In this episode of "Unbecoming Me," host Toi explores the theme of "unbecoming"—letting go of societal expectations, old identities, and limiting beliefs to embrace authenticity. Drawing inspiration from Brené Brown's "The Gifts of Imperfection," Toi shares personal reflections on growth, healing, and self-acceptance. She discusses grieving losses in relationships and friendships with gratitude for the lessons learned, and encourages listeners to release what no longer serves them. The episode highlights the transformative journey toward self-discovery, self-worth, and living unapologetically as one's true self.

Timestamps

Inspiration from Brené Brown & The Gifts of Imperfection (00:00:45) Toi discusses how Brené Brown's book inspired her to let go of societal expectations and embrace authenticity.

Embracing Change and Self-Acceptance (00:01:35) Toi reflects on learning to accept herself, embracing growth, and being okay with not always being okay.

Letting Go of Past Hurt and Setting Boundaries (00:03:02) Toi talks about recognizing self-worth, not tolerating mistreatment, and the importance of shedding what no longer serves.

Gratitude in Grief and Lessons from Loss (00:04:32) Toi explains the need for gratitude during grief, using breakups and friendships as examples of learning and moving on.

Freedom After Letting Go (00:07:15) Toi describes the relief and empowerment that comes from releasing pain and embracing new standards for oneself.

Pursuing Authentic Passions (00:08:44) Toi encourages following true passions, letting go of old expectations, and embracing a colorful, authentic life.

Owning Your Authenticity (00:10:02) Toi emphasizes the importance of shining your light, being authentic, and trusting that what's meant for you will stay.

Powerful Quotes from the Episode

'Over the past five years, I've been through the fire, releasing who I thought I had to be so I could finally become who I'm meant to be.'

'I'm okay with being me. I'm okay with learning who I am. I'm okay with changing. I'm okay with growth. I'm okay with healing.'

'I didn't truly love myself at a degree that was acceptable or plausible.'

'Be grateful that you're no longer crying in the shower, that there's no more hurt, and that you're not running after that person.'

'Remember, the most powerful thing you can be is you.'

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"Unbecoming is not about losing yourself—it's about letting go of what was never truly you."

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In this episode of "Unbecoming Me," host Toi shares her personal journey of healing and self-discovery, setting the stage for a podcast focused on growth. Centering on the theme "Love Yourself," Toi discusses the importance of self-love as an active, daily practice. She offers practical tips—like affirmations and self-reflection—and encourages listeners to value themselves, set healthy boundaries, and treat themselves with kindness. Through candid stories and heartfelt advice, Toi inspires listeners to embrace their worth and continue their own journeys toward healing and authenticity.

Timestamps

Defining Self-Love (00:00:44) Explains self-love as action, not just words; discusses affirmations, journaling, treating oneself, and recognizing self-worth.

Celebrating Yourself Amidst Busyness (00:01:33) Encourages listeners to appreciate themselves despite busy lives, suggesting small acts of self-recognition and gratitude.

Gratitude and Perseverance (00:02:50) Highlights self-love as gratitude, perseverance through tough times, and loving oneself even during emotional struggles.

Learning Self-Worth Through Challenges (00:04:02) Shares personal experiences of not knowing her worth, settling, and learning self-love through difficult seasons.

Recognizing and Rejecting Unacceptable Treatment (00:05:41) Discusses how self-love helps avoid tolerating unacceptable behavior and encourages treating oneself as well as one treats others.

Setting High Standards for Love (00:07:01) Emphasizes loving oneself to a high standard, using affirmations, and not accepting less than one deserves.

Final Thoughts on Self-Worth (00:08:36) Reiterates the importance of self-worth, self-care, and not letting others diminish your value.

Powerful Quotes from the Episode

'Even on the days I don't feel like getting up or doing what needs to be done, it's okay. I continue to love myself and encourage myself because I've got this.'

'There has been a season or two in my life where I didn't know my worth, and I settled for something I didn't deserve.'

'I didn't love myself enough to not sit there and take what I had to take in that season, because I felt that was the best it was.'

'What taught me my worth was having to go through those seasons, face those challenges, and take accountability for my part in it.'

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"Self-love is the moment you stop settling and start choosing the version of you that knows she deserves the best."

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In this episode of "Unbecoming Me," host Toi shares her personal journey through a stressful season, highlighting the transformative power of breathwork. She discusses how intentional breathing helped her manage overwhelming responsibilities, find calm, and foster healing. Toi encourages listeners to pause and breathe, even briefly, as a way to regain control and hope during difficult times. The episode offers reassurance that challenges are temporary and better days are ahead, closing with a reminder to embrace self-care and share the message with others navigating their own journeys.

Timestamps

Introduction & Podcast Purpose (00:00:04) Toi introduces herself, the podcast, and its focus on healing, growth, and personal transformation.

Episode Theme: Breathwork Inspiration (00:00:45) Toi shares her inspiration for the episode, discussing stressful life seasons and the need to pause and breathe.

Learning to Breathe Amidst Stress (00:01:34) She emphasizes the importance of taking even a minute to breathe during overwhelming times and self-reassurance.

Breathwork as a Healing Modality (00:02:55) Toi explains how breathwork helped her manage stress, channel emotions, and regain control during difficult moments.

Personal Growth Through Breathwork (00:04:20) She reflects on lessons learned from breathwork, gratitude for her teacher, and encourages listeners to breathe through challenges.

Closing & Encouragement (00:05:50) Toi offers hope, reminding listeners that after hardship comes better days, and reiterates the importance of breathing.

Powerful Quotes from the Episode

'Over the past five years, I've been through the fire, releasing who I thought I had to be so that I could finally become who I'm meant to be.'

'There were times I didn't have anyone to depend on but myself, and I had to make do with what was due.'

'Sometimes, all I have is a minute, so I just close my eyes and tell myself it's going to be okay and that the best is yet to come.'

'Breathwork has helped me tremendously; it has opened my eyes to so many things, like how to channel myself and use it as stress relief.'

'Now, when deadlines are coming up, I channel my breaths, rescue myself, gather my thoughts, and tell myself that it's okay.'

'I remind myself that this is not the end, and that whatever I'm going through, I'll make it out and I'll be okay.'

'I'm grateful and thankful for the light that breathwork has shown me.'

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"Sometimes, all it takes is a single breath to remind yourself that the best is yet to come."

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