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UnDoing We with Mardi Winder

UnDoing We with Mardi Winder

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 UnDoing We: Divorce and Life Conversations is not your typical divorce show. Hosted by Mardi Winder, a certified divorce transition and high-conflict divorce coach with experience as a domestic violence client advocate and behavioral consultant for schools, this show offers real talk, expert advice, and honest discussions on ending a relationship and the opportunity to redefine your life. Each episode provides practical guidance and emotional insight to help you move forward with clarity and confidence. Tune in for candid conversations with top experts on legal, financial, co-parenting, mindset, wellness, and more. UnDoing We is where your next chapter begins.Copyright WGSN-DB Going Solo Network Développement personnel Réussite personnelle
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  • Dealing With Addiction In Divorce - Guest, Amber Hollingsworth

    Dealing With Addiction In Divorce - Guest, Amber Hollingsworth
    Feb 28 2026
    Addiction adds an additional level of complexity to separation and divorce. On today's episode of UnDoing We, Mardi Winder talks with Amber Hollingsworth, a master addiction counselor and founder of Hope for Families Recovery Center. Together, they explore how addiction affects marriages, co-parenting dynamics, and personal well-being after divorce, particularly when one partner is struggling with substance use. Amber shares her own background, coming from a family surrounded by addiction, and offers insight into how those patterns often remain invisible until viewed from the outside.

    The discussion highlights the heavy toll addiction takes on relationships, especially for the non-addicted partner who often ends up feeling overwhelmed and unfairly seen as the “bad guy.” Amber points out that this role can become emotionally exhausting and can change a person’s sense of self, leading to what she calls “guiltzentiment”,a blend of guilt and resentment that is difficult to shake. Mardi and Amber talk candidly about the importance of self-care and resilience, acknowledging how the partner of an addicted person can become consumed by the situation, sometimes to the point of feeling addicted to the crisis itself.

    Amber Hollingsworth offers practical advice for managing these emotions and stresses the value of setting healthy boundaries, especially in households with children. About the Host Mardi Winder is a certified divorce transition and high-conflict divorce coach, credentialed mediator, and international speaker. With over 30 years of experience, she helps people navigate conflict, manage divorce challenges, and create positive transitions.

    She is the best-selling author of From I Do to I’m Done and The Other Side of Divorce.

    Connect with Mardi: Email: Mardi@poscs.com Website: divorcecoach4women.com

    About the Guest Amber Hollingsworth is a master addiction counselor, founder of Hope For Families Recovery Center, and creator of the YouTube channel Put The Shovel Down. With over two decades of experience, she’s helped thousands of families navigate addiction recovery using innovative, relationship-focused strategies like the Invisible Intervention. Known for her relatable, no-nonsense approach, Amber empowers families to outsmart addiction, set healthy boundaries, and rebuild trust. Her expertise and compassionate style make her a sought-after podcast guest, offering practical advice and hope to families facing the challenges of addiction.

    For Amber’s gift: https://www.familyrecoveryacademy.online/understanding-boundaries-in-addiction

    To connect with Amber: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/addictionrecoveryhope Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/amber-hollingsworth-833111b8/
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    29 min
  • Move Beyond - Post Divorce Financial Checklist - Gina Phillips

