, and ways to honor feelings of grief and loneliness.

This episode encourages listeners to embrace authenticity, check in with their emotional needs, and frame the new year not by what they want to accomplish, but by how they want to feel. Whether you find joy or difficulty in the festive season, this conversation offers comfort, hope, and empowering steps toward peace.Topics Discussed:

• How the holidays can be a stressful time for many
• Common sources of holiday stress
• Holiday stress can trigger anxiety, depression, and past traumas
• The unique challenges sexual assault survivors face during family gatherings
• Navigating rooms with potential assailants
• The concept of “micro regulation” and practical self-care tools
• The importance of deep breathing to signal safety and bring oneself into the present moment
• Strategies for setting healthy boundaries
• Coping methods for grief and loneliness during the holidays

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In this episode of the Voice2Change podcast by Jane Doe No More, host Jocelyn Maminta sits down with Kate Cooler a survivor, advocate, and member of the Jane Doe No More Survivors Speak team. Kate bravely shares her journey, from being groomed and assaulted as a teenager to her inspiring transformation into an EMT, police officer, and dedicated victim advocate.

She openly discusses the challenges she faced during her recovery, navigating the criminal justice system at a young age, and finding strength in healing. Kate’s story is one of resilience and hope, offering important insights on internet safety, the ongoing nature of healing, and the power we all have to be a light for others.

Topics Discussed:

• Kate’s experience with grooming and assault
• Dangers of online grooming
• Emotional and mental response during and after abuse
• Journey through anger, self-blame, and healing
• The impact trauma has on personal relationships and self-esteem
• Personal experience shaping approach as a police officer
• Strategies for supporting victims
• Importance of ongoing healing
• Hope, healing, and being a light for others

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In this episode of the Voice2Change podcast by Jane Doe No More, host Jocelyn Maminta sits down with Dr. Christine Marie Cocchiola and Amy Polacko for a deep dive into the hidden realities of coercive control and abuse in the family court system. They also disuses the book they co-authored "Women in the Family Court Underworld," sharing firsthand accounts from their work supporting survivors.

In this conversation they uncover the dark side of family courts where abusers often manipulate the system to continue their control. The conversation also discusses the motivations behind writing their book, systemic issues of collusion, and judicial immunity within the courts.

Topics Discussed:

• The realities of the family court system
• The concept of the “abuser’s playbook”
• Challenges and emotional toll women face when trying to leave abusive relationships
• Coercive control legislation
• Strategies for women entering or navigating family court
• Identifying abuse early in relationships
• The role of gender within the court system
• Resources for listeners
• Speaking out despite fear or risk
• Hope for systemic change

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