What if the most underrated leadership skill isn't emotional intelligence, executive presence, or strategic thinking — it's a sense of humor?

Paul Osincup spent 15 years researching exactly that. He's a keynote speaker, author of The Humor Habit, and host of the Laugh or Death podcast — and his work with Google, Harvard, and hundreds of other organizations makes a case that humor isn't a soft skill. It's a survival skill.

In this episode, we dig into what it actually means to live and lead in a VUCA world — volatile, uncertain, complex, and ambiguous — and why humor might be the most direct path to resilience, connection, and psychological safety on your team.

What we cover:
Why laughter nosedives at age 23 and doesn't recover until nearly 80 — and what that costs us

Humorous reappraisal: the Stanford-backed technique for reframing setbacks (even grief)

The DOSE chemicals humor releases — and why shared laughter creates real trust

A Berkeley study that shows strangers who laugh together like each other more — immediately

The humor triangle: which types of humor build connection vs. which ones blow it up

Why self-deprecating humor is low-risk — unless you're a surgeon joking about being clumsy

The 4 P's: Permission + Participation = Psychological Safety
The "humor jar" — a dead-simple team ritual to double the ROI of funny moments

One 7-day habit that increased happiness and reduced depressive symptoms for up to six months

Paul also shares the story of losing his mom — and how finding humor in even that moment changed his relationship with resilience. It's the most honest thing in this episode.
The quote that started this conversation: "Don't live your life as an actor in a drama just to reach the end and find out you were the director — and it could have been a comedy."
Connect with Paul:
🌐 thehumorhabit.com
📚 The Humor Habit — available wherever books are sold
🎙️ Laugh or Death Podcast
Connect with Rex & The HumanUp Imperative:
🌐 [RWC Consulting website]
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