Before confidence… before calling… before visibility… there is identity. 🤍

In this episode of The God-Led Soft Life with Shanie Bee, we go deeper into the foundation of a life led by God. If you’ve ever felt frustrated by slow seasons, hidden seasons, or seasons where God seems more focused on your character than your progress — this conversation is for you.

We unpack why God affirms identity before He expands assignment, how insecurity can quietly attach itself to ambition, and why true confidence without pride is only possible when your identity is rooted in Him.

If you’re learning to rest without guilt, move without striving, and trust God’s timing without comparison, this episode will steady you.

You are not behind. You are being built.

Until next time, remember this: wherever God plants you, bloom with grace. 🌱

What does it really look like to be confident… without drifting into pride?

In this episode of The God-Led Soft Life with Gracefully Shanie, we unpack the tension between boldness and surrender. So many women of faith were taught to shrink in order to seem humble. Others were taught to perform confidence without ever acknowledging the Source of their strength. Today, we bring those extremes back into alignment. 🤍

We talk about:
• The difference between godly confidence and ego
• Why humility is not self-doubt
• How to own your gifts without apologizing for them
• Signs your confidence may be rooted in God — or in validation
• What it means to walk in authority while staying fully surrendered

This is for the woman who knows she’s called, but refuses to become self-centered. The woman who wants to lead, build, speak, and show up boldly — while keeping her heart soft before God.

You don’t have to dim to be humble.
You don’t have to strive to be confident.
You just have to stay surrendered.

Grab your journal. Take a breath. Let’s grow. 🌿✨

In this episode, Shanie opens a new chapter by explaining the shift from Godly & Graceful to The God-Led Soft Life—why the foundation remains the same, but the language now better reflects the journey God is leading.

From there, we dive deep into the difference between who you truly are in Christ and who you learned to be through survival, expectations, culture, and past wounds. Many of us are living from identities we adapted, not identities God assigned—and that disconnect shows up in our relationships, decisions, and sense of peace.

This episode explores:

• The difference between God-given identity and learned behavior

• How false labels form and why they’re hard to release

• What Scripture says about who you are before performance, trauma, or approval

• How unlearning is part of healing and obedience

• What it really means to live a God-led soft life from a place of wholeness

If you’ve ever felt like you’re faithful but tired, strong but disconnected, or confident yet unsure of who you really are, this conversation is for you.

Take your time with this one. Reflect. Journal. Pray. And allow God to gently lead you back to yourself.

Until next time, remember this: wherever God plants you, bloom with grace. 🌱