In part two of Jessie's story we explore her marriage with a narcissist and how she was able to finally get away. We also hear about how she's able to help children, as a teacher, detect these signs and get them help. Her healing journey is an inspiring one that gives hope for ending ancestral trauma.

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Emotionally abused from the day she was born, Jessie was at the forefront of her fathers abuse growing up until she was able to go to college where the man who sexually assaulted her was also going. Jessie was resilient in moving forward with her life and has taken control. Part one explores her abusive upbringing and sexual assault while part two explores her marriage to a narcissist and how she took control of her own healing with support and knowing she wasn't alone.

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Join Melissa Etzler for a powerful and deeply moving conversation with Jacalyn, who shares her incredible story of resilience and faith following an unimaginable tragedy.

Jacalyn opens up about the devastating moment in 2018 when her abusive ex-husband took the life of her new husband, Chris, at her coffee shop—in front of their children. She recounts the earth-shattering shock and panic of that day, but also the pivotal moment in the parking lot where she chose full surrender to God and forgiveness toward her ex-husband, instantly releasing her from the grip of evil.

Jacalyn’s story is a testament to finding hope, healing, and a deeper connection to faith after walking through the hardest parts of trauma. If you or someone you know is struggling with grief, loss, or violence, this episode is a powerful message to keep going and know that you are not alone.

Get a copy of Jacalyn's book here: https://a.co/d/dH4y9Y3

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National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-7233 (SAFE)

National Sexual Assault Hotline: 1-800-656-4673 (HOPE)

Loveisrespect Teen Dating Violence Hotline: 1-866-331-9474

National Human Trafficking Hotline: 1-888-373-7888

In this deeply honest and moving episode, host Melissa Etzler welcomes Adam A. Meyers, a veteran police officer, who bravely shares the story of his six-year-long struggle following a critical, life-altering incident in 2016 where he was forced to use deadly force in the line of duty.

Adam recounts the intense emotional turmoil he experienced after the shooting, leading him down a destructive path of poor coping mechanisms, including alcohol abuse (mixing alcohol with prescription and cough medicine), casual sex, marijuana use, and self-harm. He discusses the overwhelming burden of stress, anxiety, and depression he was trying to numb, and the moment of clarity that served as a painful stepping stone toward recovery.

Adam's story is a vital message of resilience for all first responders and anyone struggling with trauma and mental health, demonstrating that it is "okay to talk about your mental health and you can get help."

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National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-7233 (SAFE)

National Sexual Assault Hotline: 1-800-656-4673 (HOPE)

Loveisrespect Teen Dating Violence Hotline: 1-866-331-9474

National Human Trafficking Hotline: 1-888-373-7888

In this powerful first episode, Autumn shares her incredible journey of surviving years of escalating domestic violence. She takes us inside the fear, the isolation, and the critical moments—including a chilling encounter with a female police officer—that led her to prioritize her daughter's safety and finally escape. Autumn bravely discusses the lasting toll of mental abuse over physical scars and challenges the common question, "Why didn’t you leave?" by shifting the focus to where it belongs: accountability for the abuser.

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National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-7233 (SAFE)

National Sexual Assault Hotline: 1-800-656-4673 (HOPE)

Loveisrespect Teen Dating Violence Hotline: 1-866-331-9474

National Human Trafficking Hotline: 1-888-373-7888

The LOVE > hate Podcast is a trauma-informed space where survivors of assault and interpersonal violence can share their experiences and journey to healing and reclaiming their lives. Hosted by a trauma-informed Emotional Freedom Techniques practitioner, we believe in the power of your voice to inspire, empower, and connect.