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What’s the real difference between an 18-year-old and a 40-year-old?

It’s not just money, sleep, or responsibility. It’s what life feels like when you’ve got nothing to lose… versus when people rely on you.

In this episode I sit down with James Glover (18) and we get into the gap between those two worlds — how an 18-year-old sees the future, why everything feels possible, and how quickly that changes once you’ve got bills, pressure, and kids in the mix.

We talk about:

• how your decision-making changes when you become a dad
• why “I’ll do it later” turns into years
• the difference between freedom and responsibility
• what younger men get right (that older men forget)
• what older men know (that younger men can’t see yet)

If you’ve ever looked at your life and thought, how did it get this heavy? — you’re going to enjoy this one.

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Most of the stuff we regret isn’t the big dramatic mistakes.

It’s the moments we talked ourselves out of doing the uncomfortable thing - making the call, having the conversation, telling the truth, saying sorry, asking the question...because it felt awkward… and we assumed we’d get another chance.

In this solo episode, I’m talking about what can happen when you avoid the hard stuff for “later.” Because tomorrow isn’t guaranteed, and sometimes the window closes without warning. That hits like a punch in the stomach.

If there’s something you’ve been putting off because it’s uncomfortable, this is your nudge to stop rehearsing it in your head…and just do it!

Question to sit with: what’s the one conversation or action you’d regret not doing if you didn’t get another shot?

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Remember when you used to send it?

Back in your early 20s, life felt lighter. Less responsibility. Less to lose. Decisions were quick, risks felt fun, and you didn’t need a ten step plan just to do something you actually wanted to do.

In this solo episode, I’m talking about that version of you - the one who moved fast, backed himself, and didn’t let fear negotiate every decision. Because somewhere between “I’ve got time” and “I’ve got kids, bills, and a reputation,” a lot of us start playing it safe… and slowly forget what freedom felt like.

If you’ve been feeling like you’ve dulled down, overthought everything, or lost that edge you used to have - this is the reminder (and the nudge) you need.

Question for you while you listen: where did you stop sending it… and what would it look like to start again?