    Move Beyond - Post Divorce Financial Checklist - Gina Phillips
    Feb 18 2026
    Today on UnDoing We, host Mardi Winder chats with Gina Phillips, a certified divorce financial analyst (CDFA®), to talk honestly about what happens with your finances once your divorce papers are signed. Many people expect relief after the decree is final, but as Mardi and Gina point out, there’s a whole new set of important tasks to tackle, and ignoring them can cause major headaches down the road. Gina shares her straightforward advice on everything from sorting out your mortgage and making sure your name is actually on your house, to why it’s so important to stay on top of things like updating beneficiaries and filing those critical retirement plan documents. She dives into some common mistakes people make, like assuming their insurance will just work itself out or not realizing how fast deadlines for things like health coverage or financial transfers can sneak up on you. Their conversation is packed with tips for getting a handle on your money, setting up your new financial life, and not getting caught off guard by surprise bills or legal mishaps. Gina shares a Post Divorce Financial Checklist that’s available for listeners, designed to make this rocky transition period a little smoother. If you’re worried about missing something important after your divorce, this episode is full of reassurance, smart ideas, and reminders that you really can take control of your future while building your financial confidence. About the Host Mardi Winder is a certified divorce transition and high-conflict divorce coach, credentialed mediator, and international speaker. With over 30 years of experience, she helps people navigate conflict, manage divorce challenges, and create positive transitions. She is the best-selling author of From I Do to I’m Done and The Other Side of Divorce. Connect with Mardi: Email: Mardi@poscs.com Website: divorcecoach4women.com About the Guest Gina Phillips is the owner of WNY Divorce Financial Advisors, LLC, where she passionately dedicates herself to empowering individuals navigating marital transitions to regain control over their financial well-being. As a skilled liaison between clients and divorce mediators and attorneys, Gina is driven by personal experience and a deep understanding of the challenges that accompany divorce. Her pursuit of certification as a Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA®) demonstrates her commitment to providing comprehensive support. With over 30 years of experience in auditing and accounting fields, Gina brings a wealth of knowledge to her practice. Her certification as a CDFA® combined with her expertise enables her to offer compassionate and cost-effective assistance. Whether you are in the early stages of considering a divorce or currently navigating the complexities of the legal proceedings, Gina will guide you with empathy and expertise to ensure your transition is as smooth and financially secure as possible. For Gina’s gift, the Post-Divorce Financial Checklist: https://6214433.hs-sites.com/post-divorce To connect with Gina: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gina-phillips/ Website: https://www.wnydivorcefinancial.com/default.php Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/wnydivorcefinancial
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    29 min
  • Move Beyond Emotional Pain With New Trauma Insights

    Move Beyond Emotional Pain With New Trauma Insights
    Feb 17 2026
    Today on UnDoing We, host Mardi Winder sits down with Estefana Johnson, a seasoned mental health clinician with over 20 years of experience working in trauma and mental health care. In this conversation, Estefana Johnson shares her journey from an unexpected start in behavioral health to becoming the Director of Clinical Training at Arise Alliance Institute, where she explores innovative and holistic approaches to healing. Together, they dive deep into the complex relationship between trauma and loss, exploring how unresolved experiences can shape our lives and even echo across generations through something called "generational data." Estefana Johnson breaks down the science behind how our brains hold onto past events, why trauma isn’t just about what happens to us but how we process it, and introduces listeners to the principles of Critical Memory Integration (CMI), a powerful method for internal healing and self-discovery. If you’ve ever wondered how trauma can linger, why we may feel stuck in old patterns, or how to start looking within for answers and real freedom, this episode is a must-listen. Get ready for practical insights, real talk about healing, and a hopeful message about the power we each hold to transform our lives. About the Host Mardi Winder is a certified divorce transition and high-conflict divorce coach, credentialed mediator, and international speaker. With over 30 years of experience, she helps people navigate conflict, manage divorce challenges, and create positive transitions. She is the best-selling author of From I Do to I’m Done and The Other Side of Divorce. Connect with Mardi: Email: Mardi@poscs.com Website: divorcecoach4women.com About the Guest Estefana Johnson, LCSW, brings over 20 years of experience in trauma and mental health care. She began her career as a Behavioral Health Technician in 2001 and later taught in Japan before moving into roles in residential treatment, medical social work, and clinical leadership. As Director of Clinical Training at ARISE Alliance Institute, she develops and delivers curricula in trauma-focused care and interventions like Critical Memory Integration (CMI™), while also practicing clinically at Lighthouse Psychiatry & TMS in Gilbert, Arizona. Estefana is actively involved in research on therapeutic uses of psychedelics and is passionate about advancing innovative, healing-centered approaches. A first-generation child of immigrants, she is committed to supporting foster and adoptive youth, leading programs that provide education and care rooted in resilience and recovery. To connect with Estefana: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/estefanajohnsonlcsw/
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    27 min
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