Reba shares what it was like growing up as the youngest of six, moving between South Dakota and Minnesota and learning early how to adapt to change. She reflects on her childhood, the influence of her parents, and the experiences that eventually led her into a long career in education. Reba also shares about meeting and marrying her husband, Chuck, raising their family, and the role faith has played in their marriage. The conversation takes a more difficult turn as Reba remembers the tragic loss of both her parents in a car accident and the journey toward forgiveness that followed. Reba's story has plenty of good memories, some incredibly hard ones, and a whole lot of perspective in between.

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At 84 years old, Janice Stedman has a lifetime of stories to share - growing up as one of six children on a North Dakota farm without running water, raising a family of her own, helping run a small-town restaurant, and walking through both the beautiful and incredibly difficult seasons of life. Janice shares memories of simple childhood traditions, her marriage to David, caring for him through Alzheimer's, and the unexpected loss of their son Dwayne. Through it all, her faith, family, and the importance of simply being there for one another have remained constant. Janice's story takes us through 84 years of life and the people, places and memories that have made those years her own.

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In this episode 79-year-old, Barb Stedman, shares stories that made up nearly eight decades of an ordinary life - one that, when you really listen, is anything but ordinary. Her story begins in Spokane in 1947, but much of the life she remembers was built in the small town of Beach, ND. From meeting her husband, Larry, through letters while he was in the Army, to raising three children, working for decades, and eventually becoming a grandmother and great-grandmother, Barb takes us through many chapters of her life. Barb's story is a beautiful reminder that having a lot and having a good life are not necessarily the same thing. They didn't always have much, but listening to Barb tell her story, you'd never know it. She simply remembers how blessed she has been.

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Sandra “Sandi” Perdaems (born 1948), visits about growing up in a large Stockwell family, moving from a farm to town and memories of her parents—her father’s quiet kindness and her mother’s warmth, work ethic, music, dancing, and hosting. Sandi recalls school experiences and influential teachers, close sibling relationships, Glenice's polio and a traumatic car accident, simple holidays, and the hardship surrounding her father’s illness and death, including her mother supporting the family. She describes working and babysitting in Medora, meeting and marrying Jerry young, raising three children, teaching English and PE for 32 years, and how faith and daily Mass shaped their marriage and family. The conversation highlights family traditions, the impact of community helpers like Dr. Bush, cherished travel memories, and Sandi’s account of being with her mother at her passing.

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In this heartfelt interview, Irene Wolf, 87, shares her journey of growing up on a small farm west of Killdeer, North Dakota, in a large family without electricity, running water, affection, or holiday traditions. Irene left after eighth grade, worked in a Dickinson restaurant, and married George, a cowboy and brand inspector, at 17; they moved often, ranched for 38 years, and were married 69 years. She reflects on losing their infant daughter Jodie to a severe heart defect and their son Rodney at 23 to cardiomyopathy, and on George’s recent death after complications from a ruptured colon, including his final words of love. Irene credits faith, kindness, and contentment, describes “pretend kids” they helped raise, recalls trips like Kodiak Island, Alaska, and shares cherished memories such as George gifting her a large rock.

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Bobby Olstad, 78, visits about her family history and life in and around Medora, North Dakota. She recalls one-room schooling, boarding out in Beach for high school, and early work babysitting, waitressing, and at the Medora amphitheater. Bobby reflects on her time managing the Medora bank before leaving to buy and build an insurance agency for 27 years. She discusses marrying Howard Olstad, raising two children, caregiving for her mother, travel earned through work, loving Elvis and history tours, and valuing commitment, independence, and family.

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Don Hardy reflects on growing up on a multigenerational family farm near Beach, North Dakota, surrounded by family and hard work. He shares stories of his Irish-rooted heritage, a large extended family, childhood chores and responsibilities, and his education in Beach, including a year at New England St Mary's and later NDSU. Don discusses his time with John Deere, purchasing a Chevy-Buick dealership at age 24, and returning to farming in 1987, where he embraced no-till practices and diversified crops. He also shares how his insurance career grew into Agri Insurances. Along the way, he reflects on agricultural leadership, his lifelong love of flying, meeting and marrying Jean, and the values of faith, integrity, and family that have guided his life.

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Sally Abernethy, 88, shares stories from her life from being born in Aberdeen, South Dakota, and raised near Ellendale, North Dakota, to moving to Beach after her father passed away unexpectedly at 32 and her mother became ill. Sally recounts a childhood story of being briefly taken from a car by a carnival “gypsy,” living in the old nursing home by the hospital where her mother worked for Dr. Bush, and working to afford Seventh-day Adventist academy and nursing school. She describes marrying Bob Abernethy, his championship rodeo career, a severe neck injury, and their decades-long stock-contracting business that took them to the National Finals Rodeo for 28 years and into rodeo history. Sally also discusses raising three children, her 22-year real estate career, love of community and friends in Beach, faith in God, and lessons she has learned about loving family and caring for others.

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