On my way home from sessions, I do what I always do—I turn my music up way too loud and sing like nobody can tell me to stop. And then one song came on and it completely stopped me. Not in my thoughts… in my body. My chest softened, my breath changed, and for a second I felt better before I even knew why.

That song took me back to my 15th birthday—grounded, in trouble, feeling forgotten… and then a whole group of friends showed up anyway. Cake, pizza, singing, even changing the lyrics to include my name. And suddenly I wasn’t invisible. I mattered.

In this episode, we talk about why nostalgia hits so hard—and what if it’s not painful because it’s over, but because we think it’s unreachable. We’ll explore how memory isn’t just a story, it’s a state—and how music, scent, and tiny moments can bring safety back online inside your nervous system. I also share how this connects to EMDR “installation” and why focusing on positive felt-sense isn’t bypassing pain—it’s building capacity.

If nostalgia has been visiting you lately, maybe don’t push it away. Maybe let it show you what your body still remembers: you’ve been okay before… and you can be okay again.

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In this episode of Untamed Voices, I talk about something that’s been weighing heavy on my heart: the pressure to choose, to react, to pick a side when everything feels intense and urgent.

So many of us are noticing how easily the world pulls us into all-or-nothing thinking. A headline, a post, a conversation; and suddenly there’s this internal rush to decide, to stand somewhere, to be certain. And when we don’t, it can feel uncomfortable, unsafe, or even wrong.

In this conversation, I explore why that happens — not from a political or moral lens, but through the body and the nervous system. I share personal stories from childhood and adulthood, and reflect on how early we learn that being “on a side” equals belonging. We look at how fear, urgency, and overwhelm narrow our ability to think with nuance, and why certainty can feel like relief when our system is stretched.

This episode isn’t about telling you what to think or where to stand. It’s about slowing down enough to notice what’s happening on the inside and remembering that we’re allowed to pause, hold complexity, see multiple perspectives, and even not choose a side at all.

Sometimes being in the middle isn’t avoidance. Sometimes it’s wisdom. Sometimes it’s how we stay human.

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Listening to this podcast does not establish a therapeutic relationship. The counselor does not provide individualized advice through public platforms and maintains professional boundaries with current clients.

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Welcome back to Untamed Voices, where truth is braver than silence.

This is Part Three of our mini-series The Attachment Echo. In this episode, we explore the attachment upgrade—what it actually looks like to move toward secure connection after awareness begins.

Attachment patterns aren’t flaws or destinies; they’re nervous systems remembering what safety once felt like. And because attachment wounds are relational injuries, they heal in relationship—through consistency, repair, and experiences of being received without judgment.

We talk about how secure attachment feels in the body, what healing looks like for anxious, avoidant, and disorganized nervous systems, and how real repair happens after rupture. This episode includes practical language for repair, a gentle somatic grounding moment, and a reminder that calm connection is not boredom—it’s safety.

Secure attachment isn’t a finish line. It’s a way of being where you can hold yourself and be held, set boundaries without closing your heart, and love without losing yourself.

As we close The Attachment Echo, this is an invitation to honor your patterns—not as mistakes, but as protection—and to allow your nervous system to upgrade from survival to connection.

You were hurt in relationships.

And you heal in relationships.

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Listening to this podcast does not establish a therapeutic relationship. The counselor does not provide individualized advice through public platforms and maintains professional boundaries with current clients.

If you are experiencing a mental health crisis, please call 911, go to your nearest emergency room, or contact the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline by calling or texting 988.